Wife wants sex with "bigger guy"

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Doug, I can't see any responses from guys who have had experience of this, and the women are advising no and from experience.

Personally, I wouldn't want to fuck another man's wife while he watched - does that part turn you on?
 

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If she's gotta have it, she's gotta have it. It is ultimately up to her. You know you don't really have to get involved in the details. I have had affairs with quite a few married women who were frankly into it ONLY for the good sex with my big dick, and I would not have had it any other way. They were all quite horny and had no problem going back to their smaller dicked husbands and fucking the bejesus out of them, sometimes shortly after I had deposited a big load in their pussies. I even had the tables turned on me once that I know of, when my steady girlfriend fucked a guy who was staying in the same communal house we were in the morning while I was asleep and then came and woke me up to fuck her again shortly after. After giving her the good pounding she wanted, I mentioned that she was much wetter than usual and she told me that she had fucked this short blond guy in the kitchen with a dickhead so big they had to use cooking oil to lube it up enough for him to work it into her pussy and that the extra wetness was his big cum load. She had so much cum drooling down her thighs that morning it was incredible. So if she's gotta have it, she's gotta have it. Be cool, brother. :cool: Then of course it you want to participate or only just watch, that is an option, too.
 

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I have to disagree with the idea of opening up a relationship. Last month I was treated for chlamydia, I have no idea how long I'd been carrying the virus but the doctor told me that it may have been laying dormant for years and not shown up in previous tests. She told me that condoms are only 50% effective at best in reducing the chances of transmitting chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis. My former lover and I have spent a considerable amount of time tracking down former partners since and letting them know that they need to get tested. I've had a complete change of heart on opening up relationships.....if only for the STD factor. To me its just not worth it.
 

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Something that came to mind.. Think of this.. Women here on this board have all put the importance of a large cock down on the list, as in not as important. Things like Chemistry, Personality, Honesty, Confidence and just being an all around great guy, women have stated these are the important things, not the size of the penis.. I question why your wife needs this larger cock?, I also wonder why many people men and women, say she could leave you for this bigger guy. If the important things mentioned above are met, she would stay. Problem with that is what if this big guy has all the other qualities as well.. Basicly it's bad to bring someone else into your love relationship. Also it makes one wonder how truly important the size of someone’s unit really is, also why someone who is supposed to be happy would potentially jeopardize the entire relationship. ???


That's because that's not true. What people say and what people do are usually two different things. Women are not encouraged to express their sexual desires openly in this society hence we get coy messages or not fully honest responses.

You never hear a woman tell her man she wants to meet up with a more honest guy if her man was less than honest.
Or that she wants to meet up with a more confident guy if her guy is not confident.

The actions never lie. Words do. Actions don't.
You NEVER see a woman check out other guys based on how that man brings flowers and candy remembering birthdays and anniversaries in comparison to their own man but women DO check out other guys sexually in comparison to their own man.

It's not that honesty and confidence and all that are unimportant but trust me there are women who go back to guys solely on their sexual prowess. Not so much on their ability to retain birthdays, anniversaries, flowers, candy, good conversation, ability to get along with mother-in-law, etc. What's the truth here now?

Women say that penis size doesn't matter that much to them. And while it's true that every woman defines her priority on penis size differently higher or lower in comparison to other preferences in a mate it DOES matter to women more than what is told publicly. Why do you think many men have a complex about it? Because it matters to women. Defining the degree may vary but it always matters. Everything matters. Your money, your job, your looks, your status. And if you rate highly on one feature highly valued by her than it can override the features that you rate more poorly on. Doesn't mean she likes the parts you rate poorly on though. EVERYTHING matters.

When a woman publicly tells a man she wants another guy, that man has lost her. A man telling a woman that would be considered villainous while this is not considered to be the same for a woman to make the suggestion.

I'd say if she wants a bigger guy, then the guy should counter offer that he try some different girls. Only fair. If both agree on this point then all is good. If she doesn't then the man needs to take a stand for his own self-respect. She wants the clichéd "cake and eat it too". If she can have cake then most certainly the guy should have pie. :wink:

John Lucas
 

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My vote is go for it!
Sounds like she wants it - you want to watch it (maybe even get involved to some degree?) - so why not treat it as a once in a lifetime adventure.
It was a god idea to do it while well away from home (so vegas sounds good - what happens in vegas stays in vegas). Hire the biggest dicked guy your wife fancy - that removed any thoughts of falling for him - he's a professional prostitute and they don't 'fall in love' with their clients (maybe just their money). Obviously fuck safely, so thats takes care of most std's, then have a check up after if your really concerned. Take pics if you want. Job done.
Then see how you feel....remember there are no rules.
 

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doug61853Re: Wife wants sex with "bigger guy"
Well, looks like I am getting hammered here. One thing someone brought up, if the cock size isn't important to most women, then why do I need to be worried that she will leave me for a guy with a huge dick.

Also, I don't think she wants this because we have a bad relationship. On the contrary. She is my best friend, and we talk about everything. I think it is just a curiosity issue. For example, say you are a man who has only had sex with women with small breasts. Lets say A size bras. That is all you have ever felt, and all you have ever been with. Wouldn't you even be curious what it would feel like to feel a pair of DD breasts? Doesn't mean you don't love you wife or will leave her for the Pamela Anderson boobs, but wouldn't you wonder?

I think that's all it is. Not a bad relationship. Not a lack of trust. Not anything like that.

My response to you,
I don`t think you understand what a big thick cock can do, if you think watching her play with a cucumber is neat just imagine that cucumber picking her up with every stroke as she`s being spread apart and thrown around. Then picked up into the air by that cucumber while her back arches and all her weight is placed on her tight throbing p***y as she`s stretched in ways you never thought were possible by a six foot three man weighing two hundred and thirty five pounds.

Just imagine as this man is pounding your wifes p***y into submission and sending her into extacy and orgasmic bliss, as her whole body tightens and clinches on his thick pulsating cock, then she cums so hard and long that all she can do is lay in the fetal position for the next hour or so as she tries to regain her breathing and heart rate to normal levels while her thighs twitch in and out of control.

Now ask yourself again if this is a great idea, do you really want her addicted to something like that?

Do you think your relationship is strong enough so that she doesn`t just run off and leave you.

Stick with the cucumbers my friend.

lafever
 

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Honestly i wouldnt. From the sound of it i dont think you want it, and it doesnt seem your relationship is open or strong enough to survive.

If you are dead set on doing it. Just make sure that you can have sex with another woman.

though honestly id say no. Curiosity or no, the fact is that you arnt ready for something like this and if you say no and she doesnt listen.......... Just have a good lawyer on call.
 

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Disclaimer: I am usually "miss nice" but for some strange reason, this thread riled me beyond belief.

-- What this couple does is between them -- is it anyone elses' business?

-- Sorry, men, dick size is NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT the only reason a woman stays with a man. A small percentage of women, maybe. Most women? Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope!!!!

-- Sorry, men, women DO DO DO DO DO DO DO notice how romantic other men are to their women. Most women are MORE JEALOUS ABOUT THIS THAN DICK SIZE. WOMEN ARE DREADFULLY HURT BY LACK OF ATTENTION AND FLOWERS.

-- If this is what the woman really wants, then she's going to get it -- with her husband or without him.

So there.

Let them be.
 

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mate ust a thought, i saw this well type of amle/felamle dildo on tv abput a year ago. u put ur dick in the one side and the other side is a dildo thats bigger. sortof like the same idea as a condom just with some more latex, for use in such circumstances.

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doug61853Re: Wife wants sex with "bigger guy"
Well, looks like I am getting hammered here. One thing someone brought up, if the cock size isn't important to most women, then why do I need to be worried that she will leave me for a guy with a huge dick.

Also, I don't think she wants this because we have a bad relationship. On the contrary. She is my best friend, and we talk about everything. I think it is just a curiosity issue. For example, say you are a man who has only had sex with women with small breasts. Lets say A size bras. That is all you have ever felt, and all you have ever been with. Wouldn't you even be curious what it would feel like to feel a pair of DD breasts? Doesn't mean you don't love you wife or will leave her for the Pamela Anderson boobs, but wouldn't you wonder?

I think that's all it is. Not a bad relationship. Not a lack of trust. Not anything like that.

My response to you,
I don`t think you understand what a big thick cock can do, if you think watching her play with a cucumber is neat just imagine that cucumber picking her up with every stroke as she`s being spread apart and thrown around. Then picked up into the air by that cucumber while her back arches and all her weight is placed on her tight throbing p***y as she`s stretched in ways you never thought were possible by a six foot three man weighing two hundred and thirty five pounds.

Just imagine as this man is pounding your wifes p***y into submission and sending her into extacy and orgasmic bliss, as her whole body tightens and clinches on his thick pulsating cock, then she cums so hard and long that all she can do is lay in the fetal position for the next hour or so as she tries to regain her breathing and heart rate to normal levels while her thighs twitch in and out of control.

Now ask yourself again if this is a great idea, do you really want her addicted to something like that?

Do you think your relationship is strong enough so that she doesn`t just run off and leave you.

Stick with the cucumbers my friend.

lafever

I am not worried in the least bit of her running off with anyone. She just has a curiosity or appetite for this, so I thought a time or two would be a good gift to let her have. And I showed her your post about what it could be like for her, she smiled and said "Wow. sounds like fun".
 
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Disclaimer: I am usually "miss nice" but for some strange reason, this thread riled me beyond belief.

-- What this couple does is between them -- is it anyone elses' business?

-- Sorry, men, dick size is NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT the only reason a woman stays with a man. A small percentage of women, maybe. Most women? Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope!!!!

-- Sorry, men, women DO DO DO DO DO DO DO notice how romantic other men are to their women. Most women are MORE JEALOUS ABOUT THIS THAN DICK SIZE. WOMEN ARE DREADFULLY HURT BY LACK OF ATTENTION AND FLOWERS.

-- If this is what the woman really wants, then she's going to get it -- with her husband or without him.

So there.

Let them be.

Excellent post.....I agree 100%. Oh, and yes, you are hot!
 

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Do you have a pre-nup ??
Last thing you want is her getting the big cock and half your $$ when she leaves for the donkey dick.........