SpeedoGuy
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...but men will keep it to themselves and act how they see is accordingly (unreasonablly) without saying why
My experience was that sharing feelings, thoughts, or just about anything more than jokes with other males will quickly get a male labeled: pussy, fag, needy, nerdy, stupid, weak, ugly, etc. Is it unreasonable to want to avoid that type of treatment?
So, out of a sense of sheer self-preservation, men learn to do as much as possible alone and not ever admit to needing help on anything unless absolutely necessary. That kind of life training is difficult to reverse, even if men wanted to.
MEN are the confusing ones. They willn never tell you whats really going on i their head until its to late
See reasons above. Women claim to be more community oriented and seem to thrive on sharing feelings, needs, etc. Men are shamed for the same behavior, by women as much as by other men.