Women at LPSG and no-win situations

[chicagosam]

hey, for women on the net life is just one long cyberbukkake spree!

I'm glad to hear that. Carry on!

 

[DC_DEEP]

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[FONT=&quot]I would suggest that most guys who surf this board are masturbating (I just finished - thus the semi-intelligent post) (wild orgy in the guys head, that is)

Perhaps true for you, but not for many of us.

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[FONT=&quot]I feel you are a bit naive as to the nature of the male sex drive when you expect not to be harassed in such an environment. When highly aroused we are apt to turn from slightly to wildly insane. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]When we're done we're as meek as lambs and want you to go away.[/FONT]

I know you meant that as a mitigating explanation, but I find it offensive. You are basically saying that men, simply because they have a Y chromosome, are completely incapable of maturity, self-control, and good judgement. That's not a reason, it's an excuse... and a bad one, at that.

 

[diamond]

I have to agree with the girls on this subject, if you choose to answer a PM the guy automatically assumes you want to watch them wanking off, or rate their cock pics..(gentleman FYI, if i like a dick pic I will rate it in the gallery). If you are horny than for pete sakes don't expect me to be your pay per view.....that's what your credit card is for, and there are tons of 1-900 numbers or porn sites that will gladly accept your visa or mc number.

If I choose to ignore the PM, I usually get left alone, however you do receive the few nasty comments from the serial wankers on this site ....."Bitch, if you aren't on here to look at cocks, why the hell are you on here"?

I wont even mention the weird PM, sent to my In box as of late...however I am definitely going to post the rude ones, not that it seems to deter the sexually frustrated in this community.

 

[DC_DEEP]

(Q) ....."Bitch, if you aren't on here to look at cocks, why the hell are you on here"?

(A) I'm doing my Ph. D. dissertation on "How Mental Deficients With The Cognitive Ability Of A Cockroach Are Able To Access And Use The Internet." I'll be sure to use citations when I quote you.

 

[dolfette]

If I choose to ignore the PM, I usually get left alone, however you do receive the few nasty comments from the serial wankers on this site ....."Bitch, if you aren't on here to look at cocks, why the hell are you on here"?

nice tits

wanna chat on im my handle is hornycyberdoghumpingyourleg4u

...am i turning you on yet, baybeeee?

 

[DC_DEEP]

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HIM: Hey, nice tits
ME: Thanks
HIM: Wanna see my cock?
ME: No thanks, I'm really not here to look at cocks
HIM: Then wtf are you doing here?
ME: I'm here for conversation and to answer threads
HIM: Guys can do that, get me off
ME: I'm not interested
HIM: Bitch, if you aren't here to get men off then you have no reason to be here at all, this site is for men

Hah, thanks for that, Kot. I have a little variation on that... guys, especially you feeble-minded guys, take note:

What he types:

HIM: Hey, nice tits
ME: Thanks
HIM: Wanna see my cock?
ME: No thanks, I'm really not here to look at cocks
HIM: Then wtf are you doing here?
ME: I'm here for conversation and to answer threads
HIM: Guys can do that, get me off
ME: I'm not interested
HIM: Bitch, if you aren't here to get men off then you have no reason to be here at all, this site is for men

What she sees:

HIM: Please put me on ignore.
ME: Thanks
HIM: Please put me on ignore.
ME: No thanks, I'm really not here to look at cocks
HIM: Please put me on ignore.
ME: I'm here for conversation and to answer threads
HIM: Please put me on ignore.
ME: I'm not interested
HIM: Please report me to the moderators.

 

[Ethyl]

OK. I'm going to be blunt. It will probably get me into trouble. Flame me. I don't care. It needs to be said.

A few of the women here have already been villified for outing someone who claims to have been fucking his mother and has been telling this story to countless people. Even when they told him they didn't want to hear it, he kept pushing the issue. We've all been keeping this under wraps because 1) it's incest and while it may disgust some of us, it's a lifestyle choice one makes (supposedly) and we don't want to judge that person by their lifestyle choices, 2) we didn't know if the story was true or not, 3) He's considered a "nice guy" by many here and we didn't want to be mean to the "nice guy".

Since this has been brought to light, it's been suggested the fairy tale incest story is pure fabrication. Fine. Some have said we should've put this guy on ignore and gone on with our merry lives (that's going to show a lot of support for someone who truly needs it. Right.) Some have said "shame on us" for being so nasty about discussing this issue openly because he's a nice, sweet guy and wouldn't hurt a soul.

I've disovered it isn't just the nasty fuckwits who make LPSG difficult for so many women here. It's the "nice guy" who ignores your request to refrain from sharing information you don't want to know about and gets his rocks off on spreading his lurid tales to everyone. At a certain point, I stopped replying when he began talking about his mother but when he PMed or IMed me, I would make banal chitchat with him because he's a "nice guy" and I didn't want to hurt his feelings by not talking to him. At least until he started talking about his mother. Once again, a perfect example of why people think they can jerk you around when you're nice to them.

And there you have it...a perfect no-win situation.

You can heed your promise to stop posting in this thread now, Sam.

 

[geek0]

(A) I'm doing my Ph. D. dissertation on "How Mental Deficients With The Cognitive Ability Of A Cockroach Are Able To Access And Use The Internet." I'll be sure to use citations when I quote you.

lol i may keep that handy to quote

 

[DC_DEEP]

lol i may keep that handy to quote

I encourage all our fine women to use it, no citation needed. I've only received just a couple of troll-ish PMs since I joined a few years back; but I understand that some of you receive landslides of them. Perhaps if a troll receive the same response, repeatedly, regardless of how trollish he may be, he may eventually get bored with it.

 

[Big Dreamer]

[FONT=&quot]I haven't read all five pages so if this was addressed forgive me[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]But...[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Seems to me if you're a sexy naked girl and walk in the middle of a wild orgy you just might get accosted. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]I would suggest that most guys who surf this board are masturbating (I just finished - thus the semi-intelligent post) (wild orgy in the guys head, that is)[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]sexy naked girl= YOU! along with the multitude of other sexy naked girls he sees on other pages, chat rooms and web cams.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]I feel you are a bit naive as to the nature of the male sex drive when you expect not to be harassed in such an environment. When highly aroused we are apt to turn from slightly to wildly insane. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]When we're done we're as meek as lambs and want you to go away.[/FONT]

Speak for yourself please, as I don't buy into your "When a man gets horny, all bets are off in terms of etiquette" bullshit. You can get as aroused as you like, but that doesn't mean the the enslaved masses (that's you girls) are obligated to come running and help you with your happy ending. Guys could save a LOT of rejection if they just perused a small sampling of posts from their potential "target" to see if making sexy-time is the girls cup of tea. Oh, I forgot....."Caveman horny..... no time to read."

 

[DC_DEEP]

Speak for yourself please, as I don't buy into your "When a man gets horny, all bets are off in terms of etiquette" bullshit. You can get as aroused as you like, but that doesn't mean the the enslaved masses (that's you girls) are obligated to come running and help you with your happy ending. Guys could save a LOT of rejection if they just perused a small sampling of posts from their potential "target" to see if making sexy-time is the girls cup of tea. Oh, I forgot....."Caveman horny..... no time to read."

Perhaps true for you, but not for many of us.I know you meant that as a mitigating explanation, but I find it offensive. You are basically saying that men, simply because they have a Y chromosome, are completely incapable of maturity, self-control, and good judgement. That's not a reason, it's an excuse... and a bad one, at that.

I think these both bear repeating.

 

[va_lk_yr_ie]

Guys could save a LOT of rejection if they just perused a small sampling of posts from their potential "target" to see if making sexy-time is the girls cup of tea.

Agreed.

But let's also not forget the small but oh, so important detail that because a woman wants to indulge in sex-related chatting with one (or a few select) guy(s), doesn't necessarily mean she wants to do this with all guys.

Assuming this is just as faulty as assuming a woman who sleeps with one (or a few select) guy(s) is willing to sleep with all guys. That distinction is so natural for most of us that we take it more or less for granted when it comes to real life interactions - it's just as valid for sex-related contacts over the net - even if those are "only" confined to chat or IMs.

 

[geek0]

Agreed.

But let's also not forget the small but oh, so important detail that because a woman wants to indulge in sex-related chatting with one (or a few select) guy(s), doesn't necessarily mean she wants to do this with all guys.

Assuming this is just as faulty as assuming a woman who sleeps with one (or a few select) guy(s) is willing to sleep with all guys. That distinction is so natural for most of us that we take it more or less for granted when it comes to real life interactions - it's just as valid for sex-related contacts over the net - even if those are "only" confined to chat or IMs.

Well said, i find most of the messages appear when u decided to discuss something of a sexual nature, all of a sudden u become fair game, unfortunately there will always be people who live in the dark ages but for the most part the people here are fantastic.

 

[rob_just_rob]

OK. I'm going to be blunt. It will probably get me into trouble. Flame me. I don't care. It needs to be said.

A few of the women here have already been villified for outing someone who claims to have been fucking his mother and has been telling this story to countless people. Even when they told him they didn't want to hear it, he kept pushing the issue. We've all been keeping this under wraps because 1) it's incest and while it may disgust some of us, it's a lifestyle choice one makes (supposedly) and we don't want to judge that person by their lifestyle choices, 2) we didn't know if the story was true or not, 3) He's considered a "nice guy" by many here and we didn't want to be mean to the "nice guy".

Since this has been brought to light, it's been suggested the fairy tale incest story is pure fabrication. Fine. Some have said we should've put this guy on ignore and gone on with our merry lives (that's going to show a lot of support for someone who truly needs it. Right.) Some have said "shame on us" for being so nasty about discussing this issue openly because he's a nice, sweet guy and wouldn't hurt a soul.

I've disovered it isn't just the nasty fuckwits who make LPSG difficult for so many women here. It's the "nice guy" who ignores your request to refrain from sharing information you don't want to know about and gets his rocks off on spreading his lurid tales to everyone. At a certain point, I stopped replying when he began talking about his mother but when he PMed or IMed me, I would make banal chitchat with him because he's a "nice guy" and I didn't want to hurt his feelings by not talking to him. At least until he started talking about his mother. Once again, a perfect example of why people think they can jerk you around when you're nice to them.

And there you have it...a perfect no-win situation.

You can heed your promise to stop posting in this thread now, Sam.

Interesting. Despite my having far too many posts here, I know remarkably little of what goes on at LPSG.

I remember this phenomenon from back when I used to chat. Someone would say hello and ask if I wanted to talk about X activity. I would demur politely and offer to talk about other things. Quite often, the other party would (seemingly) accept that and we'd go on to talk about something else... except that the other party would continually drop hints about activity X, or make "joking" references to activity X. And these attempts to steer the conversation around to activity X would be about as unsubtle as it gets.

And all the while, I wanted to give the other person a shake - I AM NOT INTERESTED IN TALKING ABOUT YOUR ACTIVITY X! The whole process made me feel like the other person was just humouring me by talking about other things, in the hope that his or her humouring me would lead to me humouring them by talking about something that I have no interest in.

Ugh. Just find someone else to talk with already.

 

[yongdo]

I have to disagree here.


The main problem isn't being hit on, hell its a compliment if nothing else when we are, the problem is that some people go way beyond acceptable behaviour in their attempts.

HIM: Hey, nice tits
ME: Thanks
HIM: Wanna see my cock?
ME: No thanks, I'm really not here to look at cocks
HIM: Then wtf are you doing here?
ME: I'm here for conversation and to answer threads
HIM: Guys can do that, get me off
ME: I'm not interested
HIM: Bitch, if you aren't here to get men off then you have no reason to be here at all, this site is for men

Oh, sorry. I had no idea that was going on. That's inhuman.

I don't want to excuse it but just state the general fact that inhuman behavior seems to increase with distance.
-People will be rude in their car but face to face would never act as such.
-In the military the hardest thing to do is to teach someone to kill at close range. Put some distance in the mix and an enemy becomes just a tiny ant to squash.

And, on the net with so much distance between people they stop becoming people and start becoming tiny ants.

Tiny sexy ones.

 

[Gillette]

And, on the net with so much distance between people they stop becoming people and start becoming tiny ants.

Tiny sexy ones.

I actually understand both of your posts, repugnantly oversimplified as the first one was. The first one pretty much describes every guy we DO NOT want to talk to. For those I'd say do us the favor and masturbate with both hands, stay away from the keyboard.

I agree with the reasoning in this last post. I think what we're saying here is that it's simply not good enough.

The quoted portion? That tickled my funny bone.
Keep with us, read our posts. We're more than sexy ants, we're real, life-sized sexy people.

 

[yongdo]

The quoted portion? That tickled my funny bone.
Keep with us, read our posts. We're more than sexy ants, we're real, life-sized sexy people.

Thanks!

can I PM you?
/jk

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

But let's also not forget the small but oh, so important detail that because a woman wants to indulge in sex-related chatting with one (or a few select) guy(s), doesn't necessarily mean she wants to do this with all guys.

I would also like to state that just because a woman wants to indulge in sex-related chatting with someone once in a while, does not mean that she wants to do it every single time you talk to her! It gets real old real fast.

 

[lemont77]

If you attempt to be nice, open-minded, and genuine, you wonder if you're just being naive and setting yourself up for trouble.

If you choose to ignore someone or tell them you're not interested in talking with them (for whatever reason) you're usually labeled a bitch.

Am I right or wrong? Or both?

Well, we don't really know each other yet, and I've learned my lesson about uninitiated IM's and PM's! I haven't been called a bitch yet, but not many people talk to me as of yet. I like a lot of you, though, new members and old, and I have to imagine that the people you are referring to, bliss, are the people you wouldn't want to talk to anyway.

I DO agree that it is hard to just be a nice person here, though. My skin got thick real damn fast (mostly my fault), but still!

I have to go with the answer "both." What's important for you to remember, darlin' heart, is that it is NOT about YOU! You are a wonderful person, unlike the fucktard that calls you a "cock-tease."

You all kick ass (except the fucktards). :biggrin1:

 

[lemont77]

I would also like to state that just because a woman wants to indulge in sex-related chatting with someone once in a while, does not mean that she wants to do it every single time you talk to her! It gets real old real fast.

It does tend to wear out the conversation, doesn't it, lil'bit? lol.