Woman are in charge most of the time in marriage.

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    I think that in most marriages woman are the one that really have the pants in the relationship. Iam NOT sayin that this is a bad thing , only a observation . My mom was the one that really got the pants , My brothers wifes has the pants in their relationships too . My friends wifes are the one that really have the pants. I have a question to the ladies here : Are you the one with the pants in your house? In another words , in your home everyone do according to what you said or you always have the last word? :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::cool::cool::cool::cool:

    Tell the truth please !!!!:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
     
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    (ducks for cover to stay out of the crossfire)
     
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    i tend to think it is like this in the majority of hetrosexual relationships....now dont get on my case when i say this but i also think alot of women use sex to barter with their hubbys and most guys go along with this....(like little boys in sweetie shops).........lets face it the typical married man on his death has enough possessions to fill a black bag........the wife needs a removal van for all her gear (giggles).....am i right or am i wrong?
     
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    I'm not going to argue with this, I think in the majority of marriages it is the wife who makes all the major decisions, but she's usually the one who has more of a clue as to what is needed to make the house run properly.
     
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    you are so true SP....bow to yah
     
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    I think so. We Men are like little children in there hands. I dont mind. The Boss is so pretty. :smile:
     
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    It's true.
     
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    "Any relationship is in control of the person who cares the least" - G. Livingston
     
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    That's an awesome quote.

    It does seem that women wear the pants in general, but for me personally, I like to know that I'm equal and if things aren't 50/50 I'm just not going there. I literally balk at some of the relationships my brother gets into, for example. He has no real backbone anyway, but he gets bossed around to the point where you think 'where has your own life gone?' I do think it's easier to be equal when there are no kids involved though. It seems to me like once they come along, there has to be some sort of taskmaster in the house, and since men are generally inept and indifferent, it ends up in the hands of the woman. So she becomes the overachieving slave-driver soccer-mom and he turns into Al Bundy, wishing he could escape and fuck anyone else but her every night.
     
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    You're not only wrong you're stupid. :rolleyes: :mad: Do you know any straight people at all?:confused: I have NEVER used sex as a weapon or to barter for anything. As for married men not having a lot of things :eek: . . .WTF!?!?! Have you never looked at the catalogs for Sharper Image, Brookstone; and Hammacher Schlemmer? Who do you think buys all that stupid shit? Not women!


    SpoiledPrincess you are so right! Fathers and husbands are often clueless because they don't want to be bothered with the little details. Then they bitch that the women in their lives are bossy, picky, and overbearing.


    Whatever . . . :rolleyes: :mad: :confused:

    SixofSpades are you saying that if more men had the balls to act like a man, this wouldn't happen? :biggrin1::cool:
     
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    Of course we do. We'd rather see your balls hanging from under the skirt. Sex is a good weapon. Something men want that we control. Hey sounds like a plan to me, you want head.. I want the lawn mowed in diagonal pattern to the right, trash taken out, dinner made on the table at 5pm sharp, and dishes done after. Then you'll get what you want.

    It works that way in my house, my mom wants something... she'll hint then throw a hissy fit. It's worked for 25+ years. So nj your accusing that person of not knowing any heterosexual couples was wrong.
     
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    You have an opinion and I have an opinion. We both expressed it.
     
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    i have an opinion too
     
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    if it wasn't for pussy, i wouldn't even shower. true story.
     
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    do with that information what you will
     
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    This is why I love you and Ed. Our households are a lot alike in dynamic I presume.

    My wife knows what needs to happen, but will not do it. I attend to the finer details of the house, the finances, landscaping, repairs, etc.
    AS for bigger decisions, they are made by the two of us. My wife also does not hold me hostage for sex to get what she wants. She usually gets what she wants when she waits as I am horrible about buying her things spur of the moment.

    In a lot of houses this may be true that the woman rules the roost, but not in mine. The rooster and the hen share the roost.
     
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    I have been accused (by the asshole guy) of using sex as a weapon, but I wasn't. I didn't want to have sex with him after he started making sexist statements because I just wasn't in the mood anymore - he essentially killed my sex drive! (and that's not easy to do! :eek:) I have not been this way with anyone else - for a time in 2003-2004 I had no, or very little, sex drive due to physical illness though.

    Hey, I'm a woman and I love Sharper Image and those places! :biggrin1: Fun, fun!!! Of course, I'm also the woman who wanted to head for the sporting goods while my LTR guy wanted to look at tea sets! :biggrin1::biggrin1: (he found that amusing to no end!) I can't afford that kind of stuff anymore though.

    I really do prefer a marriage/serious relationship be an equal partnership.
     
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