Wife was honest about size *Mature Discussion*

[StraightCock4Her]

surgically enhance your cock by cutting it off.

Or just surgically improve her vagina by making it bigger.

 

[petite]

I have never found being on top easy if he's too big. It's more like a knees up position but you are just on top. It's no easier than say laying on your back with your knees pulled up. I also find it very hard on my knee joints to try to control the depth while on top. It's really a big pain as far as girth goes. It's easier to lay completely on top of him (like reverse missionary, with her on top and him on bottom) when it comes to not tearing. I can also put my pelvis higher (like near his belly button) as to not allow him to push too deeply inside.

That's really interesting because I've found the opposite to be true! I could be because I have a tilted uterus, though, I don't know. I guess this just goes to show that every woman is going to be different!

If I'm on my back and I lift my knees up, the closer I lift them to my chest, the deeper he seems to go, and it can be very painful. He really likes this position a lot, but I rarely let him do it and it makes me nervous. Putting my legs out straight prevents him from going too deep.

I dislike being on top in the "cowgirl" which is the positing where a man lies down on the bed and the woman straddles him. It hurts my knees, my legs get tired easily from trying to balance on top and not sit all the way down on his penis, and in order to use my arms to help guide myself while I move I have to lean forward or backward, which makes moving up and down his cock much more awkward. It's not something I can sustain for very long and I've never orgasmed in that position.

The chair solves so many of those problems for me. No knee pain, the leg position makes it so that I can go for an incredibly long time before tiring, the ability to grip something sturdy and use my arms and shoulders and back give me so much more control that it just works for me. The closeness of our bellies also allows me to rub my mons pubis against him as I move up and down, which stimulates my clitoris (sorry to be so graphic, but how else to explain?)

His penis is girthy, but I have no difficulty with in for vaginal sex, just depth issues. If it's been a few weeks since we've had sex, because of a business trip, I am tighter, but not too uncomfortable to enjoy sex. We sometimes use lubricant to help with that.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I think you explained it when you describe it being awkward to be on top. We see this kind of straddling in porn, but those girls are doing things for the camera angle, also anything but missionary and many of them are pretty agile compared to me.

My husband is roughly 6.5 by 6.5 give or take, but he gets hard as a rock. If he had a little give to his cock from it not being super hard i could bounce all over it. The few times he didn't get extremely hard i was able to take anything from any position as his penis could give way to the pushing against the vagina and not have my vagina stretching to the max for him only.

Legs held up is practically impossible if he isnt inside already and the stretch at the bottom of the vaginal opening burns too much and it goes in just too deep.

 

[RawDog]

It's easier to lay completely on top of him (like reverse missionary, with her on top and him on bottom) when it comes to not tearing. I can also put my pelvis higher (like near his belly button) as to not allow him to push too deeply inside.

That's what I meant when I said:

As far as limiting how deep you go, since she's got the final word on that, she needs to be on top and ride you to her comfort level. She can keep you quite shallow if she lies horizontal on top of you.

 

[jtmony08]

Experiment with different positions. When my wife & I first got married, we had to be careful is certain positions. I'm not huge by LPSG standards, but size is not always the problem. Some women simply have small vaginas. Before getting married, I had a GF who I could not penetrate. We tried everything: lube, positions which let her control the penetration, etc. She was simply just small. Handjobs and blowjobs became our sex of choice. A few years ago, she contacted me and I asked how she was doing. She informed me that she'd had a procedure done to increase her size. According to her, she had a very rare, very small vagina. Sex is still limited to average guys, but she can now at least have sex. BTW, she and her husband have 3 kids, all born by C sections.

 

[psidom]

i think my girlfriends vagina has adapted.
she would only hurt when i went too deep
moreso because of girth not length.

i hate my tapering penis.:redface:

looooooooob loooob looob!!

 

[B_bardox14]

It took a long time for me to get use to my beau. He is very long and very thick. First time left me sore all the next day. Actuall went home and put ice on my pussy. Limiting the deepth and certain positions were all I could handle for a while. Laying flat with my legs together and him with his legs on the outside of mine gave him just the right thrust to fill me up. I still can't take him completely in missionary. Doggy I can though. I'm determined to take all of him missionary one day though.

 

[HazelGod]

I still can't take him completely in missionary. Doggy I can though. I'm determined to take all of him missionary one day though.

Interesting...women are indeed all built differently inside. I've known several who had the opposite build as you, where they could accommodate me in missionary but felt I was bottoming out in doggy position.

 

[deleted356736]

I was reading this and thinking about my present and past experiences, and thought my size (7" x 6" albeit closer to 7" girth at the base of my penis) was not extremely big. Although, the experience of Praying Mantis is intriguing.

My experience with my wife is she can take my length and girth in any position with appropriate arousal, although sometimes the arousal isn't quite enough and I can hurt her. The solution is to make initial penetration very slow and gentle, and read her body's reaction. With past partners, I tended to encourage them to get on top without really thinking about it, because that position always worked with every woman whereas some other positions didn't. Them on top, they controlled things, even if short and / or tight inside. In any case, that's what has worked for me with many different women, with only one partner who couldn't handle my size with comfort no matter how we did it (and I don't know if it was my length or girth, but I suspect it was my girth).

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Don't take my experience as the standard. I've been to probably a half dozen Gynecologists and only one has been delicate with me because she apparently has more experience or compassion for needing to use smaller instruments. I'm not the norm when it comes to vaginal size. I just get tighter while trying to orgasm and after orgasm it's generally way too tight. I hear a lot of guys recommend bringing her to orgasm as a way to get her aroused enough for penetration.

 

[RawDog]

I just get tighter while trying to orgasm and after orgasm it's generally way too tight.

If and whenever the guy was inside you after you orgasm, do you need him to stop moving until you relax, or is it still "Game On" when you clench down like that?

My wife just said that after her clit orgasms, she tightens too. If it's vaginal she relaxes.

 

[Pitbull]

My advice: find a woman who can handle your size that loves you.
-Ranger

Me and my wife

His wife might not appreciate him doing that.

 

[Pitbull]

I love love love the inverted jockey position though!

Is this it?

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_uC8oxJi7FqE/SmhssNTy96I/AAAAAAAAAsI/aJBmk_YHR6I/S660/circus-horse.jpeg

Looks dangerous.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

If and whenever the guy was inside you after you orgasm, do you need him to stop moving until you relax, or is it still "Game On" when you clench down like that?

My wife just said that after her clit orgasms, she tightens too. If it's vaginal she relaxes.

I have to tighten up all the muscles in my body (especially lower body) in order to build up tension for an orgasm. A few times i have been able to get a vibrator during a strange positions in order to orgasm during sex. I can barely feel much of clitoral stimulation during sex because so much of the sensation and focus is on being stretched by girth.

If he is inside while i am trying to have a clitoral orgasm i have to make him almost stop entirely so i can focus on the clitoral sensation and as soon as i start to orgasm i can push down and try not to consciously tighten up and then he can thrust as hard as he wants to and its like i dont have an end to how much length i can take. It's quite interesting. Nothing feels quit like it but tightening up while having him inside is quite uncomfortable and makes for more urethral friction with each thrust and i tend to be more prone to bladder infections after those sessions. And more sore.

 

[deleted356736]

I hear a lot of guys recommend bringing her to orgasm as a way to get her aroused enough for penetration.

That's what I do with my wife; but I also wait for a couple of minutes so that she can relax from her peak, otherwise it's a problem. Another woman I had a long-term relationship with had a different problem, in that her clitoris became extremely sensitive after her orgasm. This mean we had to wait or else my stretching of her labia would have been painful for her.

In both of these cases, the problem is dealing with my girth (5.5" at my glans, 6" mid-shaft, almost 7" at the base), rather than my length. I can control depth of penetration, or if my wife / former lover was on top they can / could control depth of penetration. Easy. But thickness is what thickness is.

A couple of other comments on the next post. My wife told me that she too is almost overwhelmed by being stretched and filled during intercourse, and additional stimulation of her clitoris is unpleasant for her. When performing oral sex with new partners, the way I often worked out how to get it right for them was to feel their tension building, their legs stiffening, and just stay on that spot because that was a sure sign they were getting closer to coming.

I don't think Mr Average has any idea of some of the difficulties, does he?

 

[galaxus]

Just use lube, or more lube.

 

[RawDog]

I have to tighten up all the muscles in my body (especially lower body) in order to build up tension for an orgasm.

I could tell when my ex was about to cum because she'd hold her breath and tense up. Freaked me out at first, but eventually got so used to it I'd try timing my orgasms with her breathing pattern. Your explanation makes sense to me now what and why she was doing what she did.

A few times i have been able to get a vibrator during a strange positions in order to orgasm during sex. I can barely feel much of clitoral stimulation during sex because so much of the sensation and focus is on being stretched by girth.

On a different thread I mentioned how often my wife would feel both pleasure and pain from my girth. Sometimes it would seem that the stretch would be painful enough to give her an instant orgasm. I know I'm explaining it wrongly, but I believe it's similar with you. The sensation of being filled up is overpowering whatever nuances exist in the background.

 

[nicenycdick]

And they ask, "Where is the large penis support in the Large Penis Support Group!"



"Right here in this thread", I say!

 

[Guy-jin]

The obvious answer is that you guys need to try different positions until you find ones that work, and that you need to be careful and gentle and loving in your love-making.

That said, for us, missionary with me on top is certainly the most comfortable for her, and I do not go all the way in (but I don't really have to). It's also fine with her on top. Doggie style is right out, though.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Missionary is probably my favorite position of all. It's not boring for those of us who get the most pleasure out of it.