Wife was honest about size *Mature Discussion*

[RawDog]

My doc wrote me a Rx for 6 months worth of antibiotics, enough for 1 a day incase we have sex everyday...QUOTE]

PM, thanks for the information. I forwarded your post to my wife. Let's see if we can stave the UTIs better now.

oh dear, oh dear, oh dear.

What?!? Sex is serious stuff for me. I'd like to think sex can be therapeutic and enjoyable.

Knowing you, and your surliness, you'll probably respond with

 

[dolfette]

What?!? Sex is serious stuff for me. I'd like to think sex can be therapeutic and enjoyable.

Knowing you, and your surliness, you'll probably respond with

which is why i was surprised you'd post something quite so dim.









ps.

 

[RawDog]

Wow, a compliment and an insult all wrapped up into one sentence.

I love you too.

 

[Pitbull]

.....its a curse man, a curse I tell ya!

We are all cursed in some way

some are cursed with too big
some are cursed with too small

but the worst of the cursed
they haven't any at all

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Missionary is about all I get. Doggy is too painful, her on top paralyzes most girls.....its a curse man, a curse I tell ya!

Yeah people like you have to learn how to do sutures so you can sew up the tears afterwards. You don't get to pound as hard as you want....you don't get to fuck her in the ass....most positions are experimental and usually thrown out of the list of good positions for her.

You are a missionary man when you have a monster dick. The regular sized men just don't understand do they?

 

[cjay8inc]

Thanks so much for all the responses... I will definately take each suggestion and put it to use. Sex with my wife is awesome in the limited positions that we try. I'm trying to please her as much as I can and giver her mind blowing orgasms.

I'm starting to understand that sex isn't just physical to women its more mental than it is with men. Yes I do understand women love the sight of a big penis.. My wife used to just love me laying there stroking it or would get a huge turn on when I would be asleep and have a hard-on she would just love the size of it.

However, I believe most women just get off when they have a deep connection with a guy Not just a guy that is deep inside them.

I honestly used to think that if a guy were big it would actually make the orgasm better? Girls what do you think of this? Is it true? I bigger penis makes you orgasm harder?

 

[SandraSmithCarver]

Originally Posted by Praying_Mantis
I dont like the downward stretch, it pulls the urethral opening inward even more than usual.

I've never experienced that, maybe he just knew how to work it, I've just experienced that "full' filling, where I feel completely "filled" up, like from side to side, he was also long enough where he gave me "cervical" orgasms, hm I miss him

 

[Guy-jin]

Missionary is probably my favorite position of all. It's not boring for those of us who get the most pleasure out of it.

Agreed. It's a very close position also, so in addition to accommodating size disparity, it's a very intimate position. Probably my favorite.

 

[RubberHarley]

After my wife had our son, our sex life improved 100%. It just seems she became larger inside and I fit in much better. I can go all the way in now without hurting her in any way. Don't really know how to explain it.

 

[RubberHarley]

Thanks for the link to sex positions. My wife and I looked at it and like it. We plan on using quite a few of these. Appreciate you posting. Regards, Rubber Harley

 

[B_crackoff]

Wow! A 10" dildo AND your penis? Okay, that's never going to happen with me! I bought one of those We-Vibes and the fit was so tight that it hurt his penis and it was not comfortable for me either!

Some women are obviously just bigger inside than other women.

Yeah, I think I posted before she had a riproaring birth 10 years ago, & thought all women were as slack - before I said - nuh uh - leading to her getting a pelvic toner!

In fairness - all of both separately, then about 7.5 inches or a bit more of both together - hard to tell, but the girth of both must have been 9 inches. It's mind boggling for me too! A porn star pussy.What's odder was that we'd both been up for 22 hours, were worn out, & just had a little cuddle, & then boom!

Obviously she's very aroused at this point, & I've gotten to know her "tells", so if she starts feeling a little uncomfortable - that's when I start the dirty talk, & off we go again.

It's a bit weird & a turn on simultaneously. Thankfully I'm thicker than the dildo too & she still thinks I've got a big cock.

 

[Sassy]

We are all cursed in some way

some are cursed with too big
some are cursed with too small

but the worst of the cursed
they haven't any at all

Pitbull, when you get inspired, please add to your poetry and prose thread!:smile:

 

[Sassy]

Aside from the wonderful suggestions above, also try getting your wife really aroused prior to making love. If she's already orgasmed a few times prior to penetration, she may be a bit looser, and more relaxed. There are many suggestions for foreplay on the site.

Has she been completely checked out by her OB/GYN? I've known women that have had physical problems which contributed to painful intercourse (even with smaller/average penises).

 

[petite]

Wow! You remembered that exchange?!?!! Cool. Sometimes, especially in the Women's Issues threads, I feel like I'm butting in on a conversion by women, for women. Glad I wasn't.

I realize lpsg was probably started as a joke, but it really is very heartening to find people do post here with actual, legitimate issues, and come away with answers and deeply felt understanding.

I've always found your observations and information to be very useful and clarifying. I'll never forget that you were the one who noticed my helpful tips in the cervix thread that indicated that I knew how to pompoir, which I didn't realize other women didn't do. Now because of you I'm learning how to increase that skill and do more interesting things with it. That would have never happened without your keen observation on the wording of my posts!

I dislike being on top in the "cowgirl" which is the positing where a man lies down on the bed and the woman straddles him. It hurts my knees, my legs get tired easily from trying to balance on top and not sit all the way down on his penis, and in order to use my arms to help guide myself while I move I have to lean forward or backward, which makes moving up and down his cock much more awkward. It's not something I can sustain for very long and I've never orgasmed in that position.

The chair solves so many of those problems for me. No knee pain, the leg position makes it so that I can go for an incredibly long time before tiring, the ability to grip something sturdy and use my arms and shoulders and back give me so much more control that it just works for me. The closeness of our bellies also allows me to rub my mons pubis against him as I move up and down, which stimulates my clitoris (sorry to be so graphic, but how else to explain?)

Since the animations are so helpful in explaining, the position I was talking about using the chair before in this thread is a mix of these two positions, feet on the ground like in the Sybian, but on a chair with a high back for gripping like the Kneeling Mastery:

Sybian Sex Position

Kneeling Master Sex Position

I've tried grabbing his shoulders like in the animation, but gripping the chair just works so much better, in my experience. I've done the Kneeling Mastery a lot, and it's good too, but it's better with my feet on the ground. For some reason the kneeling positions make my knees hurt after a long time.

The standing one is this one:

Stand and Carry Sex Position

YMMV, but I love them and they work for me. Both are gorgeous in front of a full length mirror.

 

[dajunglee786]

is it weird that reading some of the posts in this thread turns me the fcuk on

 

[RawDog]

I've always found your observations and information to be very useful and clarifying. I'll never forget that you were the one who noticed my helpful tips in the cervix thread that indicated that I knew how to pompoir, which I didn't realize other women didn't do. Now because of you I'm learning how to increase that skill and do more interesting things with it. That would have never happened without your keen observation on the wording of my posts!

Aww, shucks. Thanks for the compliment. Like you, though, I do appreciete your candor. I kmow all women's bodies can be different, but knowing yours in intimated details has made me a better lover for my wife.

I absolutely think that sexinfo101 is probably the best website I've come across as far as illiustrating different positions are concerned, but my main beef with it (and I've tried several times to suggest this) is the fact that some of the motions can vary by a great deal.

Take this, for example:

http://www.videosfotonovela.xpg.com.br/gifs/sexo/gifs_sexo_011.gif

This isn't the usual up and down cowgirl, it's more forward and down. Good if he's on the long side, and this one may be hitting the front wall a little more directly.

This one:

http://www.videosfotonovela.xpg.com.br/gifs/sexo/gifs_sexo_001.gif

...seems to be the one that Praying Mantis may have been alluding to when she said she could control the depth a lot more easily.

For more fun with the GIFs, go to:

Foto-Novela

My wife and I were kinda doing this one this morning:

http://www.videosfotonovela.xpg.com.br/gifs/sexo/gifs_sexo_174.gif

pretty nice sensation

 

[D_Tyrone_Tittickler]

Missionary is about all I get.

Hey Qi,

You are a missionary? What do you preach?

 

[gary123]

i do not have a long dick just 7 but it is thick and my wife complains that her bottom of her vagina {perineum} get's raw about 10 minutes in not a lubrication problem tried all types of lubes she gets very wet any way i do have hair on the base of my penis tried shaving and not shaving nothing helps can anyone help

 

[RawDog]

Try massaging/stretching her fourchette before entering her.

Take some lube and spread it all over the index fingers of both hands. Insert the two fingers carefully and coax the lower area loose by gently spreading your fingers apart.

I learned this from a fisting video and it seems to be working well.

 

[petite]

Lube up two fingers and put them into her vagina, massage in a U-shape, gently stretching. It helps me.