Women at LPSG and no-win situations

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If you attempt to be nice, open-minded, and genuine, you wonder if you're just being naive and setting yourself up for trouble.

If you choose to ignore someone or tell them you're not interested in talking with them (for whatever reason) you're usually labeled a bitch.

Am I right or wrong? Or both?







Note: Men, this is not aimed at the majority of the posting population. Let it be known that I am wholly appreciative of most men here, especially those I know on a more personal level. You know who you are.


I'd actually expand this to pretty much anyone getting PMs on this site... which considering that I've gotten them, with so few posts (considering how long I've been registered here) and with no pics (especially), I figure everyone gets them.

If I get something completely vulgar, I won't respond (i.e. hey, want to jack-off/suck my cock/ f***). I'm not sure what the opinion of me is after that, but either way, that's what it is and that kind of solicitation illicits no response lol. If I get something respectful, but is still clearly hitting on me (those are pretty much the two varieties of very random PMs you get here, ugh), I'll usually respond and then say I'm not "whatever they are trying to get out of me" and then all of an instant sudden they stop messaging me. That is pretty much how it goes.
 

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BTW I am nothing like the poster I portray here. It just kinda fun being the agent provocateur, the annoying pest.

LordP why do you dislike guys like me?

I can't speak for LP, but at a guess I'd say because you do the red portion so very well.

The portion in blue is what bothers me. If you are not in fact a heel, why portray one here? You can be provocative without being a jerk. When you first joined I read posts of yours that made me think you held some promise as a member here. Bit by bit, you've slid to someone I'd be more likely to intentionally spill a drink on than finish a conversation with.

The butterface thread did not show you in a good light.
 

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I can't speak for LP, but at a guess I'd say because you do the red portion so very well.

The portion in blue is what bothers me. If you are not in fact a heel, why portray one here? You can be provocative without being a jerk. When you first joined I read posts of yours that made me think you held some promise as a member here. Bit by bit, you've slid to someone I'd be more likely to intentionally spill a drink on than finish a conversation with.

The butterface thread did not show you in a good light.

Actually that person and I had a great time and she is now a friend. We chat all the time. I knew it would not be received well here but I wanted to be very bluntly honest. That word is used in that way by a lot of people now and I brought itinto the open.

I do appreciate your input. There is a bitterness here that you may not be aware of. Why? Knockernail, a really nice Spanish kid bailed here due in part to the acrimony he felt.

Read my post the OP on bush(not capitalized deliberately) being a nitwit. I gave him an F. I said he had a failed presidency. Next thing I know I am fellating him , I am a fucker, a moron, a racist, I think of people as niggers and spics. Thats comical if you could see. Maybe more on that later.

But he did do one thing. Lowered taxes and increased tax revenues. Thats good thing for everyone here. A very good thing.

Here its all black and white, no shades of gray. So I tweak the uncompromisers when I can. I raise issues that can examined from a lot of sides but here there is only one party line. I like to step on it. Lets see some open constructive many sided dialogue and it will be lots of fun.
 

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BTW I am nothing like the poster I portray here. It just kinda fun being the agent provocateur, the annoying pest.
But you can't expect others to take you seriously when you are clearly disingenuous. Provoking others just to get a reaction out of them seems like a waste of good internet time to me. It's one thing to generate a good discussion to make others think, it's another to don a persona to punch buttons.

People who are genuine, sincere, erudite, compassionate, and playful are intriguing and the ones I appreciate most. I realise no one is under any obligation to reveal what they do not want others to know (I certainly don't) but what I choose to reveal here is all true.

BTW, I also file things away. I'm surprised to read you find me physically attractive considering the snarky remark you made to me earlier:

Do I have connections no. Do I know where the best implants are done, that I do. And I will imagine you as a beautiful fair maiden with big full breasts and a taste for fun and you can thnk of me as an arrogant joyless prick.

I'm just saying....
 

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But you can't expect others to take you seriously when you are clearly disingenuous. Provoking others just to get a reaction out of them seems like a waste of good internet time to me. It's one thing to generate a good discussion to make others think, it's another to don a persona to punch buttons.

People who are genuine, sincere, erudite, compassionate, and playful are intriguing and the ones I appreciate most. I realise no one is under any obligation to reveal what they do not want others to know (I certainly don't) but what I choose to reveal here is all true.

BTW, I also file things away. I'm surprised to read you find me physically attractive considering the snarky remark you made to me earlier:



I'm just saying....

That comment was exactly what gets me to be the annoying pest in light of this, something I sent you by PM back in January

From a PM I sent you and you answered (I can't win for losing)


In answering MercurialBliss, rather than be the persona I have adopted here, let me be as real and human as I can


>>>>Are you implying i'm boring and have something hide, physically speaking?<<<<

Absolutely not. I think your pictures are about the hottest on this site. Without going to them I can picture them in my mind. A couple of them you have your hand draped across your neck. Thats creative and interesting, at least to me. Your fingers at the nape of your neck a very erogenous zone, is hot!! It means your are creative at least and likely smart. Big big pluses, way more important than big boobs. Seriously. I think there is one pose where you are leaning against a wall and your right arm blocks your right breast a bit. Again devastatlingly sexy IMO. Again you were thinking and thats the sexiest trait of all in a woman.

I sent this to you once b/4 as a true compliment in a PM. I sent you that not as a crude hustle but as an expression of true compliment. MB you did an AMAZING job with your pics. Accept without judgement. LOL

>>>If i'm not your cup of tea, that's fine. Red hair, small breasts, and a juicy bum are not for every man.<<<

Actually if its attached to someone with a great sense of humor and a degree of creativity its exactly my cup of tea. If you are bold eyed and challenging, I am sunk.

>>>However, I hope you will re-read your last comment and realize that you've made yourself look like an arrogant, joyless prick. You didn't need any help at all from me.<<<

that was totally deliberate. Internet sites tend to be mutual admiration societies. " Your great, he's great, she's great" There needs to be challenger, a rabble rouser. Thats me. I like it. I want to be challenged and I want to be challenging. If I have to be the common enemy OK, someone needs to be.

I think you are very hot, very smart and I hope in some way you are being affirmed by someone real, flesh and blood. If not thats a shame.

Now after all that gushing but heartfelt, honest praise can i go back to WGC? He is fun, if annoying.

Now do you remember that one? Or do you only remember the stuff you don't like?
 

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All I see being proved here is that you're consistently creepy in public and in private. If that was your point, then job well done!
 

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That comment was exactly what gets me to be the annoying pest in light of this, something I sent you by PM back in January

From a PM I sent you and you answered (I can't win for losing)


In answering MercurialBliss, rather than be the persona I have adopted here, let me be as real and human as I can


>>>>Are you implying i'm boring and have something hide, physically speaking?<<<<

Absolutely not. I think your pictures are about the hottest on this site. Without going to them I can picture them in my mind. A couple of them you have your hand draped across your neck. Thats creative and interesting, at least to me. Your fingers at the nape of your neck a very erogenous zone, is hot!! It means your are creative at least and likely smart. Big big pluses, way more important than big boobs. Seriously. I think there is one pose where you are leaning against a wall and your right arm blocks your right breast a bit. Again devastatlingly sexy IMO. Again you were thinking and thats the sexiest trait of all in a woman.

I sent this to you once b/4 as a true compliment in a PM. I sent you that not as a crude hustle but as an expression of true compliment. MB you did an AMAZING job with your pics. Accept without judgement. LOL

>>>If i'm not your cup of tea, that's fine. Red hair, small breasts, and a juicy bum are not for every man.<<<

Actually if its attached to someone with a great sense of humor and a degree of creativity its exactly my cup of tea. If you are bold eyed and challenging, I am sunk.

>>>However, I hope you will re-read your last comment and realize that you've made yourself look like an arrogant, joyless prick. You didn't need any help at all from me.<<<

that was totally deliberate. Internet sites tend to be mutual admiration societies. " Your great, he's great, she's great" There needs to be challenger, a rabble rouser. Thats me. I like it. I want to be challenged and I want to be challenging. If I have to be the common enemy OK, someone needs to be.

I think you are very hot, very smart and I hope in some way you are being affirmed by someone real, flesh and blood. If not thats a shame.

Now after all that gushing but heartfelt, honest praise can i go back to WGC? He is fun, if annoying.

Now do you remember that one? Or do you only remember the stuff you don't like?

Yes, I do remember that (and it was appreciated). But it's interesting to find that I can punch your buttons too. I know. I'm evil. Sue me. :biggrin1:

:saevil:
 

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All I see being proved here is that you're consistently creepy in public and in private. If that was your point, then job well done!

See. can't win for losing. I am a creep.

For the record, if there is anything we as human beings crave its affirmation of our being from those around us. I can think of no higher wish to bestoy than that of being affirmed.

Oh well.
 

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See. can't win for losing. I am a creep.

For the record, if there is anything we as human beings crave its affirmation of our being from those around us. I can think of no higher wish to bestoy than that of being affirmed.

Oh well.


BTW I am nothing like the poster I portray here. It just kinda fun being the agent provocateur, the annoying pest.

Your words posted above. Please explain to me how being an "annoying pest" helps you provide "affirmation of being" for others? Sometimes you get what you give around here.
 

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I don't think someone can successfully pretend to be something that isn't a part of their persona.

Excellent point. No matter how complex the persona, I think certain aspects of that person's inner life are unconsciously filtered through. This is where consistency is key. People reveal themselves unknowingly after awhile. You just have to pay attention.
 

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Excellent point. No matter how complex the persona, I think certain aspects of that person's inner life are unconsciously filtered through. This is where consistency is key. People reveal themselves unknowingly after awhile. You just have to pay attention.


Wow! I wonder what I am consistantly telling about myself?:eek:
 

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Sounds quite accurate to me. Some guys are just...ugh! Most of the messages I get on here start off as nice compliments that I return, trying to be nice, and they almost always escalate into, "I wish my dick was in that cute ass of your's" or whatever. It's like kind words automatically mean "That's a go! Let's start sexing!" to some guys, it's so aggravating and annoying.


lol I've had a guy messaging me telling me to hurry up and put another picture up becuase he has finished with the other ones and needs fresh material- in so many words!
Annoying really (what really pissed me of was that he didn't even have any of his own pics just expected me to post some becuase he wanted them- weird really)