Woman should think sex first, love second

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Woman need to really start thinking like a man, if they make sex top priority i think relationships will last longer. But when they think love first and try to change a man that's where relationships start breaking down, we are man, we need to stay manly not damn sensitive.:biggrin1:
 

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Why try and change a man? If I don't like him the way he is, then I'm moving on. :)

On that note-- I have been known to view a man sexually first, but the issue was I never fall in love with those men. And when I do view men in a purely sexual way, I usually don't form a habit of seeing them more than a booty call.

Unfortunately, for me, it's either both or neither.
 

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Why try and change a man? If I don't like him the way he is, then I'm moving on. :)

This. I have the same opinion this guy does. My relationships follow a theory I call "Chris' law of inverse proportions in relationships" or something like that

First girl had sex with me in a week, went out with me for 11 months
Second girl had sex with me in a couple hours, went out with me for 2 years
Third girl doesn't count cause she was a lesbian who just wanted to get with second girl and used me (her friend) to do it
Forth girl had sex with me the morning after and has been with me for over 7 months with no indication of stopping

I've had plenty of other girlfriends that lasted a week to 3 month but none of them ever did anything to me. So why should me or original poster change our opinions?
 

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Sorry wasn't thinking when I quoted...I do that a lot. I did catch your gender before posting but it didn't make it into my thought process.
 

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Woman need to really start thinking like a man, if they make sex top priority i think relationships will last longer. But when they think love first and try to change a man that's where relationships start breaking down, we are man, we need to stay manly not damn sensitive.:biggrin1:

I think your putting sex too high on priorities. Sex can be great if you and your partner can keep emotional things at a balance. Sex can be even better when both partners are in love with each other.

Though not many men see sex being a wide topic, as the penis is supreme ruler so to speak. For me sex is so wide that I not need to touch my soul mate, yet the pleasure is there for the both of us.

I think your limiting your sexual awareness by being a man, learn a woman and you will see that they are even more sexual than you.
 

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When I look back on my life, I will think about people. Stories. Places. Feelings. Visions. Meanings. Journeys.

Women are right about that.

I don't expect I will be thinking much about tubes of flesh being poked into other tubes of flesh.

And most women are right about that too :smile:
 

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Woman need to really start thinking like a man

OK ... think I'll go over here to the sofa with my beer and put on the Playstation, got me some zombies to kill for the next 11 hours. Wait, my sex organ is telling me I need to masturbate again. Be right back zombies.*



* My apologies to the open minded and intelligent thinking men of the forum I was merely responding to the misogynistic nonsense of the OP. Collateral damage was not my intent, I wub you guys.


When I look back on my life, I will think about people. Stories. Places. Feelings. Visions. Meanings. Journeys.

Women are right about that.

I don't expect I will be thinking much about tubes of flesh being poked into other tubes of flesh.

And most women are right about that too :smile:

You can spank me anytime. :tongue:
 

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I fuck when I wanna fuck.

I love when I wanna love.

Sometimes I fuck then love.

Sometimes I love then fuck.

Sometimes I just fuck.

Sometimes I just love.

I don't know if this is considered thinking like a man or woman, but I know it works for *this* woman and I don't need pseudo-sage advice on the topic that suggests women have ulterior motives in relationships.


As far as changing people:
Why try and change a man? If I don't like him the way he is, then I'm moving on. :)

^what she said.
 
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Woman need to really start thinking like a man, if they make sex top priority i think relationships will last longer. But when they think love first and try to change a man that's where relationships start breaking down, we are man, we need to stay manly not damn sensitive.:biggrin1:

These are not mutually exclusive. :confused: What you're saying makes no sense.


Why try and change a man? If I don't like him the way he is, then I'm moving on. :)

Exactly. A long term relationship ended, in part, because I tried to become who I thought she wanted me to be, rather than the person I was, which is the person she liked to begin with.

On that note-- I have been known to view a man sexually first, but the issue was I never fall in love with those men. And when I do view men in a purely sexual way, I usually don't form a habit of seeing them more than a booty call.

You are a wise woman. My wife has (had) the same philosophy. Until she met me, of course. :tongue:
 

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I think that it is easier for guys to separate sex and love, while for girls they are sometimes a part of the same feeling.... just my 2 cents.
 

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You can spank me anytime. :tongue:

That line is the best thing that will ever come out of this thread.

The OP's original premise is false: there are plenty of women who do want to have sex early in the relationship. My gf is, to date, the record-holder for longest time dating before we slept together at 4 weeks. Those were 4 weeks where she was completing her master's thesis, I was getting over a serious relationship, and we were having pretty regular oral with each other during that time. Usually it's 1-2 dates.