Woke up and realize "HELL NAH!"

[naughty]

I wouldn't call it broken in spirit its more going through a transition. As human beings we all hate change, especially sudden change.

Secondly, the worst part about it as a guy ( or person, thus leaving it open to all genders) you really can't talk to your buds about it cause they are either "too busy" or think you are "bringing them down" or "bringing the drama". So we learn to just gave folks the happy face in life and keep shit to yourself.



No wonder why these therapist are getting rich now a days. Thankfully there's this forum where you can just get someone to hear you out and gieve you some sound advice!

Baby,

it sounds like you need to get new homies. Friendship ideally should be a two way street. Those sound like acquaintances to me. The women and men I truly call friends can tell me about myself let me get mad and we are back in business the next day (Or maybe longer depending on how good a mad I worked up! LOL! ) I actually had one of my best female friends tell me while crying on my shoulder "Damn girl, I wish I could be a bitch like you, then I wouldnt keep getting messed over by these jerks" I had to crack up laughing over that one.

 

[blkbro510]

No I don't need new homies. I like you guys. You guys give some sound shit. The last time I talked to my friends I STAYED IN THE BULL SHIT! I'm not going back! So lets focus on me standing my ground and not becoming this woman's bitch again. Alright everyone lets focus on that part! For me please.

Baby,

it sounds like you need to get new homies. Friendship ideally should be a two way street. Those sound like acquaintances to me. The women and men I truly call friends can tell me about myself let me get mad and we are back in business the next day (Or maybe longer depending on how good a mad I worked up! LOL! ) I actually had one of my best female friends tell me while crying on my shoulder "Damn girl, I wish I could be a bitch like you, then I wouldnt keep getting messed over by these jerks" I had to crack up laughing over that one.

 

[naughty]

No I don't need new homies. I like you guys. You guys give some sound shit. The last time I talked to my friends I STAYED IN THE BULL SHIT! I'm not going back! So lets focus on me standing my ground and not becoming this woman's bitch again. Alright everyone lets focus on that part! For me please.

Thanks, sweets!

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

You say being her bitch but you don't really explain how she treated you badly?

 

[D_Jurgen Klitgaard]

You say being her bitch but you don't really explain how she treated you badly?

I'd like to know that as well.

 

[B_talltpaguy]

Whatever you do, don't stay in contact with her at all, if you can avoid it. If y'all get along n shit otherwise, maybe you can be friends again later, but not for at least a few months. It sounds like you're better off going the c-ya-next-lifetime route, but that's your call. I'm not there at ground zero. lol

 

[willow78]

I'm not going to give relationship advice but I can certainly give single advice. Forget about this person. If you stay with someone you don't really love, you will HATE your life - you won't be happy, and I truly believe that mental/emotional health can greatly affect physical health. You will be stressed out over this person. The thought of going home after work to this person will make you miserable. Instead of looking forward to the weekend, you will see it as a chore and dread spending 48 hours with someone you don't care for. Before you know it, you will be in your 50's or 60's, the best years of your life will be gone and you will resent the person you wasted them on.
So I suggest you think of how much fun you can have as a single person. You can do all those things you wanted to do but they didn't. You don't have to do the things they wanted to do but you hated. You don't have to visit their parents/family that you don't get along with. You can spend more time with your buddies - I mean REAL buddies who will listen to your problems and not tell you they're too busy. Sure you'll miss the sex, but you still have your hands! :biggrin1:
I would rather be happy alone, than miserable with someone I don't love. Don't feel guilty about leaving this person. You'll feel worse if you stay.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

change does suck. but it's gotta happen.i'm going through it as well.
i've been single for two years now,and i try to work all the time i have to myself as best as i can.it can seem dark at times(i only know jump-offs/booty calls,no single available women)but stay positive,you'll get through it.

 

[B_Nick4444]

I have never bought into the idea of a soul mate (seems like so much nonsense to me), so, no never have felt that way

 

[wseattle]

I have never bought into the idea of a soul mate (seems like so much nonsense to me), so, no never have felt that way

Just curious since i am a big canucks fan in seattle.. how did you become a fan of a team in NZ and canada while living in texas? peace

 

[deleted395785]

Know that feeling all to well. It's the greatest feeling in the world to get rid of certain people as long ad you stand your ground & don't go back.

 

[lopo2000]

It's human nature to want something more which is why you're done with this person, you want something new. So perhaps you're yearning for something more than this. What I'd suggest is, just like any other vices, like adultery, lying, etc, wanting something more, or in the more offensive term, greed, is something that you should fight. Fight against it, and fight for it...