If you attempt to be nice, open-minded, and genuine, you wonder if you're just being naive and setting yourself up for trouble. If you choose to ignore someone or tell them you're not interested in talking with them (for whatever reason) you're usually labeled a bitch. Am I right or wrong? Or both? Note: Men, this is not aimed at the majority of the posting population. Let it be known that I am wholly appreciative of most men here, especially those I know on a more personal level. You know who you are.