Need advice.. we been together since 1996, in 1998 I went to bootcamp and 2 weeks after I left she was hooking up with friend of a friend. She kept that secret for over 20yrs. But since then about 10 yrs ago we have "open" marriage and got into hotwife/cuckolding. This past year she addmited to cheating with the friend back in 1998 to about 2002. I love it. I even posted in the stories forum section. Well even more recently he texted me for business help. I've never spoke with him prior. I want to let him know I am aware of what happened many years ago and that we are open to him being her bull now.
How do I approach that in a text?
How do I approach that in a text?