Woman Has Stiff Muscles (All Over) After Sex

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  1. Paul Vincent

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    Hi.

    So last night, straight after we had sex and all this morning, my girlfriend has had stiffness and aching muscles all over, specifically in the legs, stomach, buttocks, arms.

    We were just wondering why this is. Is she just not up to the pace? :p

    The problem we think is we had sex five times in just over 24hrs, quite vigorous but each session was no more than an hour long. (We hadn't seen each other for two weeks).

    Any tips for her getting over this stiffness (and I thought only guys could get stiff) would be cool. Also we would just like to see how common this problem is.

    PS It's a long story why I'm back :p
     
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    Paul, it sounds like she's board.
     
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    Hi Paul...

    My opinion and experiences...

    Is she fit ? They are thin or not overweight woman that are not fit...well, 5 times in 24h is not an everyday event but still...i notice that as a woman i have to be fit and work out and give attention to the muscles groups i will use more during love making. I use to dance a lot and because of that natural flexibe and use to do lot of streching exercises as part of my daily routine.. i notice if i dont exercise regularly i may get more aches when have extra sex sessions...
     
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    This situation is likely due to her having used muscles that dont normally get used every day. Like working out at the gym for the first time in years often leads to sore stiff muscles. My suggest is going to be one that I'm sure you'll hate. The best way to get that soreness worked out is to keep working those muscles. I hearby prescribe you to have sex with her until she's no longer sore.
     
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    Well, how did YOU feel after all the sex.. did you feel like some of your own tension had been relieved? You know, few people in conventional America are aware that lovemaking is a healing practice. I am a bodyworker and I have experienced some nasty energy transferrences from sexual energy, while working with some clients. For instance, one time a fellow suddenly decided to just start masturbating (which is totally inappropriate for my work), as I was working on his left calf.. Once he started doing that, I took my hands off of him and as soon as he ejaculated, he experienced this shooting accute pain in his calf.. Like a compassionate fool, I rubbed this pain out, quickly dispursing it from his body.. Little did I realize I was about to take on some severe muscle spasms (shooting, stabbing accute pain all over the body from top of head, to tip of toes and even in the heart).. I had to have a very good cry the next day in the ER, when I went in with a friend who is a massage therapist.. In the waiting room, he rubbed my back and gave me a hug and I cried very hard.. Suddenly the pain had vanished.


    This tension she experiened may have been an energy transferrence.
     
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    Thanks.

    She's okay now and I think it was her having used muscles she doesn't normally use. We just had sex again (to see if she had recovered). It was quite good.
     
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    Here we go Paul !!! :fing02:

    Best way to recuperate is keep doing it...:biggrin1:
     
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    Great minds think alike ;)
     
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    Oh man i get excited for you 2 !!!

    :tongue: Keep the good work Paul !!!:tongue:
     
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    Thanks. It doesn't feel like work though hehe. You enjoy yourself too ;)
     
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    My boyfriend is a yoga fanatic and because of him I'm getting into it as well,my usual fitness routine includes pilates and walking,I also lift weights on occasion to fight arm fat,which for some reason I'm especially prone to,I find that if you do stretching exercises before a marathon lovin' session you won't hurt afterwards:tongue:
     
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    Sounds like you were just Hornier than your muscles could take. I would like to try that too. Sounds like you and your girlfriend have a great relationship, Keep it up. Don't ever get too old to have great sex. Once is never enough.:smile:
     
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    I wouldn't be too upset about being sore after sex.. it's a work out sometimes! I can't remember her name but there was some lady on Oprah one time that swore by sex as a work out. She supposedly lost all kinds of weight lol.
    Sometimes I'll be sore it just depends tho.... like say we spent a long time in one position.. it just depends. And for me, I don't get to see my bf that often, so everytime we first get together there's usually a sore muscle somewhere.
     
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    Sounds like a good excuse for a massage.

    (Not that you need an excuse)
     
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    Either that or a nice bath..... both can be very hot:rolleyes:
     
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    Massage and the hot bath are great ideas.
    But you say more sex helped...

    Hmmm, sounds like the good old "hair of the dog" remedy.
     
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    I bit a Golden Retriever after a long night of drinking, and I've gotta say that the misnamed hangover cures are a bit frigtening. All I got was six stitches and a call to Animal Control. Hair of the dog.......what kind of idiot thinks that works?

    The title of this thread made me laugh. The last time a woman I slept with had stiff muscles all over I was at a funeral.

    Oh come on, like I'm the only one that's given someone a proper send-off?
     
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