Women are you always able to cum?

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I'm so bothered about this. Every other guy I've been with have been able to make me cum except for this prick I'm with now. He's a premature ejaculator (officially, if you can't last one minute then that's what you are).

I keep thinking maybe I'm the problem.

Any tips on how to cum quicker? I'm thinking I could watch porn before we meet, so I'm already extremely horny when we start.

What do you do (women) to prepare yourself? Foreplay doesn't do much for me, I reach the same level of horniness on cue.
 

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He ejaculates in under a minute, and then you think you may be the problem? I think you may have confidence issues, but not sexual ones.
 

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Why are you fucking him?

Good question.:biggrin1: He's well hung so the sex part for that extremely short duration feels really good.

You guys are right, maybe it's him with the problem. I usually cum within 2 minutes (tried and tested with every other guy I've been with) but I do sometimes feel maybe I should try and be a little more hornier so I can get it done under 1 minute.
 

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try to make him drink before,if he drinks is able to fuck u long time...believe me...that works
 

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Hung can't get it done when he has no stamina. He's got to work on that. Maybe add condom or desensitizing cream or something. It's not you, women need some time to cum.
 

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sounds like you're just fine, he needs to last longer. have you talked to him about it? does the fact that he's, as you say, a prick make that difficult? can you find a well hung guy with stamina who ISN'T a prick? lol
 

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How devestating for you both!! You should try a cockring and toy for yourself. But you really should talk to him. Obviously, he knows he has a prob. And is not able to bring it up himself.
His size doesn't even matter if he cannot use it! :-(
 

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Good question.:biggrin1: He's well hung so the sex part for that extremely short duration feels really good.
Damn. Other than Gillette's advice, I would suggest that you put on your Femdom boots and train him. If you do it right, he won't be able to cum without the right stimulation.

Slap his balls when he starts to go "oh god,oh mumma":wink:
I'm so gonna use this on you one day. :biggrin1:
 

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I've had ex-BFs like this. Key is "EX" If he doesn't have staying power he's not worth it. Some men can't help it. I feel bad for them. Then there are pricks that don't care that there are two people involved here and just care about getting themselves off.

If you really like this guy and want to try to put up with his "problem" (and it is his problem sweety. Not yours.) then do some foreplay. Blow him or jerk him off till he cums then have him go down on you till he's ready again. Learn his "I'm about to cum" body changes (red face, change in thrusts, stops talking, etc...) and when you think he is about to cum switch positions and disrupt his motion to prevent him from cumming. And never underestimate the power of sex toys.....or just find someone else to fuck on the side. lol
 
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tell him he's popping too soon.
if he's not going to try then end it.

that you can cum in 2 minutes is mind blowing!
 

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So if he's a prick personality-wise, why are you staying with him? And if he's worth staying with aside from the sex, then please just train him. Has it been a long time since he's had sex? Don't just assume that a man should have incredible stamina regardless if he's had sex in a long time or not. Mentally, it's totally different than jerking off so even if he can last a long time doing that, it's not the same. Can he make you come from oral or with his hands?

And 2 minutes is amazing, I bet every guy you have been with has enjoyed that!
 

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A friend has a similar problem in that she can't cum at all from pure PIV sex. Her solution (recommended by me) was to whip out the vibe and play with her clit while her boyfriend is in her fucking away. She says she can orgasm in less than 30 seconds this way.
 

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A friend has a similar problem in that she can't cum at all from pure PIV sex. Her solution (recommended by me) was to whip out the vibe and play with her clit while her boyfriend is in her fucking away. She says she can orgasm in less than 30 seconds this way.

Sounds like that's not her problem, it's him not being able to last long enough.

Like I said in my other post though, unless you want him around for just the sex, don't just dump him because you've been together a few times and you haven't been able to come by him yet. If this was a serious relationship then I'd be truly frightened by the women (or people in general) on here that say "get rid of him" because with that attitude, it amazes me that people are shocked that relationships don't last. Sex is important, but holy shit give it some time. When people base their whole future with a person by 1 time in the sack, it's time to wake up.