We men I think are losers most of the time, but only because we allow ourselves to be. In the end, if we realize it, we can still have the upper hand because its' much easier for a man to just walk away from a bad relationship than a woman. IMO which is why women push so hard to get married so early on.
These days, ESPECIALLY the new generation in their 20s are much different, than even my generation (I'm 31). Guys this age just REFUSE to settle down by in large and get married. They see it as nothing more than castration and a way for the state (and their wives if they get divorced, of which there is a 50% chance) to essentially, jack them of all they are worth.
I'm not saying this is a good thing, these guys don't really care about finishing college, moving out of their parents house, or anything but partying. But it is what it is, and IMO not a surprising reaction. When every way you look regarding relationships, looks like it's going to screw you, then I guess why not devote your life to hedonism?
I'm not trying to lay any blanket statements here, I fully realize not all women are selfish looking to grab what money they can from their so called mate in a courtroom, I'm sure not even most women are like that.
But, it's a numbers game. 50% of marriages end in divorce, and sorry, there is NO way for a man to tell if his woman will be like that until you get to that point, just like there is no way for a woman to tell if her new spouse is going to end up being abusive until it's already too late. It's a numbers game, and more and more men each day are simply refusing to play.
edit: BTW I think in the long run, men will benefit from equality of the sexes the most though. It's still going to be a "man's world", the only difference is, equality will knock women down off the pedastals that many men have placed them on, and they will be in the trough fighting it out with all the other men in the worlds of love and business on equal footing. Seems to me though, being on equal footing with men doesn't bring you up the ladder, but knocks you down the ladder. Welcome to no holds barred, take and give no quarter competition, and "I'm just a woman" will no longer be an acceptable excuse for failure or incompetence, just like getting pregnant will likely no longer be an excuse to take leave off work, after all, it was the woman's choice to get pregnant, not the companies, so why should they be responsible for that?, etc etc and so on and so forth.