Do girls come on stronger than guys? Had a weird situation last night that still has my head reeling a bit. Hubby and I walked down to the mercantile to pick up "provisions," as he calls them, and of course, I beat him there. He says he was carrying the bags so they weighed him down. I might add they were empty at the time, but that's immaterial. I don't know how many couples split up their grocery list, but he finished his half before me and was already at the register. I was coming down the aisle from the dairy and was watching him talking to the check out girl behind the counter. And I'll call her a girl, because she looked not even 20 and that's less than half his age, ok? She is leaning forward on the little stand with her arms crossed beneath her boobs and her cleavage about to spill out right in front of my goddam husband!!! I froze in my tracks as she smiled at him and he chatted her up. But when she reached out and tugged on his sleeve that was too much for me. I stormed the register and almost literally dropped the milk and eggs not really giving a damn if anything broke or not. Miss Perky immediately stood up and checked out the rest of my groceries but still she was talking to my husband!!! AND HE WAS JOKING BACK!!! I could tell he knew I was fuming but he kept on. Not only could he not keep up with me on the way home, I'm sure he didn't want to. His defense: it was harmless fun. He said I get hit on all the time and he doesn't get upset. But I've never been hit on in any store as flagrant as that! Usually a guy will compliment me, and every so often one gets persistent in their compliments, which to me is over the line and I say goodbye. But I've never had anyone, to my knowledge, show off body parts (except here) and sweet talk me. At least not in a grocery store. So the question again: are women more aggressive in their come-on tactics than men? I don't remember ever being that way.