Women and Penis Talk??
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Well Violetkitty,
The answer is... you don't tell him! Take a page from the guys book of easy escape routes. 1) Disappear 2) Say , "You really are too good for me" 3) "It's not you, its me" 4) Come up with any excuse but that one. No I'm kidding I do not advocate any of those cowardly approaches. It does sound like a sticky situtation but think about how he must feel too. But I am sure there are men who leave women all the time because of body part size they just dont tell them the truth.
Naughty
The answer is... you don't tell him! Take a page from the guys book of easy escape routes. 1) Disappear 2) Say , "You really are too good for me" 3) "It's not you, its me" 4) Come up with any excuse but that one. No I'm kidding I do not advocate any of those cowardly approaches. It does sound like a sticky situtation but think about how he must feel too. But I am sure there are men who leave women all the time because of body part size they just dont tell them the truth.
Naughty
Well, no matter what excuse (if any) she makes to her bf for dumping him, if his size, or lack of it, is a problem for her, she should go hunting for fresh meat elsewheres. Otherwise she's likely to go nuts later on.
At least she's not married to him. Consider the women who find out on their wedding night that hubby has 3 inches. Or 13 inches. And the prospect either way isn't too inviting. But he figures he's going to get plenty. Trouble in Paradise.
At least she's not married to him. Consider the women who find out on their wedding night that hubby has 3 inches. Or 13 inches. And the prospect either way isn't too inviting. But he figures he's going to get plenty. Trouble in Paradise.
relatedtonone256: So...uh...size does matter?
If you wont let your girlfriends know about a "big one" that you are befriending for the fear that they will try to at least bag him - size matters to most women?
Or am I reading this mistakingly?
I dont know - this certainly goes to other posts that have been discussed to near death - but you do have see how this is confusing for guys. On one hand there's a lot of talk of how it's the guy not the dick - on the other it seems that guys that are big are treated a bit differently than a guy without the large package. Both things CAN be true at the same time - but they are a bit contradictory.
But what can I do? I was born with a penis that's only 5.5x5.25 - cant really change that no matter what I do...I guess no one ever said life was fair....
Madame Zora - you use the breast example as something that men judge you over and how it is similar to some women judging over size of penii - the big difference is that women can get breast enhancements/reductions. Men are stuck with what we're born with.
If that ever comes to parity (men can get penis enhancements as quickly and easily as women can get breast enhancement) then we would 1. have a lot more 9 inch penis and 2. have a lot of guys without insecurities because we know that if we wanted to - well we can have whatever we want.
Penis surgeons - THE field of the future me thinks.
If you wont let your girlfriends know about a "big one" that you are befriending for the fear that they will try to at least bag him - size matters to most women?
Or am I reading this mistakingly?
I dont know - this certainly goes to other posts that have been discussed to near death - but you do have see how this is confusing for guys. On one hand there's a lot of talk of how it's the guy not the dick - on the other it seems that guys that are big are treated a bit differently than a guy without the large package. Both things CAN be true at the same time - but they are a bit contradictory.
But what can I do? I was born with a penis that's only 5.5x5.25 - cant really change that no matter what I do...I guess no one ever said life was fair....
Madame Zora - you use the breast example as something that men judge you over and how it is similar to some women judging over size of penii - the big difference is that women can get breast enhancements/reductions. Men are stuck with what we're born with.
If that ever comes to parity (men can get penis enhancements as quickly and easily as women can get breast enhancement) then we would 1. have a lot more 9 inch penis and 2. have a lot of guys without insecurities because we know that if we wanted to - well we can have whatever we want.
Penis surgeons - THE field of the future me thinks.
Hey RelatedTonne.
I think Zora would say she's "bored to tears" being forced to somehow "justify" her attitudes towards penises.
Anyway, your size is pretty decent. I'll have to pull out http://www.erectionphotos.com/ I bet YOU WONT be able to tell the small ones without having to read the label first.
Anyway, I tend to feel that while some one out there must prefer a disgusting drooling slob who's criminally pathogenic but with a huge slong, I think most women would actually prefer to have sex with someone pleasant?
I think Zora would say she's "bored to tears" being forced to somehow "justify" her attitudes towards penises.
Anyway, your size is pretty decent. I'll have to pull out http://www.erectionphotos.com/ I bet YOU WONT be able to tell the small ones without having to read the label first.
Anyway, I tend to feel that while some one out there must prefer a disgusting drooling slob who's criminally pathogenic but with a huge slong, I think most women would actually prefer to have sex with someone pleasant?
Mugen:
Many of you feel this habitual need to justify preference...why? I don't understand that at all...if size matters, then size matters...it's logical, so that's all the justification that's needed.
*Note: I made no mention of how much it matters, so don't bash*
I agree, but think the reason that she's "bored to tears" is because she feels she has to justify a preference...when no one said she had to.Originally posted by ORCABOMBER@Aug 25 2004, 07:13 AM
Hey RelatedTonne.
I think Zora would say she's "bored to tears" being forced to somehow "justify" her attitudes towards penises.
Anyway, your size is pretty decent. I'll have to pull out http://www.erectionphotos.com/ I bet YOU WONT be able to tell the small ones without having to read the label first.
Anyway, I tend to feel that while some one out there must prefer a disgusting drooling slob who's criminally pathogenic but with a huge slong, I think most women would actually prefer to have sex with someone pleasant?
Many of you feel this habitual need to justify preference...why? I don't understand that at all...if size matters, then size matters...it's logical, so that's all the justification that's needed.
*Note: I made no mention of how much it matters, so don't bash*
relatedtonone256: I've checked out erectionphotos.
The reason I have a difficult time telling (as you may) is usually because they dont show the body or any comparison - especially when the pictures are thumbnails. If the bodies were in natural environments or recognizable spaces then I think I could tell the difference more (btw...the big ones I can still tell the difference)./
The reason I have a difficult time telling (as you may) is usually because they dont show the body or any comparison - especially when the pictures are thumbnails. If the bodies were in natural environments or recognizable spaces then I think I could tell the difference more (btw...the big ones I can still tell the difference)./
So a dick's a dick's a dick...
I stand by my previous comment on your size however.
Mugen, I don't feel I'm one of those who has a need to justify much. I mean, can you presume I'm male/human/not the Terminator? :lol:
I stand by my previous comment on your size however.
Mugen, I don't feel I'm one of those who has a need to justify much. I mean, can you presume I'm male/human/not the Terminator? :lol:
doubtless_mouse: Ok, just read this post and wanted to try and add something to the discussion (hope I can write this up intelligently enough so as to not sound like a dork).
Comparing breasts and penises is like comparing apples and oranges. They are different. Breast size is a physical attribute that can generally be seen when the woman is fully clothed. It does not require intimate knowledge of the woman to know if she is big or not. While penis size is a physical attribute; it generally can not be seen when the man is fully clothed. It does require intimate knowledge of the man to know if he is big or not.
Ladies, how would you feel if your man shared intimate knowledge of you with his friends? What if he told them that you shaved (completely) and had your labia pierced? Or what if he told them the size/shape/coloration of your nipples? Would that be ok?
Imagine walking into the pub one night and there sits your man with his friends. They all look at each other than at you, staring at your midsection or your chest trying to imagine what your pussy or nipples look like. You sit down at the table and through the course of the night you keep hearing little comments about razor burns and piercing jokes. Would you be a little put off? Would it bother you to know that he shared this information with his friends?
From reading the posts, this has happened to a few people on this board and was not all that enjoyable. I guess for me there are some things that we share with people and some we dont. To me the size of my crank is my business (and hers) but not her friends.
Rantings from the Mouse
Comparing breasts and penises is like comparing apples and oranges. They are different. Breast size is a physical attribute that can generally be seen when the woman is fully clothed. It does not require intimate knowledge of the woman to know if she is big or not. While penis size is a physical attribute; it generally can not be seen when the man is fully clothed. It does require intimate knowledge of the man to know if he is big or not.
Ladies, how would you feel if your man shared intimate knowledge of you with his friends? What if he told them that you shaved (completely) and had your labia pierced? Or what if he told them the size/shape/coloration of your nipples? Would that be ok?
Imagine walking into the pub one night and there sits your man with his friends. They all look at each other than at you, staring at your midsection or your chest trying to imagine what your pussy or nipples look like. You sit down at the table and through the course of the night you keep hearing little comments about razor burns and piercing jokes. Would you be a little put off? Would it bother you to know that he shared this information with his friends?
From reading the posts, this has happened to a few people on this board and was not all that enjoyable. I guess for me there are some things that we share with people and some we dont. To me the size of my crank is my business (and hers) but not her friends.
Rantings from the Mouse
Gentlemen,
Who are these women? From what I have experienced here on LPSG it seems that a great number of men are more than willing for everyone to know about their size. I do not go along with women bragging in the manner of "My dog is bigger than your dog" It is immature and unconscienable behavior no matter who does it, whether it is a man or a woman doing the bragging.
Unfortunately, women do not have the option of hiding their breast size unless we are totally draped.So, do we hear about it ? Absolutely! There plenty of men and women who do not fail to comment on other individuals body parts be it out of lewdness or envy. I am sure there are women of all sorts here on LPSG for many different reasons.But do not assume that all women are just waiting to get into your pants just to find out or that they will reject you merely because you are very large or (in their estimation) not large enough. Perhaps you should discuss why their are certain males in this group who feel a great compunction to ask women of the group why they are here and then proceed to treat them as if they were invading the boys locker room. I or no other woman here need explain herself as to why we are here. If Mark has allowed us to be here who is any one else to say one doggone thing? End of this particular rant.
Naughty
Who are these women? From what I have experienced here on LPSG it seems that a great number of men are more than willing for everyone to know about their size. I do not go along with women bragging in the manner of "My dog is bigger than your dog" It is immature and unconscienable behavior no matter who does it, whether it is a man or a woman doing the bragging.
Unfortunately, women do not have the option of hiding their breast size unless we are totally draped.So, do we hear about it ? Absolutely! There plenty of men and women who do not fail to comment on other individuals body parts be it out of lewdness or envy. I am sure there are women of all sorts here on LPSG for many different reasons.But do not assume that all women are just waiting to get into your pants just to find out or that they will reject you merely because you are very large or (in their estimation) not large enough. Perhaps you should discuss why their are certain males in this group who feel a great compunction to ask women of the group why they are here and then proceed to treat them as if they were invading the boys locker room. I or no other woman here need explain herself as to why we are here. If Mark has allowed us to be here who is any one else to say one doggone thing? End of this particular rant.
Naughty
relatedtonone256: I dont think most people have a problem with women on this board....especially in the "Women's Issues" section...
Relatedtone,
Thank you for that at least. You may not, but there are some who do. I suppose I am feeling a bit ruffled due to the recent questioning I have personally received gratuitously about my reasons for being here. Considering that this thread was started by someone who had a beef with one of our female posters it generally raises my hackles. I dont want to seem as if I am trying to start something here so I will conclude.
Naughty
Thank you for that at least. You may not, but there are some who do. I suppose I am feeling a bit ruffled due to the recent questioning I have personally received gratuitously about my reasons for being here. Considering that this thread was started by someone who had a beef with one of our female posters it generally raises my hackles. I dont want to seem as if I am trying to start something here so I will conclude.
Naughty
relatedtonone256: But dont we already?
J/K...yeah...I dont think anyone would like that...actually men might not like it either, it'll just be another thing that we would be in competition with other men over...ugly...
J/K...yeah...I dont think anyone would like that...actually men might not like it either, it'll just be another thing that we would be in competition with other men over...ugly...
Artema: Naughty,
In a non-judgmental mindset I'd have to say that a person has just as much right to ask why someone is here as that person actually has the right to be here. In a judgmental mindset the women here aren't (necessarily) pervs, and the people asking are either curious or jerks. I hope it doesn't drive anyone off regardless of their intent.
In a non-judgmental mindset I'd have to say that a person has just as much right to ask why someone is here as that person actually has the right to be here. In a judgmental mindset the women here aren't (necessarily) pervs, and the people asking are either curious or jerks. I hope it doesn't drive anyone off regardless of their intent.
Artema,
You hit upon a very important point in the equation. You mentioned the words "non judgmental". In this particular context other portions of the conversations led me to believe that questions were being asked from a rather judgemental bent. Yes , perhaps if I had been asked the question in a more benign fashion I would not have responded in this public forum as I have. If you have read any of my previous posts I try to put a positive "spin" on things most of the time, but having had numerous ill mannered questions hurled at me recently has caused me to speak. As most of our parents probably told us, "It is not what you say, but the way in which you say it". Thank you.
Naughty
You hit upon a very important point in the equation. You mentioned the words "non judgmental". In this particular context other portions of the conversations led me to believe that questions were being asked from a rather judgemental bent. Yes , perhaps if I had been asked the question in a more benign fashion I would not have responded in this public forum as I have. If you have read any of my previous posts I try to put a positive "spin" on things most of the time, but having had numerous ill mannered questions hurled at me recently has caused me to speak. As most of our parents probably told us, "It is not what you say, but the way in which you say it". Thank you.
Naughty
Just to add my 2 cents, and I'm jumping into this late (so forgive, if I'm off target), but you simply have to have women on a large penis discussion sight, especially one that's called the large penis support group.
If you're a hetero guy youre coming here to show off, ask questions, whatever. But honestly, sometimes you have to go right to the source to get the answers. Asking a bunch of guys how vaginal penetration by a large penis feels, for example, isn't going to get you an answer. Women are the other side of the equation. So to not have women here, would be to only have half the story.
To the question at hand, it's true women can't hide their breasts. My wife has large breasts (which are among the features that attracted me to her), and she gets and has gotten lots of attention (good and bad) around it. Big guys know it can be hard, though not impossible, to hide our endowment, so we should be able to empathize and vice versa.
Also in my experience, some ladies do talk about the size of their guys, especially when they're guys are big. I've heard my wife hinting to friends, but it's not overt or specific. We men tend to be very blunt and specific creatures while women tend to be subtle and clever.
It's all good. I can't speak for everyone, but this is a sight where we post pictures of our naked penises, we must not really mind that much if people (our significant others or whoever are chatting about our endowment).
If you're a hetero guy youre coming here to show off, ask questions, whatever. But honestly, sometimes you have to go right to the source to get the answers. Asking a bunch of guys how vaginal penetration by a large penis feels, for example, isn't going to get you an answer. Women are the other side of the equation. So to not have women here, would be to only have half the story.
To the question at hand, it's true women can't hide their breasts. My wife has large breasts (which are among the features that attracted me to her), and she gets and has gotten lots of attention (good and bad) around it. Big guys know it can be hard, though not impossible, to hide our endowment, so we should be able to empathize and vice versa.
Also in my experience, some ladies do talk about the size of their guys, especially when they're guys are big. I've heard my wife hinting to friends, but it's not overt or specific. We men tend to be very blunt and specific creatures while women tend to be subtle and clever.
It's all good. I can't speak for everyone, but this is a sight where we post pictures of our naked penises, we must not really mind that much if people (our significant others or whoever are chatting about our endowment).
ruscular: Okay, I know the concern of keeping a penis size a secret, or indescrete.
I had a weird situation and I may have done something wrong. Really not sure how else to handle it. I been with this woman for about a week and seem to hit it off pretty good and haven't had sex yet. we pass the point of french kissing, and heavy petting. Okay I haven't clued her to my size yet. waiting for a table she decided to go for the heavy petting in the foyer, and my penis is getting stiff and big, and viola they are ready to seat us. I thought the thing to do was use her body to hide my hard on. So I use the coat over my arm to cover one side while escorting her and using her body to hide the other side. She's asking me what in my pocket and I told her and she didn't beleive me. Lator she feels for me after my cock subsided and it not there anymore she swear to god I had something in my pocket. She's mad at me and I can get a hard on while she mad at me to prove it That its me. So she said good bye after that permanetly. She thinks I had a cucumber and was really peeve that I would do that in a public place. I am not with her anymore, but I thought it was an interesting date that went bad. Would a man be upset if they found out that a woman was wearing falsies to impress a guy? And was that a legitimate behavior from her for having a hard-on that I cant hide? Trust me when I say that if I had walk without being coy I would of been laugh at for sure, and embarass her even more.
I had a weird situation and I may have done something wrong. Really not sure how else to handle it. I been with this woman for about a week and seem to hit it off pretty good and haven't had sex yet. we pass the point of french kissing, and heavy petting. Okay I haven't clued her to my size yet. waiting for a table she decided to go for the heavy petting in the foyer, and my penis is getting stiff and big, and viola they are ready to seat us. I thought the thing to do was use her body to hide my hard on. So I use the coat over my arm to cover one side while escorting her and using her body to hide the other side. She's asking me what in my pocket and I told her and she didn't beleive me. Lator she feels for me after my cock subsided and it not there anymore she swear to god I had something in my pocket. She's mad at me and I can get a hard on while she mad at me to prove it That its me. So she said good bye after that permanetly. She thinks I had a cucumber and was really peeve that I would do that in a public place. I am not with her anymore, but I thought it was an interesting date that went bad. Would a man be upset if they found out that a woman was wearing falsies to impress a guy? And was that a legitimate behavior from her for having a hard-on that I cant hide? Trust me when I say that if I had walk without being coy I would of been laugh at for sure, and embarass her even more.
Guess you win some and loose some.
Yeah, I wouldn't want someone to wear "falsies" for me, I probably was attracted to someone for the way they are and it definately ruins expectations "later on".
However, I think she jumped the gun, maybe she doesn't know people like you exist. Her loss.
Yeah, I wouldn't want someone to wear "falsies" for me, I probably was attracted to someone for the way they are and it definately ruins expectations "later on".
However, I think she jumped the gun, maybe she doesn't know people like you exist. Her loss.
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