Women being good lovers

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Oh honey, there are literally thousands of ways to do foreplay without oral stimulation. Well-used fingers, the good ol' dry hump, and the mind fuck are very good methods for me.

Get yourself a guy who's into it, and then: Try, try, try!

Gisella said:
:kiss: :kiss:

Thank u Claire and Mercurialbliss...

But i think is because i do not get pleasure from oral play in me as i get from intercourse (i never cum from oral sex or external masturbation..never..just vaginal sex & masturbation) that i like to disregard most of foreplay...

I'm learning..well i was learning because im single now..have to wait a bit more to continue my education in that...:rolleyes:
 

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YOU'RE GREAT ClaireTalon! :flowers1: :arms:

I agree. Give more than you receive and they'll keep coming back for more. And the self-discipline thing struck a cord with me.

My last girlfriend was a good lover in most ways. Creative, open-mided, open to me exploring her body and great blowjobs. But it seemed like I could never get ahead. She had a high sex drive. I think she tried to hold back, but alas, a random blowjob for my pleasure would lead to oral sex and intercourse for her to have multiple orgasms. I really do like long sex sessions and giving a lot of pleasure, but those long sessions are emotionally taxing. And over time, my emotional reservoir ran out.

So I'd say she was a great lover short-term (a year), but not long-term. This might be interpreted as me be emotionally immature or not wanting commitment or monogomy. But from my perspective, it was me simply not getting back as much as I gave. Short-term it works, but long-term it doesn't.
 

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mercurialbliss said:
...i'm passionate, a giver and a receiver. Intuition plays a key role. Sensuality is as important as sexuality to me. I've been told i'm an excellent kisser. Kissing, in my experience, is a good indicator of what is yet to come.quote]

Kissing, the most sensous of all sensations.
 

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GorgeousJane said:
Well, for me, it's all about having an open-mind, wanting to please your partner, learning what your partner likes, enthusiasm, passion, learning how to use what YOU have to its best ability, intelligence, ideas and understanding. To name but a few essentials.

Failing that, big tits and a tight pussy seems to work for most men... :cool:
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OBsessed said:
What makes me a good lover is that I really enjoy my husband's cock. I can't get enough of its taste, feel and sight. He knows how much I enjoy playing with his male piece! :smile: I initiate oral sex at least as often as he does - and I don't expect reciprocation, either, unless were in bed already and intend the oral part to be just foreplay.
Amen to that! No matter how big it is in relation to other men, if you love the cock you have, chances are the sex is going to be great. And if they guy knows how much you love his cock, you can't get a better confidence boost than that I would imagine, which again leads to better sex.