Wife wants vibrator

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  1. seaduecer

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    Ladies (gents??),

    Mumma has come around to daddy's way of thinkin'. She is now open to the idea of the purchase of a vibrator. Need to know what to look for; style, size, make, etc...

    Any suggestions???
     
  2. B_Think_Kink

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    Let her choose.
     
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    If she was like my wife...very conservative, virgin til wedding night, thought sex toys were of the devil, etc....I wouldn't come home with a jack-rabbit as long as your arm. We started with a device you could buy at target...one of those "personal massagers". We worked our way up to a small g-spot vibrator. However, our favorite is a "magic bullet" wrapped in some gel stuff and has a ring that wraps around the base of my dick. It gets us both off and she loves it. It was called a "rhino" or something like that.
     
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    The "Rabbit". Or some variation of it. Works great on my gal. Everytime, it puts her over the edge. :wall:
     
  5. Symphonic

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    Careful, vibration is "addictive" and actually numbs the part it touches over time. Her not wanting one may have been a blessing in disguise; you must realize that when two sensations are present, as well as the option of having one or the other, you lose to machinery everytime.
     
  6. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Depends what your after. If you want a full sized vibrator go with the cyberflesh realistic type, the hard plastic ones can be awkward and hard to et used to at first. If you are after a smaller clit vib then any small bullet style will do the job. Also ive never tried one myself but there isalways vibrating cock rings that could be a good starting point
     
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    Hitachi Magic Wand.
     
  8. lonestar692000

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    I agree that it depends of what she is wanting. Definitely let her choose. She may want big, she may want small...
     
  9. ManlyBanisters

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    Well - the guys saying let her choose do have point but if she wants you to buy her one or neither of you are sure then there's no harm in suggesting something - you don't have to take the advice :smile: I'd go with something medium. Small bullet vibes are great, it's true, for playing with on the clit and in cock rings and such, but they are not much for penetration, which is what most people thinking of a first vibrator think of. And of course too big and you might put her off (anyway - big vibes aren't much better than medium, dildos yes, vibes no - that's IME, anyway). A medium size (e.g. 6x4.5) with a slight curve will give her the feel of penetration, vibes and the curve will add to g-spot massage.

    Rabbits and Magic Wands are great - possibly a bit intense for a first timer who is just testing the waters (?) or maybe not...

    That's just not true - not for all women anyway. I have an extensive toy collection but not one of those things can make me cum like my man can. For me the toy play is about getting off and different sesations but getting fucked by my guy is SO much better.
     
  10. dolfette

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    :rolleyes:

    i find this post just plain insulting.
    you know fuck all about women.
     
  11. alex8.5

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    Vibrators are fun, but can be addictive, because they are a sure thing all of the time. Make sure you slip her the cock and make sure she cums everytime, because you could be replaced.
     
  12. dolfette

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    intimidated by a piece of latex with a AA motor.
     
  13. B_Jennuine73

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    Clitoral stimulation using a vibrator can be a double edged sword. Some women CAN get addicted to it and are eventually unable to cum clitorally unless it is with vibration.
    The clit gets de-sensitized and more and more vibration is needed to cum.

    I would suggest a dildo. Fuck her with it while you eat her out. Get one that is a little smaller than your cock, she will be satisfied, but your cock will always make her feel more full.

    There is no need to jump down someone's throat for giving their opinion.
     
  14. dolfette

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    "you must realize that when two sensations are present, as well as the option of having one or the other, you lose to machinery everytime." isn't just giving an opinion.
    it's making sweeping generalisations about all women based on paranoia and little else.

    some women leave their husbands for other women. doesn't mean that her having female friends will mean she goes off dick and turns lesbian.

    wanking to porn is a dead cert for an orgasm but i would never suggest that all men will go off women if you let him jack...even though you do get a tiny minority of men who do.

    this jealousy over toys is just misogynistic bullshit.

    don't give her too much pleasure! she might reject your penis!!
     
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    My friend Sasha dumped her boyfriend after she was given a vibrating dildo. He opinion was " why have to bother with the bullshit of a man when a sex toy will do me and keep it's mouth shut." I agree she had issues. But it may not be uncommon for a woman to dump a man in favor of a toy.

    Cher once said " The best sex I've ever had is with my toy in one hand, and the fingers of my other hand."

    I tend to agree a bit. I've had jerk sessions where it was literally the best satisfaction ever.
     
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    get the industrial strength model... :naughty:
     
  17. dolfette

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    yes, it IS uncommon.
    these days almost every woman i know has a vibe...and yet they still crave sex.

    it's not uncommon for women to dump men. it's not uncommon for them to say things to spite those men. if his only appeal was that he made her cum then what kind of relationship was it????

    good sex is a hell of a lot more than pump/buzz/cum.
    good sex is skin to skin, kissing, touching, smelling, feeling, intimacy and a whole body experience.

    to reduce in your mind all women's desires to just getting her cunt pumped is an insult to all women.
    and to suggest she shouldn't experience too much pleasure incase she stops feeling due gratitude towards his peepee? i don't have words to describe how patronizing, sexist and pitiful that is.
    it's just wrong.
     
  18. StraightCock4Her

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    There is a way to turn your dick into something better than a vibrator. It's completely manual and it's actually pretty easy to do. No vibrator attachments necessary.
     
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    Man has yet to create a vibrator that pleases a woman better than I.
     
  20. dolfette

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    you know what?
    i'm actually willing to believe that! LOL
     
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