My friend Sasha dumped her boyfriend after she was given a vibrating dildo. He opinion was " why have to bother with the bullshit of a man when a sex toy will do me and keep it's mouth shut." I agree she had issues. But it may not be uncommon for a woman to dump a man in favor of a toy.
Cher once said " The best sex I've ever had is with my toy in one hand, and the fingers of my other hand."
I tend to agree a bit. I've had jerk sessions where it was literally the best satisfaction ever.
yes, it IS uncommon.
these days almost every woman i know has a vibe...and yet they still crave sex.
it's not uncommon for women to dump men. it's not uncommon for them to say things to spite those men. if his only appeal was that he made her cum then what kind of relationship was it????
good sex is a hell of a lot more than pump/buzz/cum.
good sex is skin to skin, kissing, touching, smelling, feeling, intimacy and a whole body experience.
to reduce in your mind all women's desires to just getting her cunt pumped is an insult to all women.
and to suggest she shouldn't experience too much pleasure incase she stops feeling due gratitude towards his peepee? i don't have words to describe how patronizing, sexist and pitiful that is.
it's just wrong.