a twist from the thread below Have u ever made noise in bed to stroke ur partner's ego,or does makin noise help bring u closer to orgasm?
usually I'm just noisy because I'm noisy. after I come and the rational mind is more in control, I can choose to say things that I know will turn Mr.Sares on. but if I head back into another build, it's a lot less articulate. I do like it when something I say pushes him right over the edge.
I'm the exact same way. I'd love to yell out how good he is and he's such a stud and my god I'm gonna cum so hard etc. etc., but most of the time if I'm really feeling it I can't form too many coherent words in a row. I'm pretty vocal but most of the time moans, shrieks and whimpers will have to do. Of course as Sares suggests, it does gets easier to talk between buildups. Yeah buildups!:tongue:
A lot of the time I don't even realize how loud I can get. I have to make a conscious effort to keep it down, when necessary. But that is just how I am.
A couple times I've been with a guy and we've made an audio recording of our session. The idea came from a fellow I was seeing earlier this year and I personally find it so hot. You hear all the time about people making videos but there's something about just lying in bed with a guy listening to the sounds of the two of us having sex. It always gets me going again, as if I needed another excuse :biggrin1: .
I agree with most of the ladies here, it is simply something I cannot control. There are times when I am easing in to the "moment'" and can say something to "R" to get him closer, but really in the heat of battle, I have no control over what I say or how I say it. (And if we have guests, or at a hotel, "R" has to tell me to settle down or I cover my mouth.) Maybe this is odd, or maybe it is all in my head, but when I have to be careful about being too loud I have noticed my orgasms are not as strong. Anyone else like that?
Dare i say there isnt a woman here how hasnt exagerated and faked an orgasm to either end sex or make a partner feel like he was doing a better job then he actually was So the short answer..YES
Noise=Hot.... again from a guys perspective.....but hearing that you are doing things the "right way" is really sexy.:biggrin1:
Amen, sister. Neither have I. Why would I want to make him think he's ringing my bell if he's not? Sure, to make him feel he's doing great, but then he's going to think I like what he's doing and he'll do it again next time and so why would I want to reinforce stuff that isn't getting me off? Got all that? Bottom line is I say it's better to be honest and actually try to make sex better rather than just act like it's better.
yup. that's the main thing. the secondary factor, for me, ties into your honest comment: I like(d) the guys I have sex with. Therefore I afford them the respect of honesty. I think it's more of an insult to assume they are weak, easily damaged princes and I have to protect them from the truth.
Yeh Ladies... And about the horny kind of mad lookings and the words that pop of my mouth when we are doing rear positions....:tongue: :biggrin1: i know i keep turning my head look deep to him and say: Fuck me u fucker bastard man...and things like that but with a mad but horny face...i myself when replay the 'tape' in my mind laugh at myself...a lot... Ok..some women dont like rear/doggie positions but i have to say is one of my favorite positions for sure...and i do like to control it and i bang him 'making him stay quiet' and i thrust...than i say: Yeh..im fucking you now u 'bull' ( i found sexy to symbolic compere bulls with men, they are great strong fuckers in my eyes....) But i need to improve my poor sexy vocabulary... gradually...
Your sexy vocabulary on this site needs no improvement as far as I can tell. Just ask some of the men here:biggrin1:
I'm fairly vocal myself but if I really want to elicit a reaction from my partner, I find that eye contact combined with vocals elicit more of a reaction than vocals alone. The eyes don't lie.