Well, I finally have been going out on dates with this one girl (never dated anyone before), and we've been sleeping together too. But here's something I don't understand...she purposefully tries to make me jealous. She'll talk alot about her ex boyfriends, and just yesterday after meeting my roomate she made comments like "he's really big" and "I find him attractive". It's really confusing to me, because I know she finds me attractive and wants to be with me, so why is she doing this? I've heard from alot of my guy friends that women have tried to make them jealous like this before, so why would they? Now I don't get jealous easily, and I wasn't really jealous when this girl made these comments, etc...but it definitely turned me off and made me wonder why anyone would want to purposefully ignite a spark of jealousy in a relationship? Thanks for any insight!