Can anyone give me some tips on how i can orgasm easier in other positions than just my back? During sex it is basically the only way i have managed to do it. Jerking off, i can come standing up sometimes but it is a chore as well as on my knees. A few times, i have used anal toys and have been able to cum standing up or sitting down while banging/getting head. I guess it is just hard for me to orgasm, if i get on my back and tense my body up it is the only sure fire way to do it.