My ideal size (8"x6") is that of my lover and soul mate, Artfulwilly.
I am beyond blessed to have a man who is my other half -- who fits me emotionally, intellectually, and sensually every bit as well as his cock fills my pussy. I utterly adore him and consider myself out of the market for additional penises. :tongue:
So, I am not on some kind of weird treasure hunt trying to fuck the biggest penis I can possibly find, or even to find one bigger than the one I currently have.
I know you aren't on some weird quest for cock, haha! I was just curious if your man (Artfulwilly) is the largest you had ever been with. Sorry, I know I am a bit nosy. :tongue:
i think these threads manifest out of the inherent human need to be validated in some way, to be evaluated and graded by society. i think people's views on these threads are based upon their own personal fetish-oriented impluses and what they tell them is the exciting answer to give. i don't think anything can be done about this, and people will continue to ask, and will be met with the appropriate about of feedback as is wanted to be given by the sliver of the community that is interested by the query.At the risk of being an old fart, I would like to express my views/experience on this subject. I am doing so, because frankly, I am bored of threads asking "what is the perfect this that or the ohter?", "what do women think etc", "Will women blah blah?".
It may not be my place to say this, but objectifying all women into a single personna, with a single view, and preference, is sexist. Perhaps the ultimate sexism. There may be similarities in what women think, but there are a few guys who keep spouting ultimate truths about what women think - it pisses me off.
I have come to see the women and penis size thing rather like we list our orientation here. Higher percentiles would have very specific requirements for their sexual and psychological needs, whilst the percentile drops as other things become equally if not more important. Simple men like me can understand this. For example, "I am a 66% size queen, but when I am with him, I am a 90% size queen". Or, "I am a 90% size queen, and sorry 12 inches just doesn't do it for me" :biggrin1: And for balance "I am a 10% size queen, now where did you park the Aston Martin?"
Furthermore, like our sexuality, these can change with time or different partners. Flux is good.
Am I wrong?
Nor should they. Apparently others feel differently.
That obviously worked for you and i'm very glad to hear how happy you and your wife are, but none of the women were suggesting that they'd get involved in a relationship, find out their man is too small, and then drop him, but rather the opposite. They're trying to save themselves and others that emotional pain by stating their preferences beforehand.
Care to elaborate?
I see your point but I disagree it's all about rejection. It's about acceptance. If it was about rejection, i'd be whining, bitching, and moaning about all the "shallow" men who like big breasts. Why would I do that when I like my ta-ta's and know there are other men who do too?
That's a nice theory except fetishes have nothing to do with body parts and this thread is not about whether large cocks have spiritual or magical qualities.
No one suggested women should end a relationship because of cock size, but that if it's a preference they must have, then they wouldn't get into a relationship at all.
I say this as a straight woman - breasts of any size can be beautiful. But you won't find me frequenting a site that celebrates large breasts and calling others shallow for loving large breasts.
