Women and Penis Talk??

[SpeedoGuy]

Originally posted by Cara@May 24 2004, 11:17 PM
But correct me if I'm wrong guys, I don't think y'all mind if we tell friends about your size, right??

I don't mind.

Pride in my penis size does not constitute the sum total of my sense of self worth but I can't deny I get a buzz when a gf shares those anatomy details with her friends. Its happened several times over the course of my adulthood and I'm fairly open about it. Not flaunting but not shy, either. Basically, I've told any of my gfs who asked that I didn't mind a bit if they shared my "secret" with their friends. I always assumed they did anyway. Besides, its not like I can really hide it for long.

This sharing rarely resulted in any overt comments or tasteless public behavior by gf or any of her friends. Women are just not like that in mixed company. But occasionally one of them would let slip a subtle joke or innuendo that left us all grinning. I enjoyed it ever so much when they knew that I knew that they knew.

Also rewarding was when one of my gfs actually acted as an intermediary on large penis related questions (this was long before LPSG, btw). This happened when one of her friends in-the-know became curious about some aspects of large penis ownership and "submitted" some questions about it to me through her. I felt like "Dear Abby" but I enjoyed answering the inquiries on the matter. We never discussed it directly all together but rather it remained a "hidden" and indirect conversation topic among us for a time.

SG

 

[madame_zora]

SG, I applaud your self confidence! Because you don't equate your self-worth to your penis size, it allowed you to participate in a very cool adventure with your g/f and friends, bet you had a blast. Next time I have a big cock question, I'll know who to call.

 

[SpeedoGuy]

ty madame Z:

It was indeed a blast for me being the object of that kind of inquisitiveness. I sure didn't mind a bit when gf took a tape measure to me to answer one of her friend's main questions. There's a bit of an exhibitionist in me that extends into enjoying sharing information and experiences as much as physically showing off, so ask away! :lol:

SG

 

[madame_zora]

Nothing's better than a show-off! To see a nice bulge is great, but to get to see it for real means he's proud of it, which is the hottest thing ever.

 

[contortionist]

What about guys telling their partners about other guys measurements? After engineering the subject around, my last 2 g/f nearly passed out when i told them of a guy who could balance a 12'' ruler on his dick. Whilst we had sex, they both wanted me to talk about his dick whilst they came. Nothing like a bit of imagination. When I introduced one of them to him later in life she nearly fainted.

 

[madame_zora]

Wow, I've never had that kind of experience talking about another guy's size during sex, but it sounds pretty exciting. I think most men are too insecure to do that, he would have to be pretty confident about his own package/performance I guess. I have a few times had the experience of talking about the guy I'm with having sex with or getting a bj from another guy, and that always does it for me! But there again most men are too homophobic to be able to get into it so it's a rarity.

 

[SpeedoGuy]

Originally posted by tripod2004@Jun 13 2004, 01:55 PM
What about guys telling their partners about other guys measurements? After engineering the subject around, my last 2 g/f nearly passed out when i told them of a guy who could balance a 12'' ruler on his dick. Whilst we had sex, they both wanted me to talk about his dick whilst they came. Nothing like a bit of imagination. When I introduced one of them to him later in life she nearly fainted.

Man, tripod, you brought up an interesting point.

I don't know how the hell I would react if a gf wanted me to describe another guy's package in detail if I was having sex with her at the time. To be honest, I probably would not take to it very well if she was really depending on my description to get off. Interesting, interesting. I've talked to gf's about other guys who were bigger than me but not while we were doing the wild thing.

That causes me to wonder about my own need to have the attention focused on myself and I confess I'm troubled by that...

SG

 

[madame_zora]

Don't think there's any need to worry there, Speedo Guy. Under good circumstances, the attention should be on the people actually having sex! IMHO this topic only applies to sport-fucking, which is not for everybody.

 

[SpeedoGuy]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 14 2004, 07:27 AM
IMHO this topic only applies to sport-fucking, which is not for everybody.

Yah, I hadn't thought of it that way. In that context I think you're right.

SG

 

[13788]

BRMSTN69: Sport fucking? thats a term I haven't heard before, I take it this is a "contact" sport

 

[blar]

lol of course BRMSTN69 or else there would be a ref blowing the whistle when there is contact

 

[autumnbreeze4321]

My aunt was the first person I ever heard use the term "Sport Fucking" She and her friends in sales "play" it at conferences and conventions and when they travel/ Several are even married.

I think it's a great use of the English language.

A

 

[D_Martin van Burden]

Well, I had a table of ladies tonight that really surprised me. I'm pretty used to people trying to come in for last call, and I had to take them. They all ordered a round of margaritas; we're having a promotion for those at Chili's, so naturally, I was pretty happy selling them. Because they bought a few of our signature drinks, I made 'em a deal: Since they bought three, I would get on top of the table and start dancing for them.

Hell, I needed something to pick up my spirits after all the rude customers I had had before.

And thus, I stood on top of the tables and started shaking my ass and what not. They cheered me on. When I got down off of the table, one girl (who I think was celebrating a birthday) asked what nationality I am. I told her my mix and she said that I looked cute. Not even five seconds later, she asked me if I'm well hung.

Blurted it out, just like that. Totally shocked me.

But hey, I'm proud of what I got so I volunteered a positive response. I didn't tell 'em that I'm packing a 9", but I nodded and said that I'm a pretty well-endowed guy. "You look it," she said, "seeing you walk, you look like you're a little off-balance." Her friends cracked up thereafter and I laughed too, giving her a wink.

While I think I can handle most humor out there, it still surprises me to find a woman who's confident enough to ask these sorts of questions flat out. I expect that sort of behavior from a guy. A woman who's vocal about liking large penises, on the other hand, will always make me blush a bit.

 

[13788]

palladen: Overall, I don't mind if my lady shares information, but some amount of discretion needs to come into play here. Most ladies know which of their friends they can safely share the size of their parter's cock with, and which ones that will come up and grab their BF/ husband when she's left the room.

p

 

[13788]

wvalady1968:

Originally posted by palladen@Jun 20 2004, 08:37 PM
Overall, I don't mind if my lady shares information, but some amount of discretion needs to come into play here. Most ladies know which of their friends they can safely share the size of their parter's cock with, and which ones that will come up and grab their BF/ husband when she's left the room.

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I don't believe in trusting any friends that well, Pal!!!

:wub:

 

[naughty]

Amen, Allie!

That is why they have people fighting on the "Jerry Springer show"! They always start out with "You know I love you, but..." .The revelation is usually "I just could not help coming over to your house when you were gone and jumping your man! "LOL! That is why I just stay as far away from that kind of madness as possible.

Naughty

 

[madame_zora]

Dee, you're so beautiful, I'm sure you get plenty of stares at your face as well! BUT, if you were up on the table dancing, you couldn't really expect them not to notice a 9" package, they're only human. It probably still is surprising to hear women vocalizing those thoughts nonetheless because we frequently don't have that much courage. Seems like you took it in stride, I think it would be harder to answer that question if the answer was "no"!

Naughty and Alie, I must agree there! If I want to tell someone about how well hung a lover is, I make sure she/he lives in another state and doesn't have too many frequent flier miles!

 

[13788]

palladen: Ahhh...
If only my exes were as discerning Allie

p

 

[bigsam]

I actually found out that my current girlfriend knew about my size before we did anything together.

I had once asked a mutual friend of ours (before we were dating) what she thought "too big" was because I had had a bad experience. She assured me I was fine ect...

However after the first time I had sex with my g/f we were talking and I mentioned a funny story about buying Magnum XL's, and said I wasn't sure if she knew I used them. She said "Oh yeah I could tell...actually, I kind of knew about that before"

lol...she assures me it had nothing to do with liking me

Sam

 

[13788]

maverackstud8: Madame your ruinning illusions.I was hopeing you all talk about when I'm not here.And for some reason,I can't find the messages.

Actually,despite rumors,us guys don't about a womans big tits.

No,we have to sometimes switch totalk about their asses,pussy and legs from time to time.