Will 7" x 5" be good enough for a highly experienced woman?

[Tight_N_Juicy]

The simple fact that every time someone says something sincere and logical to you about this you double down and throw insults because you already believe that women are all the same, and are all to blame for your self-hate and loneliness shows me that you don't want actual help (which is what you need, and there's nothing wrong with that)... you want to express your anger and validate your feelings further in order to justify your words/actions.

It's fucking dangerous.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I knew a guy who was in his 60s and single. He never married or had children. If you asked him he would tell you he was single because he didn't want to play house with a woman. The more I got to know him the more stalkerish he became. He was incredibly awkward to be around. I ghosted him several times but he'd come into my workplace to visit me. Then he started waiting across the street from my job.

I saw other women drop him fast when he would talk to them. They saw something I didn't at first. I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. This guy had no clue he was scaring women away by his creepy behavior. And I was perpetuating it by continuing to talk to him after he made me uncomfortable.

My husband had to tell him to leave me alone.

I have no idea what he's up to now. Probably chasing young skirt. Scaring off more women.

My point is that he convinced himself women are shallow. The truth is he was so creepy about over complimenting them in inappropriate ways, even if they were married, that he gave off big red flags. That's why he's single.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

And don't be angry if women smell your bullshit game a mile away. Most women are looking for a genuine guy without a lot of baggage. Once they figure you out, it won't take long, they will move on. Then you can go back to blaming women for not giving you a chance.

The common mentality among PUA and MRA types is that they harvest so much anger towards women for seeing through them and not giving them a chance to use them.

 

[Anonymous420]

You all are making assumptions. I never stalked a woman, or gave creepy complements. In fact, I am hyper sensitive to how I come across to women that I avoid them.

Example: One time I texted a female friend and asked her if she was coming to a house party. I never got a reply so I freaked the fuck out and I had to ask all my male friends if my text was creepy. They all told me I needed to chill the fuck out because "there is nothing wrong with asking a friend if she's coming to a party that everyone is at".

Women make me really nervous. I know they are constantly judging me very harshly. And I'm very hyper sensitive about how I interact with them.

Due to my ugly looks I HAVE to avoid women that aren't family. I am single for reasons beyond my control.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Ugly men get women all the time. Typically people pick people who are roughly about as good looking as they are. Time to stop looking for the perfect woman and find someone in your own category of looks.

I have so many guy friends that look for a chick who has the perfect body. They watch too much porn. These guys don't even look attractive but they won't settle for anyone under an 8 in looks. Then they wonder why they are single.

 

[Anonymous420]

I am not looking for a perfect woman. I just want a decent looking woman who's not severely obese. They don't have to have the perfect body or face. Just decent. I don't want to date down.

I wish it was back in thee day where a nerdy looking guy like myself can get a decent girl. Now I have to date women who are 250lbs+ even though I am only 130lbs.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You are judging YOURSELF too harshly. You avoid women because of how YOU feel around them, not how they Make you feel. They're just there. They're not doing anything but existing. You're the one who makes into a huge deal for NO REASON.

I'm not kidding. You need to talk to someone NOT online about this. A professional. Log Off.

 

[deleted924715]

I smell troll

*hits ignore*

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I am not looking for a perfect woman. I just want a decent looking woman who's not severely obese. They don't have to have the perfect body or face. Just decent. I don't want to date down.

I wish it was back in thee day where a nerdy looking guy like myself can get a decent girl. Now I have to date women who are 250lbs+ even though I am only 130lbs.

So women are shit for thinking you look like subhuman trash, but you can have your little set of standards? Oh fuck off

I'm with @BacknForth ... *hits ignore*

 

[Anonymous420]

So I'm not allowed to have reasonable standards? I have to be forced to date someone I can't be sexually attracted to? Why is it okay for females to have standards but not us men?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

You need to be realistic. Having unrealistic expectations is what leads to disappointment.

No one said a man can't have standards. I don't go around looking to bag a perfect 10 dude. Even if I was single. Those guys are likely going to bag perfect 10s.

I get approached all the time at my job. By guys who are stinky, have no teeth and an extensive criminal history, they actually believe they have a chance.

I also work with a couple of women who aren't very traditionally attractive, to put it nicely. They are always coming onto the really good looking guys who would likely never give them a chance. Even I wouldn't approach these guys. I'm not their type.

MEN and WOMEN can have standards. They can also be turned down frequently for trying to aim out of their league.

You can't afford a Ferrari on a 3,000$ budget. This works for men and women.

 

[Anonymous420]

You need to be realistic. Having unrealistic expectations is what leads to disappointment.

No one said a man can't have standards. I don't go around looking to bag a perfect 10 dude. Even if I was single. Those guys are likely going to bag perfect 10s.

I get approached all the time at my job. By guys who are stinky, have no teeth and an extensive criminal history, they actually believe they have a chance.

I also work with a couple of women who aren't very traditionally attractive, to put it nicely. They are always coming onto the really good looking guys who would likely never give them a chance. Even I wouldn't approach these guys. I'm not their type.

MEN and WOMEN can have standards. They can also be turned down frequently for trying to aim out of their league.

You can't afford a Ferrari on a 3,000$ budget. This works for men and women.

I sent you my pics. You gave me some advice on a haircut etc. But you also said "you had no idea what a woman within my league would look like.".. I asked if you think I'm deformed and if I should go for deformed women and you blocked me.

There's no winning. I'm looking for legit advice. Am I irredeemablly ugly? Can I get with an average girl? I don't know and no one is giving me any good advice.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I don't know and no one is giving me any good advice.

Yes, We HAVE. You just aren't talking it because it's not what you WANT to hear.

 

[Anonymous420]

Yes, We HAVE. You just aren't talking it because it's not what you WANT to hear.

I am willing to take advice even if it's not what I want to hear. I asked if I should date deformed women and still got blocked.

Let me guess, the advice either don't want to hear is to date deformed women?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I had to put him on ignore. I went against my better judgement and genuinely responded to his private message. Total waste of time.

 

[693987]

I had to put him on ignore. I went against my better judgement and genuinely responded to his private message. Total waste of time.

Yep. Saying anything at all to this dude is a total waste of time. And will likely end up with him flinging insults, saying you're a fucking bitch, and eventually just mashing on a keyboard so it's just random characters strung together.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

You can't play chess with a pigeon. They knock over all the pieces, shit on the board and strut off like they won the game.

 

[Anonymous420]

I had to put him on ignore. I went against my better judgement and genuinely responded to his private message. Total waste of time.

Dude. I was not rude to you at all. I just asked what kind of girl is in my league. You then blocked me. You basically just said most girls are out of my league I asked if I should go for deformed women and you blocked me.

Am I not even attractive enough for deformed women? Am I that ugly?

As I've said. I'm being reasonable. Everyone is just telling me it's humorless. I try asking what kind of women is in my league and get blocked and ignored.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

OP... Re-Read this whole thread in One sitting and tell me you've not been rude or disrespectful. If you truly believe that you've had perfect manners here, you're worse off than I thought.

 

[Anonymous420]

OP... Re-Read this whole thread in One sitting and tell me you've not been rude or disrespectful. If you truly believe that you've had perfect manners here, you're worse off than I thought.

I've been rude a few times because I've been told it's hopeless. I wasn't rude to tattooed goddess. I asked her what kind of girls are in my league and she said I might have to go for deformed women. I asked her what she meant and she just blocked me.