Women are you always able to cum?

[dolfette]

if sex is really important to you... i say base it on his willingness to accept that there's a problem, willingness to fix it and the chances of success.

 

[ibostyle11]

1. Get yourself close to coming b4 he starts.
2. Maybe have him orgasm once b4 you start so he won't come so damn quickly.
3. If 1 or 2 don't work, upgrade him~

 

[eyescream]

Nope, he means nothing to me. It just bothers me a bit that I've cummed with every other guy I've been with except for him so I wanted to keep that "record" going. But after reading what everyone has written so far, I'm convinced that he's the problem. Thanks you guys!

Cumming under 2 minutes is really cool. But I was dating this guy who loved to edge during sex so when he's going on and on for 15 minutes and I've gone almost 8 times I start complaining (sex wipes me out) and we actually have "I've had too many orgasms and I'm so tired so please stop or else" arguments.

 

[helgaleena]

Me too, and it's less of an issue as one's partner ages so see if you like him for his mind as well before writing off mister 'edge'...

 

[RawDog]

Cumming under 2 minutes is really cool. But I was dating this guy who loved to edge during sex so when he's going on and on for 15 minutes and I've gone almost 8 times I start complaining (sex wipes me out) and we actually have "I've had too many orgasms and I'm so tired so please stop or else" arguments.

15 minutes?!??!! No offense meant, but my wife and I usually have that argument at 45 minutes (when she's orgasmed 18 times).

My wife also gets wiped out after sex too (physically and emotionally). How do you recover after? She and I also have the "I'm too exahausted to fuck again this soon" argument. I've learned to just hang back and wait until she's ready, but every bit of advice is welcome.

 

[eyescream]

15 minutes?!??!! No offense meant, but my wife and I usually have that argument at 45 minutes (when she's orgasmed 18 times).

My wife also gets wiped out after sex too (physically and emotionally). How do you recover after? She and I also have the "I'm too exahausted to fuck again this soon" argument. I've learned to just hang back and wait until she's ready, but every bit of advice is welcome.

Lol, can't help you there.:biggrin1: I wasn't living with that BF so thankfully I didn't have to see him everyday so I had enough time to recuperate.

Quite funny actually because right now I'm bothered that the guy I'm doing it with can't get me there, and back then I was bothered that I was cumming too much.

 

[ibostyle11]

Every woman is wired differently. You're one of the fortunate ones that cums really easily... and repeatedly on top of that... lucky lucky lucky lol

If the guy can't get you off, that doesn't necessarily mean that it's his fault. But in light of how long he last and whatnot, it's clear that he's the issue.

As for the "lasting forever bit." Yeah a lot of guys think they need to be able to go for hours. I've actually done that with my gf, but the best sex is when you both blow at the same time, and it's usually not over 15 minutes lol

 

[biglatincock86]

It's not your fault!!! But the 2 minutes 2 cum...holy... I liked bardox14's reply. Let him cum first, get that out of the way, then keep going. That first cum is usually the tricky one...god they cum up so fast .

And if he can't go more than one cum...then screw his sorry butt..cause when you really want a girl...you can go forever..and one like you seems like an eternity wouldn't be enough.

 

[RawDog]

Lol, can't help you there.:biggrin1:

That's ok, I had to ask anyway. I'm always reaching for more knowledge and the women here seem to have a uncanny blend of straightforwardness, unabashed enjoyment of sex, and the writing skillz anyone would be envious of. You intellectual nympho you.

I wasn't living with that BF so thankfully I didn't have to see him everyday so I had enough time to recuperate.

Makes sense.

Quite funny actually because right now I'm bothered that the guy I'm doing it with can't get me there, and back then I was bothered that I was cumming too much.

Life can be so ironic. (I suppose someone will now chime in on my inappropriate use of the word ironic).

 

[Enid]

Life can be so ironic. (I suppose someone will now chime in on my inappropriate use of the word ironic).

You always make me chuckle!

YouTube - Actually Ironic (Parody of Ironic by Alanis Morissette)

15 minutes?!??!! No offense meant, but my wife and I usually have that argument at 45 minutes (when she's orgasmed 18 times).

Yeah, 15 minutes is like nothin' for me. I will complain after 45 minutes to an hour of penetration. That's when it becomes just too much.

I do orgasm the majority of the time with my current partner. I have an off night every now & then but it's not too often.

 

[RawDog]

You always make me chuckle!

YouTube - Actually Ironic (Parody of Ironic by Alanis Morissette)

Bwahahaha! I thought of that song when I said that too! This is the first time I see that parody though. Funny stuff.

 

[Ramsey]

Yeah, 15 minutes is like nothin' for me. I will complain after 45 minutes to an hour of penetration. That's when it becomes just too much.

I do orgasm the majority of the time with my current partner. I have an off night every now & then but it's not too often.

Can I clone you!?

 

[D_Helmer Heighballs]

slip him a single tramadol, let the sweats wear off, get him hard and he will be the one that wont cum. plus the high will make everything feel better.

BEWARE though PROLONGED regular use will give him and you (if you want to get a little buzzing too) dryness and itcheyness. i myself get a cold nose??? how weird.

hope i helped.

many happy future orgasams

 

[nicenycdick]

I have been with my wife for more than 30 years (and I can't remember back before that!)...and she has never cum during intercourse. She can't...and never has. I understand that some women don't. The biggest problem with this is that I have, over time, adopted an obligation to cum more quickly than I'd like (since she certainly has no personal goal involved in the exercise, so to speak.)

I would some day love to experience how it feels to have a woman cum while I am...uh...in position. And I envy your partners for your ability to climax from penetration alone.

 

[Singleman8]

I'm so bothered about this. Every other guy I've been with have been able to make me cum except for this prick I'm with now. He's a premature ejaculator (officially, if you can't last one minute then that's what you are).

I keep thinking maybe I'm the problem.

Any tips on how to cum quicker? I'm thinking I could watch porn before we meet, so I'm already extremely horny when we start.

What do you do (women) to prepare yourself? Foreplay doesn't do much for me, I reach the same level of horniness on cue.

maybe yoiu need to tell him to give himself a handjob a couple of hours before you have sex again...that might help...

 

[wildwestend]

so he cums in 1 minute.....WOW
so you come in 2 minutes.....WOW

Can't get mad at a man for cumming soon when you cum just as soon as well :biggrin1:.....

So wait, you get tired after 15 minutes? So Im guessing sex for you is strictly anywhere between 6-12 minutes, or else its too little or too much .....

The solution to this is actually pretty easy: you make him cum before intercourse.....you start having intercourse, if he still comes in 1 minute, I have no clue, thats not suppose to happen, but if he doesn't hell go more than 2 so that way you can cum aswell.... and then he can even cum after 3 minutes if he wants because you already came....

The shortest I've ever come was probably 5 minutes and thats from masterbating......sex, I would have to say varies from 25-45....have never cum from a blowjob.

 

[B_curiousme01]

Damn. Other than Gillette's advice, I would suggest that you put on your Femdom boots and train him. If you do it right, he won't be able to cum without the right stimulation.

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[RawDog]

Yeah, 15 minutes is like nothin' for me. I will complain after 45 minutes to an hour of penetration. That's when it becomes just too much.

Here's a hypothetical one for you:

Let's say I'm the type of guy that wants to maximize as much "internal" time as possible (for the sake of argument, say 3 hours). Obviously, based on what you said, 3 hours straight just will not do. If your threshold for soreness is 45 minutes, would you break it down to 4 rounds of PIV fucking interspersed with extended periods of play (snuggling, nibbling, oral, kissing, etc.), or would you just preferto break it down to 4 rounds and have absolutely no intimacy whatsoever in between?

 

[helgaleena]

Here's a hypothetical one for you:

Let's say I'm the type of guy that wants to maximize as much "internal" time as possible (for the sake of argument, say 3 hours). Obviously, based on what you said, 3 hours straight just will not do. If your threshold for soreness is 45 minutes, would you break it down to 4 rounds of PIV fucking interspersed with extended periods of play (snuggling, nibbling, oral, kissing, etc.), or would you just preferto break it down to 4 rounds and have absolutely no intimacy whatsoever in between?

I prefer you to hold still now and then so I can recover from coming all over you every five minutes. :tongue:

And when I fall asleep let me nap a bit, too.

 

[Titsdude21]

make him go down on you when he is finished.

or make him fuck you again

or make him use a dildo on you