fireman57: I'm new here..and have a situation that maybe you can give me some advice.. A little background info. I'm an average guy, about 6" long and 5.5" in circumference. I'm divorced and my ex-wife had always been with large men. In fact, after a couple years of marriage..she went so far as to buy me a penis pump and insist that I "pump up" before sex. She flat out told me that she always perferred "hung men" but thought that I'd make a good husband and father...even though I didn't measure up to her normal sexual partners. When we did have sex, it was good and she'd almost always have multiple orgasms. The marriage ended, and I've since had somewhat of a complex about my penis size. Since then, I met a wonderful woman. She is also divorced with two kids. Our relationship is great. Our family life is awesome and our sex life is incredible. She's a very petite woman, very fit and very very attractive. We have sex usually twice a day, almost every day. She also has multiple orgasms and tells me that she's very happy. The problem is that one night we started playing around and she pulled out one of her toys. It was a realistic looking vibrating didlo about 9" long and about 2 1/2" wide...and she took the whole thing without flinching. After a few minutes of teasing me with her little show...we had an incredible night of sex. However, when I asked her about it, she (we're very open and honest with each other) told me that her ex-husband and most of them men she dated were very well endowed. She honestly admitted that out of about ten partners, she had only been with one guy who was smaller than me. She claims that I make her orgasm more than any guy she's ever been with and that we have more sex because the larger guys always tend to make her sore. Obviously my concern is that she's going to start missing being with a larger man. She openly admits that there are some things that we can't do and that being with a larger man feels different, but that she's happy with me...and I believe her. So, the problem is that I'm afraid in the long term, she might start missing what she's had before. I know that this is partially the insecurity that my ex-wife instilled in me. But, I'm wondering if any woman has had a similar experience? This woman means the world to me and we've decided to buy a house together and raise our kids together..I just don't want to be in for the same dissapointment that I encountered in my marriage down the road. Any comments?