Wife's Ex Much Larger

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my wife's had bigger than me, and i love to hear about it. i like it when she tells me a story about pulling out some guys dick and when she whispers in my ear "omg he's huge" or "he's alot bigger than you honey" (I'm 6'x4.5"), i get an instant erection. the reality is that most guy's wife's have had bigger (maybe not so much on this board, but in general). i like thinking about my wife having a big cock in her, just like how she likes thinking about me fucking tall women with big tits (my wife is 5'2", 32C). it just turns us on! and we've really enjoyed the 3somes we've had together, because we are sharing the experience with another person together (we even dated one girl for a short while). for us, we enjoy experiencing that side of each other. sure, we were jealous of other people when we were first together, but now we aren't insecure at all. i mean hey, if my wife wants to do someone else i like to hear about it, fantasize about it, and if she wants to do it i wanna watch and/or participate. when i travel she tells me she masturbates thinking about me fucking some tall, big breasted woman in my hotel room. i feel much closer to her knowing we share these things (and it's lots of fun).
 

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my wife's had bigger than me, and i love to hear about it. i like it when she tells me a story about pulling out some guys dick and when she whispers in my ear "omg he's huge" or "he's alot bigger than you honey" (I'm 6'x4.5"), i get an instant erection. the reality is that most guy's wife's have had bigger (maybe not so much on this board, but in general). i like thinking about my wife having a big cock in her, just like how she likes thinking about me fucking tall women with big tits (my wife is 5'2", 32C). it just turns us on! and we've really enjoyed the 3somes we've had together, because we are sharing the experience with another person together (we even dated one girl for a short while). for us, we enjoy experiencing that side of each other. sure, we were jealous of other people when we were first together, but now we aren't insecure at all. i mean hey, if my wife wants to do someone else i like to hear about it, fantasize about it, and if she wants to do it i wanna watch and/or participate. when i travel she tells me she masturbates thinking about me fucking some tall, big breasted woman in my hotel room. i feel much closer to her knowing we share these things (and it's lots of fun).


nice post--honest---and well said
 

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You must somehow be able to set the jealousy factor completely aside. Do you think it's a can't-beat-them-join-them attitude? For a small percentage of guys it must be a by product of penis size insecurity. After you've witnessed some big dick guy putting a working on her, and getting reactions from her that you haven't, that doesn't make your insecurity become even deeper set?

I think the better alternative is to turn to penis enlargement exercises at Thundersplace, so as to make steps toward overcoming the insecurity. Or perhaps Measurection, a support forum for guys with small penis size. I've always had penis size insecurity, and still do, but it's not as bad as it was because my penis has grown some. The last thing I want to see is some hung guy working over my woman in a way I can't.

Having said that, my favorite type porn is a big dick guy intensely putting it on a woman. Go figure.
 

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I can understand where your coming from....when my wife and I tried our threesome, we didn't want someone my size exactly, it's the thought of someone different in size and shape pleasing her. Worked well for us, great experience for her and I liked seeing her enjoy it.
 

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I don't really understand "small cock humiliation" either but from the other side of the situation I do get a pretty big kick out of knowing I'm her biggest dick (so far :) -- let's be honest her) and that this could be ruining her for small men.

Sometime I'll do little things to point it out: like if she's tiny and needs two hands to reach around my cock or do positions like reverse cowgirl that you need some meat for.

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Not into the humiliation but do get turned on by talk of big cocks. It's something i've always fantasized about having so accounts of the practicalities of real size in real life just turn me on. One ex's first boyfriend was 9x7 (estimated as he was a little longer and thicker than her big vibrator) and talk of feeling in has pocket or half way down his thigh for his stiffening cock, how it looked sticking up above his waistband, the imposibilty of anal, the pain and impracticallity of going balls deep in some positions, the difficulty he sometimes had getting it up, all turned me on, I think because it filled in the gaps in my age-old fantasies about what it would really be like having a bigger cock.

My current girlfriend is slightly different, she reckons she's never had noticably bigger than me (despite being Jamacan and having had some fun in the past) but was contacted by a bloke on the same dating site she met me on who sent very convincing pics of what he claimed was a 10.5 incher, her only comments are "he's a moron, he can't even hold a conversation, and what would I do with something that big anyway, I have enough trouble with yours sometimes", still turns me on though :)
 

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I think accusing the original poster of being into "small cock humiliation" is a huge and unwarranted leap.

What I'd have inferred is a lot milder: It's empowering and reassuring to know that even though your partner can attract men with features you can't match, that she still chooses to be with you. This doesn't have to involve penis size -- it can involve height, or age, or income, or other traits.

I can think of few things that turn me on as much as knowing that my partner wants me, warts and all. (Not that I literally have warts; it's just a figure of speech!)
 

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agree 100%, as I said, i'm only here because i'm fascinated by the realities of having a huge cock, I think lots are, some get their kicks with fake pics and rolle playing on this site, others are more honest. I know what you mean about 'warts and all', my big cock fascination is usually kept seperate from my actual sex life and relationships. The funniest thing is that the best sex my current girlfriend had in the past was with one of the smallest cocks (inch estimations were not offered) and it's this guy (her ex husband) that I probably should be worrying about measuring up to (I'm doing very well considering the short time we've known each other apparently) rather than some picture posting 10.5" 'bore' who she never even wanted to meet.
 

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I think accusing the original poster of being into "small cock humiliation" is a huge and unwarranted leap.

What I'd have inferred is a lot milder: It's empowering and reassuring to know that even though your partner can attract men with features you can't match, that she still chooses to be with you. This doesn't have to involve penis size -- it can involve height, or age, or income, or other traits.

I can think of few things that turn me on as much as knowing that my partner wants me, warts and all. (Not that I literally have warts; it's just a figure of speech!)

Excellent point!

I didn't infer that he felt humiliated at all.