Hey guys, so I have been with my wife for many years. We had the sex talk about our exes when we were young. She told me I was twice the size of the guys she had been with. I’m 8.75 x 6.75. I doubt twice the size, but much bigger. Fast forward a few months ago we were in bed watching porn and after sex we got into some deep conversations. Started talking about sex before eachother. This time she tells me one guy was bigger then me. I was very surprised because I know what she said before. It’s kinda been sticking around in my head. Not sure why she lied to me about this and why tell me now after so long. The size thing isn’t a big deal it’s the lie that I’m having an issue with. I now been wondering what else she could have lied to me about. What’s everyone’s input on this? Just curious cause I always thought we were honest with each other. Thanks.
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It sticks in people’s head weird and wanted to protect your feelings.
Or lied with the second one to mess with you (unlikely unless she’s evil like one ex I had).
Or lied with the second one to mess with you (unlikely unless she’s evil like one ex I had).
She probably just wanted to boost your ego in the past, or maybe didn't want you to feel over pressured.
Why not ask her, tho? Sounds like you two have quite a good and open relationship. Ask her why she didn't mention it the last time you talked about exes.
Why not ask her, tho? Sounds like you two have quite a good and open relationship. Ask her why she didn't mention it the last time you talked about exes.
Do not ask if you cannot handle the answer.
I get it because being her biggest was part of your dynamic and now its not. If it was established early on you were not her biggest you get over it and move on. Instead this has been engrained in your relationship for years and now its gone. It was likely an innocent lie at the time that either she thought nothing of or saw how you reacted to knowing this and didnt want to ruin it. If I were in your shoes id be annoyed about if for a few days but its not worth letting this linger. You still have a really big cock so fuck her brains out and move on
It doesn’t sound to me like she lied... you asked abound previous partners and she told you that you were much larger than most of her partners. Unless you specifically asked if you were the largest she’d been with and said no, then she didn’t lie.
Why didn’t she previously tell you? Probably because of ^ this ^ exact reason. My experience is that it never goes well. If a guy isn’t the biggest, he stews on it... either he worries that he doesn’t satisfy me (not good for either of us) or wants to hear about larger (not good for me). If he is the largest, he thinks it matters far more than it actually does and is a lazy lover (not good for me).
Why didn’t she previously tell you? Probably because of ^ this ^ exact reason. My experience is that it never goes well. If a guy isn’t the biggest, he stews on it... either he worries that he doesn’t satisfy me (not good for either of us) or wants to hear about larger (not good for me). If he is the largest, he thinks it matters far more than it actually does and is a lazy lover (not good for me).
My wife told me in one of our first horny nights that she had only one guy before me and that he was "probably slightly bigger" - which was a fine comment with me, as she really loves my cock and calls me her bull and such over many years by now. Recently she told me that i was "her perfect size" and that i have a "beautiful penis"... well what more can i wish for?! While that comment about her first guy was a little worrying in the beginnings - i totally forgot about it again as she still makes nice comments after almost 20 years of marriage, so my just being average size can't be that bad ;-)
Just forget about it again MAN, you are one super huge guy and a bigger cock would't make any remarkable difference to that pussy at all!! (unlike in an average guy's case)
Just forget about it again MAN, you are one super huge guy and a bigger cock would't make any remarkable difference to that pussy at all!! (unlike in an average guy's case)
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/wife-talk.1755671/
Is this just a kink o yours or something? From post history you and the spouse have talked about cuckold or threesome or something and she specified she would want someone less endowed than you. So why are you hung up (lol) on her saying she was with someone who was larger than you? If you believed what she said on that occasion, then it really shouldn't be any skin off ya nose/back/whatever that someone was bigger.
And speaking o telling partners things, I wonder if ya wife knows about this https://www.lpsg.com/threads/niagara-falls.1514531/
Is this just a kink o yours or something? From post history you and the spouse have talked about cuckold or threesome or something and she specified she would want someone less endowed than you. So why are you hung up (lol) on her saying she was with someone who was larger than you? If you believed what she said on that occasion, then it really shouldn't be any skin off ya nose/back/whatever that someone was bigger.
And speaking o telling partners things, I wonder if ya wife knows about this https://www.lpsg.com/threads/niagara-falls.1514531/
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I did ask her. She said she had forgot about him when she told me the first time. She slept with him 2 months before we met so doubt she forgot about him
She said I was much larger then them all when we discussed it the original time.
Ya she knows about that. What’s it to you?Wife Talk
Is this just a kink o yours or something? From post history you and the spouse have talked about cuckold or threesome or something and she specified she would want someone less endowed than you. So why are you hung up (lol) on her saying she was with someone who was larger than you? If you believed what she said on that occasion, then it really shouldn't be any skin off ya nose/back/whatever that someone was bigger.
And speaking o telling partners things, I wonder if ya wife knows about this Niagara Falls
I do not like interacting with folk who are disloyal, so I was curious. Open forum n open post history /shrug
In any case, your repeated seeking of "advice" reads more like a kink or fetish than actual request for advice to me. Which, you do you, enjoy your whatever it is. Not gonna say more than I already did in my initial post, cause that was all the advice I had anyway.
Yeah, I did a quick scan of posts and messages and there is a familiar theme. Which, for the most part is fine. Fetish away. But when you are luring people into your fetish under the guise of "advice" rather than being up front about it, it becomes fairly deceptive.
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Ever notice there are no SPH or Cuck forums? Because it's such a small niche... So we see the cuck or SPH'er create a "question". This is my third long term sex forum. This thing happens on all of them. Over and over... So we just move along... (I'm just trying to digest the news lately!)
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