No not at all. I come out here, look around a bit and leave. At times I go months without being on this site. I've made a few close friends here and converse mostly with them. When I was referring to Wally, you have to really make the best with the cock you got! That may include staying in shape, being the best you can be, etc., because that you can do something about. Some of the best sex I've had has been with smaller dicked guys. Big is nice to look at but they are duds (not all of them) in bed. I'd much rather have an enthusiastic guy sharing my bed that knows how to make out and knows how to maximize his time without shame or feeling humiliated. Between two guys, one is always larger than the other. Let it go and have a good time!