women and orgasms first time with you

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  1. strat69

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    just curious how many of you guys have experienced a woman having a really strong orgasm with you the first time she had sex with you? or was it normally a few times later that had them going off on your cock?
     
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    Can we also include stories about women who have never orgasmed from cock? Because you might (and others might) just have one of those unfortunate sack of worms for a woman.
     
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    wow...I would suspect that a guy wasn't being too creative if that was the case for any extended period of time...additional clitoral stimulation has often been the key for most
     
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    Really? So in 13 years of me being sexually adventurous with my husband and fully able to orgasm without a penis just fine...when I add the penis I'm unable to do it that it's all been because of creativity?

    It's this sort of thinking that frustrates the female sexual partner. Sometimes your creativity doesn't change nature.

    I've talked to other women and I'm not alone. I absolutely adore the sensation of intercourse. But it doesn't give me an orgasm. I don't really feel cheated by it because I'm getting plenty of orgasms anyway and I'm loving sex just the way it is.

    As long as a man isn't so selfish that he doesn't try to be a good lover, he is likely doing just fine. If he is trying to hard to be "creative", as you said, or equates pleasure with an orgasm...well he might wonder why she is having frequent "headaches"
     
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    they could be one and the same story. fakers.
     
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    Well, your points are well taken..I have had experience with women that weren't concerned about having an orgasm during intercourse and that is fine with me. As a matter of fact, I have known women who said the exact same as you have, that the penis in there seems to distract...

    My original posting was just to ask how often an orgasm has happened on the first time, perhaps a rare thing, but has happened in my own experience a few times...

     
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    I just wanted to inject this thread with a healthy dose of reality. Because all too often men believe that women just haven't had the right cock or a decent enough lover. But until your last post, even you thought it was lack of creativity.

    If I was nature, I would have put the Clitoris where the urethra is, vice versa, a lot more orgasms and a lot less urinary tract infections. ;)
     
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    Hmmm...well thanks for the dose of reality. I assure you that I am no neanderthal who believes that women's orgasms are all dependent on the involvement of a man, or the right cock, or whatever has your dander up.

    Just asking an innocent and, perhaps at first glance, insensitive question. Sorry for offending you, if that is the case. The question was for the men out there.

    Now that this post has been high-jacked, I will take my leave.


     
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    Sadly, this wasn't really about you or your question. It was to help others who infiltrate penis websites assuming women orgasm from a penis alone easily or always with enough effort. I'm saving the women they are with or will be with someday the hassle of having to break it to them if they are honest women or fake it to them if they aren't.

    And yeah, I probably am a little moody since a few days ago I had my uterus, fallopian tubes, both ovaries and cervix cut out of my body. I have a lot of sexual tension and it's killing me. Cheers to the next 6 weeks of waiting.

    :beerchug2:
     
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    Guys I didn't mean to kill this thread. I thought we'd have tons of responses and viewpoints on this by now. I'm sorry to the OP for shoving my huge glistening rod of an opinion into it and ruining whatever he was wanting to hear.

    He was trying to talk man to man with LPSG and my estrogen wafted into it.

    Continue on please and I will stay out of it.
     
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    the first time I fucked my now wife I gave her first orgasm ever, her 2nd and 3rd as well. she had been with 5-6 guys before me and had never orgasmed with any of them. I found this out the next day. I went over to her parents house to pick her up, and she was all excited. we left in my car, and she told me all about it. she told me she didn't know anything could feel that good. after awhile, I took her back home, her folks were gone. she had been messing with my cock all afternoon, so we went in & got it on. she orgasmed again. that nite we went out drinking, and we fucked before we went out, and then again before i took her home. she had not had an orgasm in 4 yrs of sex with 5-6 guys and I give her 6 in 24 hours!!
     
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    @625girth where u the same size in girth back then?
     
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    It's always been the first time (and every other time) or never. 5 out of 6 had orgasms with me the first time. The other one was only a short fling, I think we had sex twice. I might've gotten her to come around eventually. Or perhaps not, she'd never had an orgasm from intercourse before.
     
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    i have been with my ex for almost 2years.. we used to have plenty of sex.. playing with her clit always got her extremly wet.. but she had never had an orgasm before..i believe because i was young,and just had sex to have sex.. she was never really a big fan of it tho.. she like sex but not loved sex. she wasnt really intoit. she didnt want me to eat her out and those things. might have been because of her uncomfortness with her self.

    after we broke up, i started my adventures.. had plenty of sex with difrent girl./ some who orgasm and some who didnt..

    Story..
    was talking to this old girl friend who i went school with when we were 10..
    we arange to meet up. cathed up with each other, and after a while things started to heat up..it got to the point where im down between her legs, while eating her up. she was getting wet..got me so exited.. i started fingering her, since she was so tight i could have only use one finger,after i got it going, i could feel her pussy close my finger tight tight, and i mean really tight.. lookin at her i could see she was out of this world.and knew she was in climax...we hid it off couple more times, and then call it off.

    and experience more of those. even squirters..
     
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    i believe it depens on the girl as well.. knowing her body and whats she finds works the best..most girl cum from oral.(with me) i find im best at oral..
    some girl cum while ure in dogggy, some girl finds it uncomfortable doing doggy style. so it depense on the girl.. every girl is diffrent
     
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    The first time I saw a woman have a true deep orgasm was in my first serious relationship. I've had quite a lot of one night stands before, and the women were making the right noises but they never looked truly like they were orgasming.

    Anyway I was fingering my first (and current) serious girlfriend in that style seen on that famous video (two fingers in the vagina, moving in a fast up-and-down motion) and she started coming really hard and rolling around, I felt very proud and happy :)

    Now through practice I can make her multiple orgasm from my cock alone. This obviously has a lot to do with her own physiology and personal taste as it does my own skill.
     
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    My girl had her first vaginal orgasm with me. She has had quite a few penis in her time (exact amount unknown) and been married. She says it's partly due to penis size/shape, but also due to skill (on my part, yes it's possible to have more skill than others hence "motion in the ocean"), being sensitive and aware of what feels good to her (skill again), her developing a sense how how to make it happen for herself (self awareness), and our passion for each other, overall sexual compatibility, and attractiveness to each other. Also, If I sense she is on way to having an orgasm, I can almost always wait until she has to cum myself. I'd she has a vaginal orgasm about 70% of the time we have sex. Other times she needs help with a toy for a clitoral orgasm, which I don't mind at all. And other times it just isn't happening either way.
     
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    i've experienced all across the spectrum. some girls have cum strongly and/or frequently from the very first time we had sex, some girls have taken a few times but once we got into each other's rhythms the orgasms came quite regularly...some girls had never cum from sex before and had their first orgasms with me, some girls had never cum before and didn't have any orgasms with me either. but we all seemed to have a grand old time of it. ;)
     
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    The first time MrsR and I had sex, she came vaginally. I'd love to say it was my size it skill, but it was purely emotional.

    16 years of foreplay would do that.
     
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