with woman on top my penis slips out

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  1. albert2006

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    My penis is curved and not long(about 5,7-5,8 inch)and sometimes during relations it slips out of the vagina expecially when she is on top..This happens because my penis is a little short or curved?
    I have heard that women like it cause it feeld better,... BUT! If we are talking about length a curved cock does not go as deep as a non curved cock...That is my problem there... my cock is .5,8.if i use a tape to measure it..... but if i use a ruller it is 5.4" cause of the curve.....
    SO the question is, is a 5.8 inch straight cock better then a 5,8 inch cock with a curve that goes 5.4" deep...?
    A long penis,obviously,doesn't slip out easily..But i think that the form of the penis can be important..
    Which is your opinion?
     
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    Yes I suspect that a penis that measures 5.8" when measured along the curve, but 5.4" when measured with a rigid ruler is somewhat more likely to pop out in the cowgirl position than one which is straight and measures 5.8".

    But I would think that you have plenty of length to screw her in the cowgirl position. Reverse cowgirl seems to require a bit more "reach" at least in my experience. I suspect it is just a matter of you and her getting to know exactly how long a stroke you can take before popping out, and she may need to angle her pelvis a bit.
     
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    It all depends on how she moves. If she's moving up and down, everyone slips out for two reasons:

    1) The stimulation is really not all that great. Works for porn, but more like a great big meh for me. I go soft pretty easily.

    2) If she's sliding up 5.8" and you're 5.7", that thing will pop out no matter how good she is. There's always some lateral force accompanying up and down stroking and once a smidge of your glans is out, you'll just slip out altogether.

    Let me find a video clip of the right kind of motion. This may take a while. BRB
     
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    I get plenty of stimulation in the cowgirl position. I like reverse cowgirl as well, but the women I have had sex with didn't care much for it.
     
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    Use your hands to guide her hips to keep the motion close, which also leads to better clitoral stimulation. You both win. Oh, yeah, you have the same size dick as most of the men on this planet.
     
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    Its the motion in the ocean. Vague i know but really. This is part of the reason people think dancers are so good in bed (or at least i think). Its the ability to know how long you are, how much space you have until you pop out and being able to control that to a rhythm.

    She probably doesn't have that sense of length because well she doesn't have a penis. My opinion? Have way more passionate sex. Once you two get use to each others bodies your timing will align. Like riding a bike :)
     
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    Sorry double post.
     
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    Because your dick curves upwards, you are going to be rubbing the sensitive part if the vagina with ur knob. In missionary or cowgirl, your dcik will curve up to the front of the vagina. Its sensitive there because the clitorus is there on the outside. Like when you finger a girl, your fingers curve up in there as well.
    Be proud of your curve and put it to good use.
     
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    YES, I'm glad there's someone else who feels like this. The stimulation from her pussy is actually awesome (I find with the less-sensitive girls that I get her cervix pushing in to the side of my dick hard this way, which feels nice) but everything else muddles the feeling and the rhythm. Maybe it's just because I like bigger girls, but the weight on my legs + hips isn't fun. The worst part is, unless we're both really sweaty that day, there's way to much friction between the tops of my legs and the bottom of her legs.
    The most frustrating thing is that women do seem to love it, but often when she's really grinding and looking like she's close to coming I'm just not in to it, and it's bad for both of us.

    It's unfortunate that things that feel great on a woman don't always feel great for the man and vice versa, but I guess that's what tongues, fingers, and toys are for.
     
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    Try this position. Slouch back face up on a couch resting your torso on the seat cushion with your butt supported on an ottoman of about the same height leaving a little gap between the couch and the ottoman. She can straddle you and put her legs in the gap between the couch and ottoman with her feet on the floor. Having her feet on the floor allows her to support a good bit of her body weight and is easier on her legs.

    As for the OP if you are referring to having sex with the same woman, I would just keep screwing her cowgirl and I bet the problem will take care of itself. It is a perfect example of a negative feedback loop. She rides up a little too high, you pop out - negative feedback. She will soon figure out how much she can move after you slip out a few hundred times.
     
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    The only people I know with ottomans are old people. Wait a sec.. oh grandma no! I ate a bowl of Werther's Originals off of that ottoman!
     
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    Well I am an old fart so that is why I have one. A narrow footstool is also great to have sex on sitting with the woman on your lap. No chair arms or back to get in the way.
     
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