It has been said that women need to have standards, and the lack thereof leads to mistreatment, being cheated on, failed relationships, etc. I read the Steve Harvey book last year where he dedicates a chapter to it, entitled Men respect standards Get some. There he discusses the importance of having certain things which are tolerable (to you as a person, and for your relationships) and which are not, and setting them out before entering a relationship. Which brings me to the point of the thread, ladies (and gents): do you have standards? And, hows it working out for you?