Wishes..improvement..patience..

[soren10]

Have you ever wished that a partner could last longer or cum faster.? Have you ever wished a partner to be more skilful in bed.? Have you ever wished he was bigger or smaller.? In regards to questions 1 and 2 , have you seen a guy improve and be more fun and pleasurable, for you , in bed.? Also do you have patience or after a couple of dates without much improvement you just dump the guy.?

P.s. I know I make alot of questions, I do that so I don't make multiple threads. Also in question 3. ( be honest, meaning if you have thought about it deep down for just 1 second).

 

[AlteredEgo]

Have you ever wished a partner to be more skilful in bed.?

Yes.

Have you ever wished that a partner could last longer or cum faster.?

Yes. Both.

In regards to questions 1 and 2 , have you seen a guy improve and be more fun and pleasurable, for you , in bed.? Also do you have patience or after a couple of dates without much improvement you just dump the guy.?

I have seen improvement and been satisfied. As far as patience, I can work with a man who is really trying. I have no patience for a man who cannot follow instructions.

Have you ever wished he was bigger or smaller.?

I've thought certain guys would be better with less length, and that others would be better with more girth.

 

[rtg]

Have you ever wished that a partner could last longer or cum faster.?
Both. I don't generally like long sex. But I also don't want the guy to finish before I'm done. But if he does I'm not upset about it.

Have you ever wished a partner to be more skilful in bed.?
Yes.

Have you ever wished he was bigger or smaller.?
Yes. I've never wished for a guy to be smaller though but I've probably not had sex with any super gigantic cocks.

In regards to questions 1 and 2 , have you seen a guy improve and be more fun and pleasurable, for you , in bed.?
Yes. Particularly with oral sex.

Also do you have patience or after a couple of dates without much improvement you just dump the guy.?
I don't sleep with a guy that soon these days. If I really liked a guy though then I wouldn't dump him over that. Things can be learned if the guy is willing. I'm not perfect either.

But the last guy I slept with it was terrible. He was bad at oral sex and the first time during sex he lasted like 10 seconds and the second time like 30 seconds. I'd be lying if I said those things didn't disappoint me. They may have had a bit to do with things not working out... but mostly they didn't work out because my heart just wasn't in it, I wasn't all that attracted to him, I didn't get butterflies or excited to see him or hear from him and I felt like he kind of disrespected my wishes to take things slow. I know the last part takes two... but he shouldn't have pushed it.

 

[soren10]

Have you ever wished he was bigger or smaller.?
Yes. I've never wished for a guy to be smaller though but I've probably not had sex with any super gigantic cocks.

was he that small..? in regards to the yes part.

 

[rtg]

was he that small..? in regards to the yes part.

Why do you just focus on this?
I've also been with guys who were small but had skill so all was good.

 

[soren10]

Why do you just focus on this?
I've also been with guys who were small but had skill so all was good.

i'm just inquisitive. that's all.

 

[rtg]

i'm just inquisitive. that's all.

The guys I've wished were bigger just didn't really know how to use it. I also once dated a guy who had a childhood accident which resulted in his penis being tiny. But in all those circumstances their penis size or the quality of the sex was not the reason for things not working out. Just the same as I've never stayed with a guy just cos he had a big dick.

And as I've pointed out before, guys with big dicks can suck in bed too.

 

[693987]

Have you ever wished that a partner could last longer or cum faster?
Yes

Have you ever wished a partner to be more skillful in bed?
Yes

Have you ever wished he was bigger or smaller?
Not really, no

In regards to questions 1 and 2 , have you seen a guy improve and be more fun and pleasurable, for you, in bed?
Yes, some.

Also do you have patience or after a couple of dates without much improvement you just dump the guy?
In the past I didn't have much patience, but I also was only doing casual, friends with benefits, etc. so if they didn't bring their A game for something that was the main reason I spent time around someone, I didn't feel the need to continue things. In an actual romantic relationship I'm much more patient.

 

[soren10]

The guys I've wished were bigger just didn't really know how to use it. I also once dated a guy who had a childhood accident which resulted in his penis being tiny. But in all those circumstances their penis size or the quality of the sex was not the reason for things not working out. Just the same as I've never stayed with a guy just cos he had a big dick.

And as I've pointed out before, guys with big dicks can suck in bed too.

so correct me if i'm wrong. in your first sentence you mean that you wanted bigger to make up for the lack of skills, right..? so you can get a sensation that otherwise you could get from a more skillful lover.

 

[rtg]

so correct me if i'm wrong. in your first sentence you mean that you wanted bigger to make up for the lack of skills, right..? so you can get a sensation that otherwise you could get from a more skillful lover.

Pretty much.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

so correct me if i'm wrong. in your first sentence you mean that you wanted bigger to make up for the lack of skills, right..? so you can get a sensation that otherwise you could get from a more skillful lover.

Bad sex with a guy with a smaller penis is bad because he didn't know what he was doing. Bad sex with a guy wielding a huge penis is fucking awful, because he can hurt you with it.

 

[soren10]

Bad sex with a guy with a smaller penis is bad because he didn't know what he was doing. Bad sex with a guy wielding a huge penis is fucking awful, because he can hurt you with it.

my new self agrees with you.. my former self who is somewhere deep inside ( the part of me that always holds a grain of salt ) thinks otherwise. this former self is the one that gets people who argue with you girls. i've been in both sides of the coin and i don't trust 100% what i see in here.

 

[693987]

i've been in both sides of the coin and i don't trust 100% what i see in here.

I genuinely don't care about anyone on this site other than my partner, who hasn't been active on here in years. I like a handful of individuals, but they're online friends all the same. I'm not the kind of person to bullshit people who are near and dear to me that I love, so why on Earth would I bullshit someone who I don't care about? It's not the nicest way to put it, but what I say on here is truth, no more, no less.

An extremely high amount of men on here think that women lie, but I can almost guaran-damn-tee you that the majority of the time it's in their own freaking heads. Yes, there are a minority of individuals who care about size, just like there are people who will say mean things to hurt people's feelings, etc. but that's the minority of the population. Pop culture riffs on a lot of stuff, that doesn't mean it's how the majority of people actually are. To think that the majority lie, to think that the majority are saying stuff to spare feelings of people we don't care about, and so on is to also think all black people are ghetto thugs, all Asians are shitty drivers and eat dogs, all white people are racists, all Irish/Scottish/Native American are alcoholics, porn is real life, and all the other stupid stereotypes that pop culture likes to poke fun at.

 

[soren10]

I genuinely don't care about anyone on this site other than my partner, who hasn't been active on here in years. I like a handful of individuals, but they're online friends all the same. I'm not the kind of person to bullshit people who are near and dear to me that I love, so why on Earth would I bullshit someone who I don't care about? It's not the nicest way to put it, but what I say on here is truth, no more, no less.

An extremely high amount of men on here think that women lie, but I can almost guaran-damn-tee you that the majority of the time it's in their own freaking heads. Yes, there are a minority of individuals who care about size, just like there are people who will say mean things to hurt people's feelings, etc. but that's the minority of the population. Pop culture riffs on a lot of stuff, that doesn't mean it's how the majority of people actually are. To think that the majority lie, to think that the majority are saying stuff to spare feelings of people we don't care about, and so on is to also think all black people are ghetto thugs, all Asians are shitty drivers and eat dogs, all white people are racists, all Irish/Scottish/Native American are alcoholics, porn is real life, and all the other stupid stereotypes that pop culture likes to poke fun at.

well i wouldn't go this far, but to be fair there are some minor contradictions. and i never said that most women in here lie and i never said they lie all the time, you made the assumption a while ago that for me to ask the same things all the time, there must be some problem with my memory. well time to come clean, by asking the same questions at times i ( personally ) start to trust people , well never 100% , because what they say may not be the truth, but at least they show consistency but at times i notice some minor " cracks " that make me question those statements. small things here and there. so bottom line i like to observe people so i can know if i can trust them, because if you talk to people nearly daily online , you form a kind of friendship and friendship gets stronger with trust..

 

[693987]

well i wouldn't go this far, but to be fair there are some minor contradictions. and i never said that most women in here lie and i never said they lie all the time, you made the assumption a while ago that for me to ask the same things all the time, there must be some problem with my memory. well time to come clean, by asking the same questions at times i ( personally ) start to trust people , well never 100% , because what they say may not be the truth, but at least they show consistency but at times i notice some minor " cracks " that make me question those statements. small things here and there. so bottom line i like to observe people so i can know if i can trust them, because if you talk to people nearly daily online , you form a kind of friendship and friendship gets stronger with trust..

I very specifically said "An extremely high amount of men on here think that women lie"... not "You clearly think all women lie"

Further, there was not an assumption that your memory was bad. It was me wondering if you had problems with your memory, or were intentionally ignoring responses women gave you, or what.

Who's making the assumptions now?

 

[soren10]

I very specifically said "An extremely high amount of men on here think that women lie"... not "You clearly think all women lie"

Further, there was not an assumption that your memory was bad. It was me wondering if you had problems with your memory, or were intentionally ignoring responses women gave you, or what.

Who's making the assumptions now?

well my bad then..!!! my previous post clarifies my actions either way. heh

 

[rtg]

Things may seem like contradictions because so many men here see things in black and white. And I know of a number of men who say the same things over and over again just in different ways to try to "catch us out".

The world is not black and white. Most things are conditional or have a catch 22 or change from one day to the next. It doesn't mean that people lie. It just means that often the listeners will only hear what they want to hear.

What on earth would I have to gain by lying on here? I also don't have anything to gain by being honest... so with that, I'd just prefer to be honest. Because that's who I am. It's frustrating how so many men here try to make their insecurities women's problems and then blame us for them feeling that way.

Men are the ones parading around here about how important big cocks are... not women. I have seen very few women here who seem to be of the mindset that a big cock is the be all and end all.

 

[soren10]

Things may seem like contradictions because so many men here see things in black and white. And I know of a number of men who say the same things over and over again just in different ways to try to "catch us out".

The world is not black and white. Most things are conditional or have a catch 22 or change from one day to the next. It doesn't mean that people lie. It just means that often the listeners will only hear what they want to hear.

What on earth would I have to gain by lying on here? I also don't have anything to gain by being honest... so with that, I'd just prefer to be honest. Because that's who I am. It's frustrating how so many men here try to make their insecurities women's problems and then blame us for them feeling that way.

Men are the ones parading around here about how important big cocks are... not women. I have seen very few women here who seem to be of the mindset that a big cock is the be all and end all.

I hear you. But let me reserve judgment on that, so to speak. The things I refer to are not just simple statements but actions also. Also I want name people or actions, as I have noticed doing that is not ok , in threads.

 

[rtg]

I hear you. But let me reserve judgment on that, so to speak. The things I refer to are not just simple statements but actions also. Also I want name people or actions, as I have noticed doing that is not ok , in threads.

But this is the Internet dude. If you expect everyone to act the same as they do in real life... or to just fully be themselves or be honest all the time, then that's just delusional.

Yeah I'm honest but the thing that appeals to ppl about forums like this (including me) is the ability to remain anonymous. Certain people also like that they can be someone else on the internet... and then others just like being trolls. I think you take the words of strangers much too seriously.

 

[soren10]

But this is the Internet dude. If you expect everyone to act the same as they do in real life... or to just fully be themselves or be honest all the time, then that's just delusional.

Yeah I'm honest but the thing that appeals to ppl about forums like this (including me) is the ability to remain anonymous. Certain people also like that they can be someone else on the internet... and then others just like being trolls. I think you take the words of strangers much too seriously.

Nah, trust me I don't , as I said earlier I never believe anyone 100% and I always have a grain of salt.