This is going to be embarrassing, but she's worth it.
My gf and I have been together for 20 years. I love her more than anything, and I try to make sure she knows that on a regular basis. We communicate, we share the same interests, we love spending time with one another, I make her laugh a lot. I think she's wonderful and bright, and if you even glance at the pics in my albums you'll know that I absolutely worship her body and consider her my living sexual fantasy...there's nothing I wouldn't do to try to please her.
So...
She doesn't seem to find me attractive...or at least, she's not drawn to me physically in the same way I am to her. Maybe once a month (or less) she is inclined to have sex, but the rest of the time she has no interest.
Now here's the real embarrassing part...Physically I am:
-6 feet tall
-Pretty good looking and have all my hair, and it is thick
-OVERWEIGHT...I weigh 250lbs
-Not physically active (clearly) and very soft
-Very hairy
-Small penis: 4" erect length and 5" erect girth.
I *think* I've got a pretty good personality and the things that are supposed to "count" in a real, loving relationship...which again, we *do* have.
Can't do much about the penis except the occasional pumping before sex (which she ALWAYS responds to positively even though she denies any interest in my pursuing it).
But if I got into really good shape...low body fat, toned up...maybe an ass that's halfway decent to look at...do you, as women, think it might increase her sexual attraction to me? Assuming I'm not too skewed in my perception of myself and our relationship...would that increase *your* physical attraction to someone you were in love with? Thanks!
My gf and I have been together for 20 years. I love her more than anything, and I try to make sure she knows that on a regular basis. We communicate, we share the same interests, we love spending time with one another, I make her laugh a lot. I think she's wonderful and bright, and if you even glance at the pics in my albums you'll know that I absolutely worship her body and consider her my living sexual fantasy...there's nothing I wouldn't do to try to please her.
So...
She doesn't seem to find me attractive...or at least, she's not drawn to me physically in the same way I am to her. Maybe once a month (or less) she is inclined to have sex, but the rest of the time she has no interest.
Now here's the real embarrassing part...Physically I am:
-6 feet tall
-Pretty good looking and have all my hair, and it is thick
-OVERWEIGHT...I weigh 250lbs
-Not physically active (clearly) and very soft
-Very hairy
-Small penis: 4" erect length and 5" erect girth.
I *think* I've got a pretty good personality and the things that are supposed to "count" in a real, loving relationship...which again, we *do* have.
Can't do much about the penis except the occasional pumping before sex (which she ALWAYS responds to positively even though she denies any interest in my pursuing it).
But if I got into really good shape...low body fat, toned up...maybe an ass that's halfway decent to look at...do you, as women, think it might increase her sexual attraction to me? Assuming I'm not too skewed in my perception of myself and our relationship...would that increase *your* physical attraction to someone you were in love with? Thanks!