Wife to try out a well hung guy...

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  1. prawn_toast

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    Hi there,

    First time posting. I have a distinctly average sized dick. I have a mild fantasy of seeing my young wife getting fucked with a big cock but have no idea on how to approach it. We have spoken before briefly (before she gets shy) and I know she enjoys the site of a larger penis - for example she had no problem saying she loved the look of Tommy Lee's dick when we watched the Pamela Anderson sex tape and has even mentioned to me she'd like my cock to be a little longer - but she clams up a little when talking about sex in general.

    That said she does have a little glint in here eye - she did tell me about a well hung chap she saw on a balcony when we went on holiday last year - and I think, in time, she might warm to the idea.

    Finally, it's not about feeling of inadequacy on my part, just that I love my wife so much I want to give her something I cannot offer on my own.

    Ladies, how would you like to be approached in this situation? Any tips?

    Guys, ever encountered this issue and resolved it?

    Any help would be most appreciated!
     
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    Ummm have you thought of playing with "larger" toys with her? Instead of turning to another man?
     
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    yeah man, get a toy....big ones ;-)
     
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    Thanks,

    Hmm, that's a tricky one. We do have a toy that's larger than me but she doesn't like it. She prefers the little bullet vibes more. I think she's fine a piece of latex a bit of a turn off TBH.
     
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    Ok then so obviously this is something you really want to do. First you need to find out 100% if she's interested in this. I understand about being shy. But your married and introducing another person into your sex life is a big step. You have to get her to open up and talk to you. I cannot give you any further advice than that:smile: I would not be interested in another man joining myself and my husband IF I were married.
     
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    DUDE, ""Y-O-U"" SATISFY her(PERIOD). Love her, Mentally. Love her Emotionally. Love her Spiritually. Love her Physically. She "IS" in love with AND MARRIED to "YOU". You do the above, you Romantic Saint, and she will have Orgasm after Orgasm. Peace.
     
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    Are you going to be getting yourself a woman with bigger tits or a tighter pussy as well?

    I mean, surely she must want you to have sex with another woman. Oops...I mean "give you something that she can't offer on her own".
     
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    Thanks for the input - I think this comes down to whether women separate love from sex though. I'm a little suspicious that a woman married to a guy with a tiny cock never thinks she'd like to be given a right seeing to by a big cock.

    Take your point submissivegirl83 but, assuming your guy is well endowed, you're getting that itched scratched no?
     
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    Nope, average 6x5-5.25 at the largest! I'm not with him for his endowment:wink:

    I think if this is something you and your wife want to do then the two of you need to sit down and talk about it. I just wouldn't do it I cannot seperate feelings and sex. Better yet I choose not to:smile: I'm in no way judging you! The two of you do whats right for your relantionship. There are plenty of swingers and people in the world that enjoy themselves.
     
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    OK, fair point. I'm not entirely convinced she'd be up for it so maybe that's an itch best left unscratched. As you can tell I'm a little torn.

    Just out of interest then submissivegirl83, why do you frequent here? (not judging, just curious :))
     
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    Ahhh there you go :) That's why I said talk it over with her...mention it see how she feels. I mean she married you, she loves YOU, not your package! Before you get advice from people who might have done this. If you have a good and happy marriage why rock the boat? That's all I was getting at:biggrin1:

    Well I frequent here because.... lol IDK. I was on another forum and someone posted their package. I made a comment like "good Lord" and he said yeah and I haven't even posted it on LPSG.org. So here I am you know women can't leave anything alone I had to see for myself. The pictures are GREAT but they are just pictures just like porn is porn it's not REALLIFE to me. However I've stayed and hung out and posted some pics myself cause I like talking to people. I work at home so I never see anyone but my animals and I'm bored.
     
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    Do you ever drive through a neighborhood with huge nice houses, or see an expensive sports car or a model on television and think "wow, that's nice!"

    Do you go home and think:

    "I wish my wife looked better..."
    "I don't think i'll ever like my house again..."
    "I think im going to go ask that car owner if i can drive his car"

    Highly unlikely after seeing something far nicer than what you have in your life that you could no longer be happy or enjoy what YOU have.

    Now, go drive in the worst part of town and look at the poor shacks some people call home. See what kind of cars they are driving (if they have one) and then see what their wives look like.

    It's all about perspective. And chances are your wife probably has thought about a bigger dick- probably long before she ever met you. Just like you probably thought of how pretty a certain model is LONG before you ever met her. It sounds to me that you feel like you will be giving her a gift of bigger dick if you bring someone else into the bedroom. But my concerns are if that doesn't work out like you planned, are you going to let your insecurities destroy your relationship?

    If so, why not go knock on the door of a mansion and ask if your wife can move in, since you can't provide her with that either.
     
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    If i were a guy in this situation, i'd buy a huge strap on and fuck the shit out of her with it. I'd have her associating the sensation with my body on top of her, my face and my voice.
     
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    OK, but do you get turned on by the photos of big cocks? As we can see here on LPSG there are plenty of huge appendages in real life.

    If I watch porn I think, "Wow she's hot - I'd like to fuck her". Is that not the point of porn? Do you not wonder, and would not like to try, that large dick on the screen?
     
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    Has the porn you jacked off to when you were 15 affected your marriage to the point where those pussies or tits are all you think about when you are enjoying your wife's body?

    Can you not enjoy a burger somewhere even though a 5 star restaurant had the best filet mignon you've ever tasted?

    A *mature* person can not let that stuff interfere with the enjoyment of their life. A good person can look at her husband and think, he's a good man, a good father a good husband....and all of those things make her heart flutter more than any dick on any man could. And that, my friend, is a good woman if she can appreciate YOU because she chose YOU. And if you had a HUGE dick, she wouldn't have married you for your dick anyway.
     
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    Of course I wonder I also wonder what a million other things would be like. But that doesn't mean I'm going to ever get them or have them. Doesn't make me less happy with what I have.

    And yes the photos turn me on sometimes but so what a romantic scene in a movie can do it to and I've never even seen the guys package. It's not about the package!
     
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    I have the answer. :smile:
    Buy a huge strap on. :biggrin1:
    Have your wife fuck you with it. :eek:mfg:
    When she is done she is to ask you if you enjoyed it. :confused:

    As you lie there crying unable to get up and answer through the tears::17:
    "No! It hurt like hell!" :cry:

    She will then ask you why you think she might enjoy a large one.
    We are all waiting to hear the answer you will give her.
    :clap:
     
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