womans vaginal size and a large penis

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by tx's punkin sunny, Sep 27, 2005.

  1. tx's punkin sunny

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    ok...my question has more to do with woman taking a large penis,womens views on it ...also from the guys perspective..does any1 know if the vagina can eventually lengthen to take all of the penis if it is large in length or..is it the case of...whatever size a woman is internally...thats her size end of story?also...if there is in any way discomfort in taking all the length,given time...can that be overcome,thus allowing the woman to take all the inches and enjoy then with total pleasure and no pain?
     
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    fuck me pink. :shrug:

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    Well, welcome. Good luck with your topic. I started with a petite 5'2" lady once who could only take about 5" when we began. Within 10 days she was handling me like a pro. I've heard that the vagina can stretch wonderfully and I'm inclined to believe that if that tiny little size 2 thing could take it all, then just about anybody could. Provided I'm patient and sensitive to what she needs.

    HTH. Again, welcome.
     
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    The vagina can stretch to accommadate a penis but it is different for everyone. Some woman maybe about to handle 8" no problem and others can never handle that much. Personal experience for me after several times sex became comfortable and more pleasurable.
     
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    Vaginas have an incredible elasticity for handling objects both in & out. if they didn't, and I might be mistaken, but giving birth might be as difficult as removing the frozen parts from a oven stuffer roaster chicken.
     
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    A vagina is certainly pretty elastic, but ... in my experience this stretching is temporary, not permanent, and it occurs mostly girthwise, not lengthwise. Before I was married I had a two-year relationship with a woman who could only handle about 6" of my length without pain, and that never changed over the course of our relationship. I just don't think there is a lot of give in the length/depth of a vagina.

    The width is a somewhat different story. My wife and I have been together as a couple for over 11 years now, and despite all that exposure to my girth over the years, I still need to squirm my way inside of her. However, after a few seconds of working my way in, she can always stretch to accommodate me without pain.

    The bottom line for hetero couples, at least in my experience, is that a dick that is too long is WAY more problematic than one that is too wide. If sex continues to be painful for you, punkin, you might look at some of the threads here by guys who wear donut-shaped rings around the base of their penises to avoid plunging in too deep ... that seems to be a good solution.

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    I really hate this reference and we hear it all the time. You know you're my buddy, Chuck, but women don't go into labor when they are having sex! The reason a woman can pass a baby through her vagina is because she DILATES. Believe me, we women cringe and cross our legs when we hear a guy say that we should be able to take huge things stuffed up our twats because we can have babies! There's not a woman alive who would do that for pleasure. Our bodies get ripped to shreads and we can't have sex for weeks or months after.

    Once the cervix goes back to normal, the length of our vaginas is fixed by that. Yes, there is a certain amount of give, but not a lot, as we are led to believe.

    I think Steve26 is right about girth being less of a problem, unless you are talking about extreme girths, which are even rarer than extreme lengths, I believe. Remember that a woman is a person and not a blow up doll, talk to her and ask her how it feels to her. If she says it's painful then it ain't working. If she's willing to stretch a bit, try using varying sizes of dildos until she works up to your size.

    Punkin, the problem with your question is when you say "the vagina". What vagina? Every woman's vagina is different, so there are NO absolutes that apply to all vaginas. They come in varying sizes just like dicks, so please don't assume that what works for one woman automatically means all other women will be the same, because that's not true at all. The only real answer to your question is, it depends on the individual woman.
     
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    Hi, I'm with you but let me add my 2 cents. At the beginning, my wife has had difficulties to take me in. Girth was not longtime a problem, but lenght... I used my hand (or sometime a donut) to not go too far, and cause pain. Step by step, she takes more and more. And now, she can accomodate me with no groan. But this took several years, yes: years. So, it's possible. Just our experience, maybe not true for everyone.



    I really hate this reference and we hear it all the time. You know you're my buddy, Chuck, but women don't go into labor when they are having sex! The reason a woman can pass a baby through her vagina is because she DILATES. Believe me, we women cringe and cross our legs when we hear a guy say that we should be able to take huge things stuffed up our twats because we can have babies! There's not a woman alive who would do that for pleasure. Our bodies get ripped to shreads and we can't have sex for weeks or months after.

    Once the cervix goes back to normal, the length of our vaginas is fixed by that. Yes, there is a certain amount of give, but not a lot, as we are led to believe.

    I think Steve26 is right about girth being less of a problem, unless you are talking about extreme girths, which are even rarer than extreme lengths, I believe. Remember that a woman is a person and not a blow up doll, talk to her and ask her how it feels to her. If she says it's painful then it ain't working. If she's willing to stretch a bit, try using varying sizes of dildos until she works up to your size.

    Punkin, the problem with your question is when you say "the vagina". What vagina? Every woman's vagina is different, so there are NO absolutes that apply to all vaginas. They come in varying sizes just like dicks, so please don't assume that what works for one woman automatically means all other women will be the same, because that's not true at all. The only real answer to your question is, it depends on the individual woman.
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    Hats off to you Madame. We think you made the definitive statement. Anyone who has witnessed (3x for me) a woman's vagina dilating for childbirth knows its nearly supernatural. I guess pregnancy itself is supernatural but that's for another discussion.

    As for training or modifying vaginal size, we are testament that it is real. Manipulation with dildos does in fact work and vaginal speculums may even be better (but no where as fun). The vaginal is very elastic and changes are sometimes temporal especially in the early going. Depth of penetration also improved over time for us. There is clearly a limit, not a hard fast stop but a place where pleasure gives way to an uncomfortable sensation.
     
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    Or to put it more simply, why are so many straight guys clue-impaired about the vagina and Jacinto knows so much about it?
     
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    I really hate this reference and we hear it all the time. You know you're my buddy, Chuck, but women don't go into labor when they are having sex! The reason a woman can pass a baby through her vagina is because she DILATES. Believe me, we women cringe and cross our legs when we hear a guy say that we should be able to take huge things stuffed up our twats because we can have babies! There's not a woman alive who would do that for pleasure. Our bodies get ripped to shreads and we can't have sex for weeks or months after.

    Once the cervix goes back to normal, the length of our vaginas is fixed by that. Yes, there is a certain amount of give, but not a lot, as we are led to believe.

    I think Steve26 is right about girth being less of a problem, unless you are talking about extreme girths, which are even rarer than extreme lengths, I believe. Remember that a woman is a person and not a blow up doll, talk to her and ask her how it feels to her. If she says it's painful then it ain't working. If she's willing to stretch a bit, try using varying sizes of dildos until she works up to your size.

    Punkin, the problem with your question is when you say "the vagina". What vagina? Every woman's vagina is different, so there are NO absolutes that apply to all vaginas. They come in varying sizes just like dicks, so please don't assume that what works for one woman automatically means all other women will be the same, because that's not true at all. The only real answer to your question is, it depends on the individual woman.
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    Right off the bat, I must say that I'm sorry to you there, MZ for my lack of practical input, since I have no basis for comparison to having a vagina.

    But you ARE right; all vaginas are not unique at all in their capabilities, and assuming conjecture is the absolute is naiv'e at best. Often times I forget that there is more than just plain conciseness when explaining situations like this.

    Either rate, you still ARE one of my most posters here and I consider you my bud too, and I don't wanna lose you as either one.
     
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    Oh no problem at all there, Chuck! I still luv ya. It's just that barring a very long committment to be "worked out" or even have surgery, most women do have their limits, and what fits easily for one woman can be a real problem for another. Even a woman with a tiny vagina can birth a baby because of the changes that occur during labor, but she would not enjoy having sex with a man who made her feel like she was giving birth unless she was into extreme pain to begin with.

    Therefore, and this is just my point of view, it's a good idea to find some sort of compatibility sexually. If you are more old fashioned and prefer to wait for the moment of truth, you'd best prepare yourself for the possibility that sex with you may or may not be a pleasant experience for your partner if you are significantly above average.
     
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    I am 5'4" and can only take about 7" all the way in, no matter how excited. Although many women experience severe pain when their cervix is bumped, I actually need stimulation around the cervix for maximum pleasure. A man with 6" just can't reach that crucial spot. And a man with more than 7.5" couldn't sink it to the hilt, although the sight of his erection would suffice to get me hot and wet.
     
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    I know a woman who enjoys having an entire hand inside her (yes past the knuckles, fingers curled, almost to the base of my palm) and is an ejaculator. She opens up readily and loves the girth, and cums in buckets that way. Very unique.

    Yet with fucking she could not handle deep thrusts and "bottomed out" at under 7 inches. I was longer than she is comfortable with, and less than her ideal girth.

    We were not a good fit, but found ways to please each other.

    Most of the women I have encountered have been quite tight at first but open up. Every single one is different in her likes and dislikes.

    There is no correlation I have noticed to body shape or stature when it comes to the shapes of vaginas, position of cervix, texture of inner vagina, size of labia, size of clitoral hood etc. One woman I know has a clitoris the size of a pinky finger tip, and it gets erect and protrudes from the hood like from a foreskin. Others are minescule.

    Just like facial features or the shapes of ears, they vary a lot physically, and their sexual tastes and likes are as individual as well.
     
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    Just like guys, women come in different basic sizes although we have the capability of adapting quite a bit...you obviously don't. You also have to factor in the arousal state of the woman you are with. The bigger the cock the more chance of having difficulty finding a good match. That's why most people (men and women) are in that "awful range of average" (just joking!). Seriously, I think a guy who is extremely large is going to have a more difficult time finding a good match than a woman who has a large vagina...we can adjust...the guy can't. I look at my own limited past. I have a very large vagina. However, the few guys that I had sex with that were average in size didn't seem to mind and I had a great time. Prior to meeting me, my husband had a really difficult time when in came to sex. Also when it comes to stretching over time to accomodate more, I'm not sure that is true in my case. My limit seems to be pretty much what it always has been. The biggest factor as to how deep/thick I can take is my state of arousal.

    kat