Um, how many times has a woman left a man for another man who would bring flowers on that alone? That doesn't happen or you would see hosts of stories on the subject.
I believe in Evidence of the Apparent. What you see as it is now pretty much tells the story. What exists in the current shows the patterns.
And while this maybe a troll post or something from one of those from the cuckold lifestyle ask yourself this? Why IS there a cuckold lifestyle to begin with? Why DO these type of stories resonate with people so? Why DO these stories come true in real life? People actually do this, you know. I've read about hotwives and the ankle bracelet and all that stuff. Bulls and cucks and all this mindscrewing going on with the husband becoming a cameo guest star in his relationship and loving it. To each their own. But this is real.
I've never heard of the flowerman lifestyle when a woman leaves her husband in total or in soul for another man who brings flowers, cards, candy, and is good with the in-laws. That doesn't happen.
On the contrary. Dick size is VERY important in this society or sites like these and Measurection wouldn't exist. Evidence of the Apparent. It's like racism or as I would prefer to call it more correctly ethnic hate. It's all around and it is pervasive within the entire culture. Yet it is minimized when it comes to acknowledging that reality. It is preferred to sweep it under the rug and make it taboo to mention its name.
Penis size is important not only to men but to women which MAKES it important to men by default. Every woman may value it differently in her hierarchy of desires but it is important nevertheless. Or else there wouldn't be penis sleeves or strap-ons and dildos. Evidence of the Apparent.
What I've found is like with most things in society people will not admit and will not be honest in total about what's going on.
And if dick size was not important to women posting here then why are their preferences and sometimes mandates so strong when it comes to penis size. That is intellectually dishonest. The women here are either curious about this feature of men or they have vaunted INTEREST in these features. It matters to these women strongly enough for them to be here. People don't go anywhere where they have no interest.
I'm not one to mince words and I like to tell like it is. Beating around the bush and bullshitting just ain't my style. All women have a range of preference whether wide-ranging or narrow-ranging and so long as the man falls into this range at least sexually speaking penis size won't matter. Once a man falls out of this range penis size matters a lot. So by the nature of there being a range to begin with denotes that penis size matters and has the capability of being a point of contention.
These are adults and they can live their lives anyway they want. It may have benefits the cuckold lifestyle. People are not truly monogamous and this may be a way to deal with that reality. Might not work for everybody but if they're OK with it, so be it.
The fact that you added a wink to that last statement may denote that you have dormant or active interest in this lifestyle yourself despite what you said. That or you agree with its existence.
Treating any mate well, male or female, is very important in a lovers' relationship. However sometimes this is not enough and cheating begins to the chagrin of the one thinking he/she was treating the other one right. Happens all the time. LoveShack.org can give you plenty of stories.
SEX. It's the motivator. When you get down to it all this other stuff we put towards relationships is the dressing for the meat of it which is SEX. Pure biology. We may be in denial about it but that is REALLY what it's all about. And you see when push comes to shove how that can break up relationships quicker than anything else. Unless both parties have diminished or non-existent sex drives, SEX will make someone go for another mate even if associated with a mate on paper. In reality that person has left for another even if temporary.
Flowers and Hawaii may get complaints but sex makes them leave. And that's the doggone truth.
John Lucas
I couldn't disagree with you more : Your main contention is not wrong, that sex and size are important, but it's the degree of importance you put on them that I find major issue with.
I never said that a woman would leave her man for some flowers, but likewise, I don't think a woman would leave after hearing a fleeting rumor of a "big dick." If we're talking girls, teenagers, sure - when I was a teenager, I cared about Fuck-All, and I only followed my own self-interest; as we get older, however, the more mature of us realize that there is a lot more to life than the immediate fix, and we learn to look past those momentary twangs of curiosity and interest.
Example - I'm happily taken, when I find out this girl who's into me gives really great head, while my girlfriend's head is so-so; do I leave my girl, who I love and cherish, for a girl who gives good head? If I do, am I not just about the most shallow person ever? That is what you are equating this to - for a woman to leave the love of her life for a guy with a big dick would be the equivalent of leaving the love of your life for a girl who gives good head.
You bring up penis sleeves, exactly how many are bought a year? Clearly, if this issue is really as prevalent as you make it seem, then these things should be selling like hot-cakes; I would wager that AT MOST, 1 in 100 people own one - the dildo and vibrator argument doesn't stand, because those are masturbatory devices.
And when did I say women here didn't value penis size? The idea of a woman, who doesn't care about penis size, coming on to this site seems contradictory. Of course they care! No one is denying that size plays a role in sexuality, but again, it's to what degree. My main point is that penis size PALES in comparison to what's truly important to them, namely, that you take care of and provide for them - "Pure biology." A big dick is the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
I'm not denying the importance of sex - I would probably rate it higher than most in my needs department - but it is not the Single Motivator you make it out to be. Don't buy into the popular, male-dominated, pervasive sexual-theory in the world of science today, that sex is simply a genetic match-making game, it's singular purpose to propagate the species. Science always wants a unifying theory, the thought that brings it all together, so we can all say, "ah" and realize what it was all about; "Sex is about finding the best genetic match for us and procreating our species" True. "Sex is about pleasure-seeking." True. "Sex is about submission and control." True. Point being, sex can't be confined to one dimension, and the efforts to do so obscure the meaning and power of sex.
My main point is this - love and sex are two different things, and both are motivators in their own right. People will cheat, but the reasons for that are usually varied and complex, much more than, "he has a bigger dick." I wish it were that simple... life and love are so much more than that.
