Freyasfolk, interesting you disapprove of cumming in a female's face because it "smacks of porn." Announcing you're cumming and pulling out right as you'r about to nut so the woman can see it is straight out of porn (especially 70's porn). I was an avid watcher of 70's porn before I became sexually active (my early teens), so I think that's why when I did become sexually active I always did the same thing. Even with a condom I would pull out, rip the rubber off and show my cumshot. I figured it was like it never happened if I just came in a rubber. I also got really into 'announcing.' From my seventies porn I noticed there were all sorts of ways to announce ejaculation so I always tried to mix it up - especially if I were hooking up with the same woman 3-4 times. One time I might use the vanilla, "I'm cumming," another time I'd say, "I'm gonna shoot." Then I might say, "here it comes." I got a real kick out of that as did my partners.