Woman are in charge most of the time in marriage.

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You have an opinion and I have an opinion. We both expressed it.

GREAT, THANK YOU FOR EXPRESSING YOUR OPINION.:smile:

if it wasn't for pussy, i wouldn't even shower. true story.

Thank you for showering, It is so much more fun playing when you are squeaky clean.:tongue:

This is why I love you and Ed. Our households are a lot alike in dynamic I presume.

My wife knows what needs to happen, but will not do it. I attend to the finer details of the house, the finances, landscaping, repairs, etc.
AS for bigger decisions, they are made by the two of us. My wife also does not hold me hostage for sex to get what she wants. She usually gets what she wants when she waits as I am horrible about buying her things spur of the moment.

In a lot of houses this may be true that the woman rules the roost, but not in mine. The rooster and the hen share the roost.

Glad to hear Ed and I aren't the only ones.:rolleyes:
 

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My wife also does not hold me hostage for sex to get what she wants.

Oh but I do that to my wife all the time!I let her watch me shower nude and wiggle my dick with soapy water running off the head.When her motor is realy running I tell her to mow the yard.:eek:When she's done,as a reward for being a good girl I let her blow me!:smile:Now I'm gonna run cause she willl see this and I'll get my ass beat or probed!LOL!!!!
 

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Its about a devotion to eachother. Not giving ones soul. The giving of a heart. Letting go as a man. Not having to be in control of everything anymore is wonderfull. The minute you try to own someone it's the begining of the end.
 

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I literally balk at some of the relationships my brother gets into, for example. He has no real backbone anyway, but he gets bossed around to the point where you think 'where has your own life gone?'

Perhaps he likes getting bossed around SoS, there are lots of men who are glad to be relieved of the responsibility of making the decisions.
 

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I literally balk at some of the relationships my brother gets into, for example. He has no real backbone anyway, but he gets bossed around to the point where you think 'where has your own life gone?'

Perhaps he likes getting bossed around SoS, there are lots of men who are glad to be relieved of the responsibility of making the decisions.



I agree SP, that's why there are so many married men who can't find their own clean socks. :tongue:
 

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From observation my guess is that control freakery is more or less evenly divided between the sexes, in marriage as in every other context. Perhaps it is more obvious in women, as it tends to adopt more strident tones with them.

Marriage is meant to be a partnership. IMHO all of us who tend towards the controlling end of the spectrum need to know ourselves and act accordingly.
 

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My mother was a control freak.
When Dad wanted his balls he asked Mother dear, and she took them out of her hand bag and handed them to him with the warning that she would want them back.
My EX husband was a control freak, but at least I perfected my BJ on him.
I found it preferable to blow him and swallow, go to the bathroom and scrub my tounge and mouth and have a long boiling shower and come back to the bedroom to find him asleep and snoring, than to have him hoist his vast heaving bulk on top of me for 10 mins of rutting and coating me in sweat, body hair and saliva.
 

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i think that in most marriages woman are in charge but in two main different ways. In some homes woman in charge but in a subtle way making the man to believe that he is in charge , when in reality the woman is the one really in charge . In another homes the woman make very clear that she is the one in charge and the man knows and accept this.
 

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i think that in most marriages woman are in charge but in two main different ways. In some homes woman in charge but in a subtle way making the man to believe that he is in charge , when in reality the woman is the one really in charge . In another homes the woman make very clear that she is the one in charge and the man knows and accept this.

That is very perceptive of you tallbig, I never expected to hear something so profound, from you!
I bow to you for being right and proving me wrong in this instance.
:notworthy::notworthy::notworthy::notworthy:
cigarbabe:saevil:
 

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That is very perceptive of you tallbig, I never expected to hear something so profound, from you!
I bow to you for being right and proving me wrong in this instance.
:notworthy::notworthy::notworthy::notworthy:
Actually anyone can learn that with intense observation . The thing is that most people dont observe their surroundings. Any one can learn a lot doing that.
 

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You're not only wrong you're stupid. :rolleyes: :mad: Do you know any straight people at all?:confused: I have NEVER used sex as a weapon or to barter for anything. As for married men not having a lot of things :eek: . . .WTF!?!?! Have you never looked at the catalogs for Sharper Image, Brookstone; and Hammacher Schlemmer? Who do you think buys all that stupid shit? Not women!

SpoiledPrincess you are so right! Fathers and husbands are often clueless because they don't want to be bothered with the little details. Then they bitch that the women in their lives are bossy, picky, and overbearing.

Whatever . . . :rolleyes: :mad: :confused:

SixofSpades are you saying that if more men had the balls to act like a man, this wouldn't happen? :biggrin1::cool:


course im stoopid.....im just a fag afterall aint i.........i shall go sit in the corner and have no opinions then. :rolleyes:
 

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Maybe a better question would be to ask the married guys here how much control they feel that they have .....and ask for honest answers.

There are some areas where I have control....but some I don't want control of.....like the garage area.....
I have my corner....and I don't care what he does with the rest of it....

I have always handled paying the bills......but then so did my mom in my parent's marriage.....but I wouldn't say she had all the control.
They were married 65 and a half years when my dad passed away in 2000.
 

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Maybe a better question would be to ask the married guys here how much control they feel that they have .....and ask for honest answers.

There are some areas where I have control....but some I don't want control of.....like the garage area.....
I have my corner....and I don't care what he does with the rest of it....

I have always handled paying the bills......but then so did my mom in my parent's marriage.....but I wouldn't say she had all the control.
They were married 65 and a half years when my dad passed away in 2000.
In my opinion that's not a very good question because people often arent aware when they are controlled by others persons. Many guys feel that they have some control in relationships but in reality they often not.Some woman control in a subtle way their husbands or boyfriends.