lately the biggest turn on for me is hearing my wife talk about her ex-lovers, especially the big ones. once she was at a party and waited until everyone had left and then crawled into bed with the host and rode his big cock (about 9" she thinks). picturing it my mind gets me hard every time. another time she went home with a black guy that she knew. back at his apartment he took her into the bedroom and she sucked him and then fucked him. when he was done he left her naked on the bed and his friend, also black, came in and she gave him a blow job. they were both bigger than me. i'm 6"x4.5". i can't get enough of these stories it seems.