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I had several sexual relations.
In the past on an initiave of a girl I tried. But I gave up. Couldn t or wouldn t enter - I dont know anymore.
With my current girlfriend ( for 11 years now ); we tried it a few years ago.
Everywhere you heard of the wonderfull world of anal sex. And she didnt anal before, neither me.
So we wanted to have something exclusive for ourselves.
Well - it stayed with a try. Couldn t enter, even that we read pages of how to start with anal on different fora.
( and yes we had lube )
It is just nothing for us. Maybe I'm to thick for her there, or maybe it is just a mind-thing...
 

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Her answer is NO!

And i suprised because she was really exact.
I think it will be a dream for me.

I'm not surprised. For many women it is an absolutely no-go area.


It is just nothing for us. Maybe I'm to thick for her there, or maybe it is just a mind-thing...

I believe the mind is responsible for 9 tenths of a successful attempt at anal.
 

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I used to do anal during my period, because I didn't like a mess. But now that I'm on a different pill, my periods are very light and I don't "need" to do anal. Never really liked it, was just a handy alternative to a big mess.

That is the same reason why I did anal and never really cared for it either. Only came once from anal sex and that's because we were face to face and I had clitoris stimulation.
 
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I finally experienced anal this past weekend. Amazing!!!!! The gf had tried in the past hut it was no go. Too painful. So for Valentines we went to the sex shop and bought a few things. I brought up a butt plug and we took it home. Used later that night. We left it in her thru vaginal intercourse then pulled that out and loosen her up a bit more with my fingers. After some good amount of lube, finger play, and the plug we managed to have full on full speed anal sex. I came like I never had before and she squirted and came. Awesome weekend....
 
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OK, the truth is an arse is not "tighter" than a pussy... the initial entrance might be, but once you're in, it doesn't feel better than a vag. Not at all. And i've fucked a lot of women in the arse. I got bored of it.

Sure, the absolute victory is pleasurable... the thought of fucking a girls arse is great. But in reality, you get arse juice or shit on your cock if you're unlucky and all for what... a baggie bum hole.

As a friend of mine said when I put this point of view across to him..

"it doesnt feel better.... but it feels better"

He is a genius
 

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All this talk about anal. Makes me wanna get all naked with myself. hehehe Yes it can be very pleasurable. Still haven't found that special someone to have a go at it. So for now it will still be solo dolo...;)
 

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I believe the mind is responsible for 9 tenths of a successful attempt at anal.

That is true 100% in my bedroom. Once she believed she could do it, it could be done.


OK, the truth is an arse is not "tighter" than a pussy... the initial entrance might be, but once you're in, it doesn't feel better than a vag. Not at all. And i've fucked a lot of women in the arse. I got bored of it.

I have only experienced two (only one of which with my penis), and each felt tighter and different than the same lady's vagina. I won't say "better" because I don't feel it's a fair qualitative comparison, but they were definitely different and definitely incredible.

S_L
 

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All this talk about anal. Makes me wanna get all naked with myself. hehehe Yes it can be very pleasurable. Still haven't found that special someone to have a go at it. So for now it will still be solo dolo...;)
Damn, if I was the right side of the pond for once I'd offer my services, 2 birds 1 stone!
 

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I love anal. GOD do I love anal. A lot. A lot a lot a lot. LOVE. If everything goes as planned, I'm getting rimmed and getting eaten out and getting fucked in all three holes on Tuesday. Fuck I love this Tuesday. Because ANAL!!!
 

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How do you work on the A spot? I love anal and don't think any guy has ever done that to me

Please explain in as much detail as possible... I'll have to find someone to try it with!

My understanding is that the A-Spot or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone is between the cervix and the bladder and stimulation would be more easily achieved vaginally....
 

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Also, I agree with and have taken the same approach to anal as Faydreh. Explore with yourself first. All the guys with ladies that can't but want to, get some toys with various girths for her to play with. I started with a toy that was about 3" and now I can accomodate my thickest toy of 6.25". Explore, enjoy and always use lube.
 
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The women I have introduced to anal have always commented on how intense their orgasm was. Glad to see that there are so many women that are open to it.
 

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It is Wonderful! If I'm turned on and past the point of no return, there is no limit to size. If she's insecure, I do believe it can be a mind thing....at first. Play around for a couple of weeks or more by rubbing her anis while she comes from you giving her oral. Next time durning oral insert a finger or two depending on how much she liked the first experience. If you take it slow and let her really get off on this, then move to a toy. Use it while she's giving you a blow job, then riding reverse and then in doggie style, she'll let You in. She'll be relaxed and want all of you. She'll crave it at least twice a month.
 

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Personally, I don't like fingers. TheBF kept trying to use his fingers, but he has really boney knuckles, and his fingernails always felt uncomfortable. I hated it. It never felt good and I always wanted him to take them out.

I like soft toys, like cyberskin or jelly ones. Now that we've been having anal sex for a while now, I can tolerate a finger and it doesn't feel bad any more, but I really didn't like it for a very long time, not until we'd had a lot of anal sex.

I still require dilating to have anal sex, too, but as long as I do it, I enjoy anal sex.
 

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Getting fucked in the ass either by a dick or a dildo ALWAYS make me squirt!! I plan to do it tonight matter of fact!

Had a very sexy female fuck friend who did the same...it was awesome!

Most girls/women that I've been with have enjoyed anal sex. Some asked for it, some agreed to it, most liked having it every so often.

I've been with a girl who had a GREAT ass, but wasn't into it. Oh wow, so hard to not have more fun with her backside. She liked the pleasure there, since would ask me to lick it and finger it sometimes, but a full hard cock was just too much. She said it felt weird coming out, which I can understand. I think mostly for her it was a mental hang-up - a bit gross, not an area for fucking.

Oh well, but so hard to resist it!