Something that came to mind.. Think of this.. Women here on this board have all put the importance of a large cock down on the list, as in not as important. Things like Chemistry, Personality, Honesty, Confidence and just being an all around great guy, women have stated these are the important things, not the size of the penis.. I question why your wife needs this larger cock?, I also wonder why many people men and women, say she could leave you for this bigger guy. If the important things mentioned above are met, she would stay. Problem with that is what if this big guy has all the other qualities as well.. Basicly it's bad to bring someone else into your love relationship. Also it makes one wonder how truly important the size of someones unit really is, also why someone who is supposed to be happy would potentially jeopardize the entire relationship. ???
That's because that's not true. What people say and what people do are usually two different things. Women are not encouraged to express their sexual desires openly in this society hence we get coy messages or not fully honest responses.
You never hear a woman tell her man she wants to meet up with a more honest guy if her man was less than honest.
Or that she wants to meet up with a more confident guy if her guy is not confident.
The actions never lie. Words do. Actions don't.
You NEVER see a woman check out other guys based on how that man brings flowers and candy remembering birthdays and anniversaries in comparison to their own man but women DO check out other guys sexually in comparison to their own man.
It's not that honesty and confidence and all that are unimportant but trust me there are women who go back to guys solely on their sexual prowess. Not so much on their ability to retain birthdays, anniversaries, flowers, candy, good conversation, ability to get along with mother-in-law, etc. What's the truth here now?
Women say that penis size doesn't matter that much to them. And while it's true that every woman defines her priority on penis size differently higher or lower in comparison to other preferences in a mate it DOES matter to women more than what is told publicly. Why do you think many men have a complex about it? Because it matters to women. Defining the degree may vary but it always matters. Everything matters. Your money, your job, your looks, your status. And if you rate highly on one feature highly valued by her than it can override the features that you rate more poorly on. Doesn't mean she likes the parts you rate poorly on though. EVERYTHING matters.
When a woman publicly tells a man she wants another guy, that man has lost her. A man telling a woman that would be considered villainous while this is not considered to be the same for a woman to make the suggestion.
I'd say if she wants a bigger guy, then the guy should counter offer that he try some different girls. Only fair. If both agree on this point then all is good. If she doesn't then the man needs to take a stand for his own self-respect. She wants the clichéd "cake and eat it too". If she can have cake then most certainly the guy should have pie. :wink:
John Lucas