Wife wont let me go down on her

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stud_hunter said:
Like some others have said, it's possible she feels self-conscious or "icky". But it's also possible that oral just isn't her thing. I think it's important to know if she actively dislikes receiving oral, or if she just finds it boring. If she really dislikes it, then it may have something to do with body-image or some other hangup. But it's a myth that every woman loves oral. Personally, I like it, but for me oral gets boring after a couple minutes, even if the guy is really good at it. The outside of my clit just isn't as sensitive as the inside (labia) or my G-spot. So for me brief oral is nice but it just doesn't make me cum like a thick, hard cock skillfully working my insides! :biggrin1: So ask her why she doesn't like it and be flexible to what she likes.


This is absolutely true! Not all women like oral sex. Then some may like oral over vaginal.
Please don't think that your wife is any different from any other woman. We all have our likes and dislikes.
My stimulation is more vaginal too, though it will slowly become clitoral.

I'm sure your wife knows you like oral, and I'm sure she would do it if she was comfortable with it.
But really, sex should not be- or include anything that either party just isn't enjoying.
More important; you don't want to get to the point where she is avoiding sex altogether because she is worried about doing something she just does not want to do.
This really can happen.
It sounds like you have a pretty good sex life, and a great wife, and that's all that matters.