I've been a lurker here for some time and very shy (and afraid to post pics for professional reasons) so I wanted to keep details as vague as possible. Just looking for real life experience and advice. Sorry ahead of time for the long read.
I have been with my wife nearly a decade and she is my love. We are each other's firsts and only and we are very happy in the bedroom department. I'm not huge (a little over 7 but thick) and she thinks it's all she can handle.
She has a new coworker who instantly became her best friend, and now talk about everything. She's a bit of a size queen and obviously my size came up when talking about her "smaller" boyfriend.
This leads to her friend sending my wife the "smaller" friend's dick pic for an opinion (she asked for my okay haha). The next day, I sent my wife two pictures with me next to a ruler as a joke. That's only the second time I sent her a dick pic in 10 years and it was a legit joke.
She ends up laughing at her job about it, and told her coworker what I did. Her coworker immediately wanted to know the size and got curious. My wife told her, and she seemed to really actually enjoy it, especially that I was "thick". My wife asked if she wanted to see, but her friend said no, because it'd be all she could think about when she saw me.
This is the interesting part. I've never pursued praise for my size, but upon hearing this, I was extremely turned on. That week we had some of the best sex of our lives. I can usually never cum twice in a night but I did twice that week.
Since then the sex has been great as usual but I still have that nagging feeling in the back of my head that another woman was interested in my size. I've never had that. The other woman is cute but nothing compared to my wife. Part of me really wants her friend to see my penis to push me again sexually and provide more pleasure for my spouse.
How do I bring it up without making it seem weird? I'm nearing 30 and we've never had a problem communicating before but this is really tricky to me.
TL;DR - wife's friend knows I'm bigger, enjoys it. Turns me on, don't know how to keep it going or have her see it.
I have been with my wife nearly a decade and she is my love. We are each other's firsts and only and we are very happy in the bedroom department. I'm not huge (a little over 7 but thick) and she thinks it's all she can handle.
She has a new coworker who instantly became her best friend, and now talk about everything. She's a bit of a size queen and obviously my size came up when talking about her "smaller" boyfriend.
This leads to her friend sending my wife the "smaller" friend's dick pic for an opinion (she asked for my okay haha). The next day, I sent my wife two pictures with me next to a ruler as a joke. That's only the second time I sent her a dick pic in 10 years and it was a legit joke.
She ends up laughing at her job about it, and told her coworker what I did. Her coworker immediately wanted to know the size and got curious. My wife told her, and she seemed to really actually enjoy it, especially that I was "thick". My wife asked if she wanted to see, but her friend said no, because it'd be all she could think about when she saw me.
This is the interesting part. I've never pursued praise for my size, but upon hearing this, I was extremely turned on. That week we had some of the best sex of our lives. I can usually never cum twice in a night but I did twice that week.
Since then the sex has been great as usual but I still have that nagging feeling in the back of my head that another woman was interested in my size. I've never had that. The other woman is cute but nothing compared to my wife. Part of me really wants her friend to see my penis to push me again sexually and provide more pleasure for my spouse.
How do I bring it up without making it seem weird? I'm nearing 30 and we've never had a problem communicating before but this is really tricky to me.
TL;DR - wife's friend knows I'm bigger, enjoys it. Turns me on, don't know how to keep it going or have her see it.
