transformer_99
Experimental Member
Who would want a boyfriend who walked down the street with you saying "Oh look at the tits on that - wow look at her ass."? I didn't think so.
Guilty as charged, only it's usually not the bf/gf relationship, it's more a fwb relationship. I used to be that guy that paid attention to the one at a time/who I was with. Life's too short. It goes both ways though these days, I catch them looking, commenting just the same. In that regard, I don't say it's insecurity or insensitivity, it's being real and human. I don't even think it's low self-esteem on either of our parts. Think of it this way, you see a Corvette drive by or in the parking lot, you wind up giving it a look over. Shortly after a Ferrari drives up, yeah the Corvette is nice, but the Ferrari is really your preference.
Another example, the one guy @ work that used to be, may even still be the best looking of the bunch. Well, a few weeks back they hired another fellow, that seemed to be getting rave reviews from the ladies @ work. So I guess in the grand scheme of things, @ best, I or anyone else for that matter is 3rd best looking there. We all need to get over our own insecurities that there isn't going to be something perceived as better around the corner. Don't take it as a slight, know that you got there first and had a head start at least. She put you on notice that she figures you have senses that detect aesthetically pleasing people, she appreciates that lattitude in her own life too.