My wife and I have been exploring our fantasies and I wanted to know if anyone on here had any thoughts as to where this might be headed. I apologize for the longish post...
Were in our thirties and she was more experienced than me when we met. Shes been with around twenty men, Ive been with ten women. Her main fantasy (she tends to think of it, I believe, about half the time when we have sex) is of me having sex with another woman while a group of men watches. Sometimes she fantasizes about me inviting the men to join in. I am clearly the dominant figure, ordering them what to do with her. Sometimes the woman in her fantasies is one of my ex girlfriends.
We also watch porn a couple times a week. She prefers groupsex scenes and she likes to fantasize about me being one of the men in the movies. She tells me, and I believe her, that she does not imagine herself being involved in these fantasies, they revolve around me, not her. When she asks, for instance, if Id like to be one of the men in the movies fucking a group of women, I respond that I would, provided that she was one of the women. She doesnt seem interested in being involved in the fantasies, however. The only other women Ive explored this territory with were very interested in being involved. One probably would have had a threesome if wed gotten around to putting one together, particularly with another man (we talked about it but it never happened).
She also tells me that shes never had a threesome although she did have sex with her ex boyfriend a few times on webcam on a swinger website and says that she enjoyed it. Ive suggested that we try this but she hasnt wanted to.
For the time being Im happy with what were doing in the bedroom and Im not planning to push this any further. Im willing to consider opening things up a bit if she wants to but I wouldnt push it either. I am wondering where it might lead, however, and whats going on in her mind. Does anyone have any thoughts as to whats going on or where this might be headed?
Were in our thirties and she was more experienced than me when we met. Shes been with around twenty men, Ive been with ten women. Her main fantasy (she tends to think of it, I believe, about half the time when we have sex) is of me having sex with another woman while a group of men watches. Sometimes she fantasizes about me inviting the men to join in. I am clearly the dominant figure, ordering them what to do with her. Sometimes the woman in her fantasies is one of my ex girlfriends.
We also watch porn a couple times a week. She prefers groupsex scenes and she likes to fantasize about me being one of the men in the movies. She tells me, and I believe her, that she does not imagine herself being involved in these fantasies, they revolve around me, not her. When she asks, for instance, if Id like to be one of the men in the movies fucking a group of women, I respond that I would, provided that she was one of the women. She doesnt seem interested in being involved in the fantasies, however. The only other women Ive explored this territory with were very interested in being involved. One probably would have had a threesome if wed gotten around to putting one together, particularly with another man (we talked about it but it never happened).
She also tells me that shes never had a threesome although she did have sex with her ex boyfriend a few times on webcam on a swinger website and says that she enjoyed it. Ive suggested that we try this but she hasnt wanted to.
For the time being Im happy with what were doing in the bedroom and Im not planning to push this any further. Im willing to consider opening things up a bit if she wants to but I wouldnt push it either. I am wondering where it might lead, however, and whats going on in her mind. Does anyone have any thoughts as to whats going on or where this might be headed?