This is a question I've had on my mind for a awhile now. Why is it that a lot of women feel uncomfortable with telling men that they are big? I had this with my first gf which is why I always thought I was average, but then when I moved on to other girls I found out different. Do women feel like they are degrading themselves or something if they tell the dude that he is big? Is it an ego thing or are they not trying to make him too confident? It's just funny to me that some girls are like wow your huge, some say yeah your kinda big, and then I get the most hated response of all "You're a good size". That response to me sounds like "Yeah your ok so I guess you'll do for now."