woman are so chatty

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I'm an introvertive guy . I don't like to talk much . When I talk I just go to the point . Several girls at work complaint that I don't talk enough . From my point of view I don't understand how woman can be so chatty . They talk about everything all the time. Why woman enjoy to chat so much ?
 
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On the average, women speak 21,000 words a day. Men only 7,000. Women are more relationship oriented than men. One way to build a relationship is to talk with a person. Men are not so relationship oriented. Sure, there are exceptions, but these are the averages.

I don't know you, so I don't know why you don't speak much. Maybe you are secure in yourself and don't feel a need to "prove" yourself to someone. Maybe you don't feel good about yourself, and don't want others to get to know you. The reasons can be endless.

When someone may ask me why I am so quiet I say, "Better someone to think I am a fool, than for me to open my mouth and erase all doubt"
 

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same reason they just sit there and stuff themselves with food ... if they're not being fondled, caressed, and touched, they have to compensate by eating and talking
 

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On the average, women speak 21,000 words a day. Men only 7,000. Women are more relationship oriented than men. One way to build a relationship is to talk with a person. Men are not so relationship oriented. Sure, there are exceptions, but these are the averages.

I don't know you, so I don't know why you don't speak much. Maybe you are secure in yourself and don't feel a need to "prove" yourself to someone. Maybe you don't feel good about yourself, and don't want others to get to know you. The reasons can be endless.

When someone may ask me why I am so quiet I say, "Better someone to think I am a fool, than for me to open my mouth and erase all doubt"
I'm an introvertive guy . I just simply don't like to talk for the sake of talking . It seems that to most woman that's their main hobby.
 

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same reason they just sit there and stuff themselves with food ... if they're not being fondled, caressed, and touched, they have to compensate by eating and talking
That's funny . Maybe you are really up to something with that.
 

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women talk because they hope no one will notice they are stupid and don't have a brain in their heads. they also talk to manipulate men into handing over their money to them. most women talk to avoid sex, and use words to grudgingly do so on occasion. women talk because they are insecure and self-absorbed.
 

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Numbers told me something that now that I think about it could be true. Maybe those girls that complaint like me ? Man in that case I'm really slow reading woman but I'm a guy and men don't change. I can't be chatty .
 

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LOL, yep, you are young still. Welcome to the relationship jungle.
The very reason I am glad to be married for 15 years. I would not want to be back out there. My hats off to you.
Numbers told me something that now that I think about it could be true. Maybe those girls that complaint like me ? Man in that case I'm really slow reading woman but I'm a guy and men don't change.
 

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I'm an introvertive guy . I don't like to talk much . When I talk I just go to the point . Several girls at work complaint that I don't talk enough . From my point of view I don't understand how woman can be so chatty . They talk about everything all the time. Why woman enjoy to chat so much ?


So, HungDavid, I take it that you're not in sales?:smile: