Withdrawal method - hands free or jerk assist orgasm

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  1. JR7

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    What do you guys think? When you're fucking a woman bare bone if you pull out (which I always do, except for the times my wife and I were attempting to procreate) do you jerk off on her ass, tits, stomach, etc. or do you just let it pop hands free? I've done both, but a buddy of mine has said he doesn't like jerking off in front of/on a girl. He says it's too porno. I agree that it's porno, but that's what I like about it. I also like that I can shoot more cum and further if I jerk assist. Still, I like the hands free cumshot because it's specifically 70's porno (think Jon Leslie), and 70's porn is my favorite/most erotic porn of all. I also like seeing my dick involuntarily swing up and down with each hands free spurt (as does my wife). There are benefits to each - I never know which I'm going to choose until the last possible second. I guess that's what makes sex fun and exciting though.
     
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    The only time I let it pop hands free is when I'm titfucking a woman, otherwise, when I pull out, I jerk off on her (in order of preference) 1)face, 2)tits, 3)ass, 4)stomach. I like being able to aim where it shoots. Some women have told me that they like when I jerk off in front of them.
     
  3. JR7

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    Great response, SlamminSammy. I could see hands free being particularly well suited to no hands. The titties are pretty much serving as the hands. Oddly enough I can only remember tittie fucking one time and this girl reportedly loved the taste of my cum so I right as I felt those glorious tits make me orgasm I stuck my cock in her mouth and she swallowed my load. Really easy access for tat move when you're already up there. I've only cum on women's faces by accident. I always found it degrading. I see that's your preference. What's your rationale?
     
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    I don't find it degrading because being a distance shooter, I cum on my own face all of the time when I don't have a woman around. I attribute my preference to Peter North. I am a heavy cummer so I get visual stimulation from seeing my big load all over a woman's face whereas cumming in a woman's mouth does nothing for me so I do that only if we're in public & have to try not to make too much of a mess.
     
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    I don't jerk off per se but I do hold it when I cum, mostly for aiming, because things can get rather messy and in places we don't want if I just let it fly on its own (though even holding it I sometimes have a few errant shots as well)
     
  6. JR7

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    I always thought the first slow motion (hands free) cumshot you see in thetrapeze scene in Behind the Green Door was impressive. Marilyn Chambers isriding an unknown male actor and the film starts going in slow motion. The guy pulls out in the knick of time and just starts spurting hands free in Marilyn's pubes and pretty much on his own balls/legs. Granted, I can't slow down time to make mine slow motion, but I have often emulated that shot cumming from reverse cowgirl. It's impressive to the ladies too - especially if you cum alot and leave your hands off. Many have commented how they love seeing my cock snap back and forth on its own as it spews the cum. And yes, I've said, "I learned it from Behind the Green Door," which usually resulted in a viewing of the film.
     
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    I don't cut it too close to the time I'm coming so I need the extra jerks to finish on her belly or ass. I try to get good balance where I don't need too much JO time to finish.
     
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    definitely jerk assisted.....in my experience a lot of times girls like to see you finish yourself on them. it can't be longer than a few seconds though otherwise they get impatient waiting for the big finish and wonder why you didn't just keep plowing in the first place!!
     
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    If I do a hands free my cock will stay hard and I can go right back to fucking. I can do this about 4 times and still keep and erection. The ladies love it and think I am some sort of freak. If I jerk off when I finish then I am done and can't get hard again. I am not sure why, but this is just the way it is.
     
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    I prefer watching the guy jerk off... but if not properly aimed in the right direction I will block it with my own hands... in the eye can sting and also one hair wash and dry a day is plenty for me. However, on certain occasions it can fly anywhere depending on my mood. :)
     
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    I'm the same. (Mostly). First discovered this quite by accident as the girl I was with said, with a slight edge of desperation, "don't come inside me" after I'd passed the point of no return. Took a huge effort of will to pull out, and the spurts went over her belly, her left breast, her left armpit (twice) and then retreated back in reverse order.
    I stayed ridiculously hard, and I think I was even hornier than before. This surprised both of us. She wasn't having a bar of it, though, she was very worried about pregnancy.

    Usually I can't be bothered doing this, it takes almost too much will power, but when I have the result is always the same. And the second orgasm usually more intense.
     
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    This is awsome I will try the hands free thing soon I want two fuck four times in a short amount of time
     
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    i personally find it really degrading when a guy cums on my face...i just never let it happen...my personal preference is having a guy cum inside me cuz i like feeling his cock jump inside of me. cumming on my tits is definitely ok and for some reason i do like watching a guy jack himself off especially when he has a huge amount of cum :p
     
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    I typically can't cum without some form of stimulation so IF I pull out, I jerk off on my wife's stomach.. this isn't a common occurrence.. only the occasion when I know it's going to be a huge load and if it's before she's going to work or somewhere else... because it will run out all day and her pants will be soaked...

    However, a few months ago (unfortunately we don't have sex that often) we were having sex and the lights were off.. since it had been so long since we had sex I wasn't able to do a lot without feeling the urge come on strong.. so I started out by going down on her for about 45 minutes and then started fucking her for a few minutes, I'd feel the urge and pull out and then go back down on her.. after another 20-30 minutes of this stop and go intercourse/going down I was so close to the edge that when I pulled out I could feel my cock pulsating like I was having an orgasm but it wasn't the total body feeling you get from a full orgasm.. when I slid back down to eat her out more, I noticed my chest was lying in a pool of cum... in the back of my mind I was thinking, ok. I went too far so I'm done for awhile... after eating her out for a few more minutes I realized i was still horny as hell so I figured I'd grab my dick and try to get hard again for another go.. but when I grabbed my cock, it was harder than ever before and still covered in cum.. so basically when I pulled out, I ejaculated but I didn't lose my erection.. and I was able to keep going...

    so after reading a few posts above, I'm going to try again to pull out and cum without stimulation to see if I can keep my erection and keep going...
     
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    How is cuming on your face degrading?

    If its done in a degrading manner then i could/would agree.

    When i go down on a woman I've got her juices all over my face. Nothing better than having a woman orgasam on my face! Love It!

    Seems like a double standard.

    The no handed orgasam is a nice touch... seem like after i cum a bit i can then start to stroke it for a full orgasam.
     
  16. JR7

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    One of the reasons men favor the no hands cumshot is, yes, as some of you have pointed out, you can stay hard and go back to fucking, pull out hands free, cum a little more an maybe do it four more times. It's the slow drain method. I've talked to my wife about it and unfortunately she's not game for it. She loves my cumshot and certainly enjoys it on her skin, but once it's on there, she likes to be cleaned p fairly quickly so the idea of fucking some more with cumshots on her for an indefinite period of time is not her bag.I can see where she's coming from because I can usually hold out a pretty long time so she probably figures since premature orgasm isn't an issue, why not get laid a long time without doing it covered in cum?
     
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    I find a cumshot is just not the same without some stimulation.
     
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    I've always preferred to cum inside females but occasionally pull out if they want me to, or if I'm in the mood myself. When younger I pulled out of girls occasionally when I didn't have a condom.

    I've got to know exactly when to pull out and ejaculate without needing to finish myself off by hand. I find it much sexier to do that and think women like it too, I always tell them I'm cumming just as I pull out so they can watch.

    I don't like cumming on women's faces, think it's a bit degrading and it smacks of porn.
     
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    Loving to have your face covered in a woman's "juices" is your personal preference...my personal preference is to not have a guy cum on my face...never said i wouldn't let him cum in my mouth though did i?
     
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    My wife likes this as well,and when I'm about to blow the last thing I want is to have to pull out.If anything I want to drive my dick deeper and harder....Pull out hell no!:biggrin1:
     
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