Right, but I'd like to not have to combat that notion every time I go out. I'm getting older here.Hey -- look at it as a plus. Your "OGTs" are filtering out small minded women who haven't got a clue how to have fun.
Right, but I'd like to not have to combat that notion every time I go out. I'm getting older here.Hey -- look at it as a plus. Your "OGTs" are filtering out small minded women who haven't got a clue how to have fun.
Didn't know that lips or anything else on someone's body dictated what sexuality they were. But, thanks for the compliment.I've seen you post in other places, and I've seen your avatar and subconsciously thought 'those lips belong to a gay man.' I never even looked at your percentage. I wish I had better advice for you. Maybe explore that ten percent more. This seems like a case of 'everyone knows you're gay before you do.'
But I don't know you. Don't let some anonymous stranger on some website judge you. Good luck with the women. I hope your problems go away, or I hope you can conquer them.
Not to my knowledge he has never been called gay.Yep, totally stupid reasoning, but you can bet it has an impact. I would have said it was the whole reason, but you say your friend does similar things without his sexuality being misconstrued. Does he actually pick up? Or does he just not get told he is gay? Maybe they think he's gay too, but just don't tell him? Or maybe it has to do with something else - maybe the signals you're sending out, as someone else has said.
Thanks. I fully understand what you are saying. I am friends in RL with a LPSG member and I guess he gets asked if he is gay sometimes too (he is 1% as well). As he said when I talked to him the other night, I kind of have a "i dont give a shit" kind of attitude. I don't really have boundaries or at least try not to have boundaries. Why be bottled up in some stereotypical role.I'm not sure "acting gay" makes much sense. I have a lot of straight buddies who act stereo-typically gay all the time. It's just a form of communication. If your friends know that you are attracted to women, that most likely is the best way to get the word out. I noticed in your gallery that your photos are artistic. I mean, they're not just close-up dick shots. They actually show your body in various graceful positions. You seem to be a guy who views things that way. To me that would be a plus in terms of meeting and inter-acting with women. All the best.
Not to my knowledge he has never been called gay.
I'm not sure what you exactly mean by "picked up." But, he got 2 numbers and made out.
Yeah, since he was there and witnessed the whole thing we discussed it at length.Sorry, 'picked up' must be an Aussie-ism. But that's exactly what it means. Have you asked your friends if they have any insight on this one? After all, they know you better than we do.
Yeah, since he was there and witnessed the whole thing we discussed it at length.
He doesn't know. About the only difference is that he likes to go to strip clubs and I don't. And if women can sense that... then WTF.
That's no joke..They are!!! ..and I'm starting to believe that there are more hung gay men..than straight either ;-)
I have heard that there is a higher chance of being better hung if you are not 100% straight. But, no personal evidence to provide with that other than what I've heard from a few scientist and then also a few bi/gay friends.That may indeed be the case. It seems like I read about some study that concluded that exposure to higher testosterone in utero causes homosexuality.
See, this blows the OGT idea out of the water. Are we sure that it is not what we DO, but what our bodies do (pheromones)?Funny.
In the past I had women assume I was gay.
I have no idea why.
I have close to zero fashion sense.
Don't dance.
Drink beer.
But no gay man ever made that assumption
(that I am aware of)
In fact ones that I mentioned to that some women thought I was gay got the biggest laugh out of it and were as puzzled as I was as to why they thought that.
I'm not 1%, I'm more 5-10% but LPSG doesn't allow for the more proper 5% designation. But yes, who knows.You are the creator. If the actors in your life story, in this case the females in the club, are assuming you are gay, some part of you is sending out that vibe. Perhaps a subconscious part of you is less than 99% sure you are straight and therefore the manifestations you create happen as they do.
But who can say for sure. Life is a mystery afterall
Ha, I think I will try this next time it happens!!!Plug It In, I'm in the same boat as you. Granted I'm not the straightest person out there, it's just frustrating that I do want to be with a woman and they'll make assumptions about me. And I am not sure when people will start to realize that the way someone talks, walks, dances, whatever has very little to do with what they like to do in a bedroom.
Most recently a girl that though I was gay ended up sleeping with me for a few weeks. I was really glad that I could get past that judgment but then I ended up not really wanting to be with her anyway. If a girl tells you she thinks your gay, have you ever offered to sleep with her? I was shocked at the results.
If a girl tells you she thinks your gay, have you ever offered to sleep with her? I was shocked at the results.
I am definitely going to do this next time. I am very secure in my sexual ability and I am known to say crazy things like this. :biggrin1:I think you are on to something here haha LOL....
If I were to think that and he would say to me * I'm not gay, but let me fuck you, and then you can tell me if i'm gay or not* ..in a confident way and while looking straight into my eyes...my curiousity would certainly be stimulated right there..
Might even toss the idea of 'your sexuality' right out of the door..
But I know..you can't just go around and fuck every girl..haha
Pretend to be gay, and let chicks know that you could easily be converted. Women love a challenge, especially if you're cute!
Didn't know that lips or anything else on someone's body dictated what sexuality they were. But, thanks for the compliment.