Wife was honest about size *Mature Discussion*

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While doing the normal missionary, go deep enough so your glans is in contact with her posterior fornix. Now concentrate on what's going on above her torso...

**SLAP** PAY ATTENTION... ABOVE HER TORSO

Kiss her up and down her neck, be gentle with her, caress her breasts, let your hands roam, but above all leave your cock motionless inside her, filling her up, almost painfully, but just a not-so-gentle reminder that you are firmly planted inside her.

Involuntarily, she will start squeezing little squeezes to compensate for the motionlessness. Now prop yourself up, gaze at her lovingly and ever so slowly pull yourself out. Because of the vacuum seal formed from the squeezes, the depth, and the contact, both of you will feel a little tug on your cockhead, then a pop. You're actually slightly pulling the back of her vagina out with your cock, and the pop is this vacuum being relieved.

This is where length counts...

She'll feel your absence back there, she's hungry, she'll want to pull you back into her again. This time (since you were propped up) you lay back down on her to kiss. As you're lowering your face downward to kiss her, push in. But don't push in like before, push in deeper. Much deeper. She's needing to be filled, more so than before because now she feels the void deep insider her.

Don't just push in though, push in and ride high so your cock is using her entrance as a fulcrum to push you deep and downward away from her uterus and cervix. I've noticed my wife's vagina more capable of being stretched downward (towards her spine) more easily than upward (towards her bellybutton).

She'll either cum or ask you to stop what your doing. If she cums, high five. If she tells you to stop whatever the fuck you're doing, blame me and report back here for instructions on the best deals for jewelry and flowers.

I think I just came.
 

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Originally Posted by RawDog
While doing the normal missionary, go deep enough so your glans is in contact with her posterior fornix. Now concentrate on what's going on above her torso...

**SLAP** PAY ATTENTION... ABOVE HER TORSO

Kiss her up and down her neck, be gentle with her, caress her breasts, let your hands roam, but above all leave your cock motionless inside her, filling her up, almost painfully, but just a not-so-gentle reminder that you are firmly planted inside her.

Involuntarily, she will start squeezing little squeezes to compensate for the motionlessness. Now prop yourself up, gaze at her lovingly and ever so slowly pull yourself out. Because of the vacuum seal formed from the squeezes, the depth, and the contact, both of you will feel a little tug on your cockhead, then a pop. You're actually slightly pulling the back of her vagina out with your cock, and the pop is this vacuum being relieved.

This is where length counts...

She'll feel your absence back there, she's hungry, she'll want to pull you back into her again. This time (since you were propped up) you lay back down on her to kiss. As you're lowering your face downward to kiss her, push in. But don't push in like before, push in deeper. Much deeper. She's needing to be filled, more so than before because now she feels the void deep insider her.

Don't just push in though, push in and ride high so your cock is using her entrance as a fulcrum to push you deep and downward away from her uterus and cervix. I've noticed my wife's vagina more capable of being stretched downward (towards her spine) more easily than upward (towards her bellybutton).

She'll either cum or ask you to stop what your doing. If she cums, high five. If she tells you to stop whatever the fuck you're doing, blame me and report back here for instructions on the best deals for jewelry and flowers.

mmmmmmmmmmmmm Oh yeah! I WANNA MARRY YOU!!!!!
I think I just came.
 

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I could tell when my ex was about to cum because she'd hold her breath and tense up. Freaked me out at first, but eventually got so used to it I'd try timing my orgasms with her breathing pattern. Your explanation makes sense to me now what and why she was doing what she did.



On a different thread I mentioned how often my wife would feel both pleasure and pain from my girth. Sometimes it would seem that the stretch would be painful enough to give her an instant orgasm. I know I'm explaining it wrongly, but I believe it's similar with you. The sensation of being filled up is overpowering whatever nuances exist in the background.

Use lots of lube, I like the KY Warming kind, but being stretched feels sooooo good, and yes, sometimes instant orgasm!
 

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I think I just came.

No compliment more sincere than that. Thank you. My wife calls that "Deep Dicking"

mmmmmmmmmmmmm Oh yeah! I WANNA MARRY YOU!!!!!

If we ever move to Utah, I will definitely let you know! Thanks!

na, that shit would just get on my nerves.
i'd push him off and have a wank instead.

Oh good, maybe then I could finally have the last word... See 'ya! :wank:

I dont like the downward stretch, it pulls the urethral opening inward even more than usual.

By that, do you mean the cervix? I was thinking of changing my handle (again) to "The Wizard of Os". Bad idea?

Use lots of lube, I like the KY Warming kind, but being stretched feels sooooo good, and yes, sometimes instant orgasm!

I bought this a few months ago:

Amazon.com: ID Millennium Lube 16 oz Lube Personal Lubricant: Health & Personal Care

Because it's a silicone lubricant, we just need to apply it twice when we fuck for about an hour and a half (yesterday) Today we just did it for an hour. My wife doesn't feel any of the abrasive burns because of the rubbing, but the stretch is still the hurts-so-good type of filling up instant orgasm stretch.
 

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I dont like the downward stretch, it pulls the urethral opening inward even more than usual.
By that, do you mean the cervix? I was thinking of changing my handle (again) to "The Wizard of Os". Bad idea?

I re-read that this morning and realized you said "urethral" not "uterine". Pay no mind to my response then.

I wonder, though, if this urethral pull wouldn't make your UTIs less frequent? Like stretching your hamstrings before a hard workout?
 

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No it pulls the urethra inside the vagina spreading any bacteria directly inside rather than the urethral opening sitting above the vagina and out of the way of the penis going in and out.

For example there is an invasive surgery technique used to move the urethra slightly out of the way to help with sex related urinary tract infections. I'm not sure i would do it. I've had urethral surgery before and the pain of recovery is far worse than just taking a single antibiotic after sex.
 
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I'm 8 by 6 fully aroused, & I've only had 2 women complain. I've never had to use lube for anything I do as normally they're wetter than an otter's pocket!

So this discussion is all a little odd to me. Maybe it's because I'm quite no holds barred animalistic, & the women I attract seem to percieve this in me, desire it, & go mad for it when they get it.

Dear God, the GF even took a 10 inch dildo to the hilt, & then my cock at the same time this morning. She said it felt a bit much, then started coming continuously like a banshee wanting it even harder.

It's possibly all to do with complete trust & abandonment of all inhibition.
 

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I'm 8 by 6 fully aroused, & I've only had 2 women complain. I've never had to use lube for anything I do as normally they're wetter than an otter's pocket!

So this discussion is all a little odd to me. Maybe it's because I'm quite no holds barred animalistic, & the women I attract seem to percieve this in me, desire it, & go mad for it when they get it.

Dear God, the GF even took a 10 inch dildo to the hilt, & then my cock at the same time this morning. She said it felt a bit much, then started coming continuously like a banshee wanting it even harder.

It's possibly all to do with complete trust & abandonment of all inhibition.

Wow! A 10" dildo AND your penis? Okay, that's never going to happen with me! I bought one of those We-Vibes and the fit was so tight that it hurt his penis and it was not comfortable for me either!

Some women are obviously just bigger inside than other women.
 
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No it pulls the urethra inside the vagina spreading any bacteria directly inside rather than the urethral opening sitting above the vagina and out of the way of the penis going in and out.

I remember a loong time ago you had posted on your UTI thread that a wide cock usually "smooshes" your urinary tract and that the irritation is what encourages the bacteria to grow. (I remember this because this is what made most sense when my wife had a bad UTI then too). Aside from pissing after, can you think of any way (position or angle) of dilating the urethra while having sex?

For example there is an invasive surgery technique used to move the urethra slightly out of the way to help with sex related urinary tract infections. I'm not sure i would do it. I've had urethral surgery before and the pain of recovery is far worse than just taking a single antibiotic after sex.

Surgery is definitely not something we want. What kind of antibiotic? Do you take it when you can sense it coming on as a preventative?
 

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My doc wrote me a Rx for 6 months worth of antibiotics, enough for 1 a day incase we have sex everyday (which we don't) but i just take one before sex or after sex and it helps stave off any bacterial growth. I have a hard time peeing after sex if the friction has caused me to swell up at all. But i've been working a lot harder and getting the urine out as soon as i get up out of the bed. A combo of that and the antibiotics have really cut down on the amount of bladder infections, in fact i've not had any since started the prophylactic antibiotic. The antibiotic is Bactrim. When i got an infection i would take Cipro because it was the only kind that would irradicate the infection.

I don't really sense an infection coming on, usually 2 to 3 days post sex (especially depending on the style of sex we had) i can start having the burning with urination and a few days after that the smell of my urine gets horribly putred. It grows pretty quickly in a warm moist environment like the bladder.